krockerman

You are maybe right. But I did not called it the false rape culture. Because it is not. it's about a small number of women we are talking about. But even then a small group can cause alot of harm. I am not here to blame anyone but to find a systemic solution

It's not a zero sum game. Just because you care about men who got falsely accused does not mean that you don't care about rape victims. Rape can ruin the life of a women but so can false rape If we don't see both sides we will never find balance. And balance is one of fundemtal things about reality

I am not even saying that it's more or less. It could very well be the case.

The problem is that how can we know? what did those statistics base their data on? Do I think that most rape accusations are real? Yes. The problem is that it's impossible to know.

I did if you read my post. I have spoken to females that have gotten damaged from men who pushed them into sex. I will never downplay their suffering. Ofc it's good that rape is highlighted so we can solve it. The metoo moment had alot of positive effects of highlighting abuse. But everyting ins reality has both good and positive effects. The reason why I am talking about this is to bring up the other side. The suffering of the men who get's falsely accused like my friend who almost committed suicde. why is it triggering to bring up his suffering. I am not here to blame anyone I want constructive solotions. If you have than I am more than happy to hear it

It's a hard topic I know. But we need to talk about it otherwise we will never solve it

Unlike someone like john lenon he is way more edgy, rebellious, does what he wants, his music is also way more polarising John Lennon is much more sweet and soft. Much more of the nice guy kind. Who is in general more attractive to stage green girls and in what context?

May our lord and saviour elon musk invest to help us to Pluto with a Tesla rocket

Covid is not just a dream. Nothing, in Reality is 100% real or 100% illusion/dream. Covid is real to some extent

happiness = fufill desires that brings you happiness. simple as that whatever it is desires for enlightenment, relationships, hobbies, friends, nature etc

Desire, desire is the fundemental root of all suffering and joy. @Leo Gura and everyone else here are right that if you want to get rid of your suffering you should get rid of your desire because the fundamental definition of suffering is desires that is unfurfilled, But anyone here that don’t think getting rid of your desires is necessary is also right because getting rid of your desires means getting rid of your joy. Because the definition of joy is a fulfilled desire.

I want to be more sensitive to life. This means more passion, desire, love, authenticity but ofc more anger etc But I want to do it anyway. Any tips on how to do this?

Let’s say you desire Ice cream do you suffer before you are given it? Well let’s look at this you might get excited before you are given it. Maybe a little impatient but if you ask most people they will tell you that they enjoy that craveing Then you are given it and it fills you with pleasure. So buddah is wrong that desire = suffering unfulfilled desire = suffering you suffer if you crave ice cream but are not given it. If you remove your desire to eat ice cream you will remove the suffering of not getting it when you would usually crave it and the negative health consequences that come from it. But it is not desire in itself that causes suffering

They are gonna fall back as long as they follow the fundamental laws of reality. Nothing is permanent even enligtment. Even @Leo Gura has stated that even if you attain Non-duality you are gonna come back to duality at some point. That does not mean that it will happen in their life time or many many life times. But it will happen

Well you cannot that peace of mind unless you desire to have it. Otherwise you would not acually enjoy that peace. If you have no desire you can neither feel the pain of hell or the beauty of heaven. you desire that peace of mind. Once you get it you desire to keep that peace of mind. Otherwise you would have to problem to get back your desires

Well no even the most enlightend beings in reality will fall back to sleep sooner or later

Even if you awake to no-self you are gonna go back to sleep. It’s just how reality works. every being in reality has at some point realized no self yet most are far from awake now. You see the problem

Even if you dissolve egoic seeking it is like everything else it is impermanent. It’s gonna come back

No matter what you do you will always come back to seeking. You can’t escape it. Everything is impermanent

If this is true that must mean that Reality itself = suffering Because everything in reality is impermanent Whatever it is enlightenment, Ice cream or consciousness They are all impermanent

For example if you have an healthy attachment to your toys. It will give you excitment to come home after school. Your mom tells you that you will be able to play with the toys after you have done your homework. This give you motivation unhealthy attachment would be skipping school or skipping homework to play with toys

Many people use mediation practices for this

I would say it’s how you attachment to things that matter

I agree that having a few desires that are important for your soul is better than having a lot of shallow ones. Even saying that you want simpleness is a desire. You can’t escape it no matter what. You may desire to experience a state of mind that feels very desireless but it’s still not desireless just like voids are not nothing. They only seem like they are nothing but they are not actually nothing

Well still no because if you don’t fundamentaly desire to be in being you won’t be able to enjoy it while you experince it. same with playing with toys. If you don’t desire to play with toys while you are playing with toys while you are playing with goys you are not gonna enjoy it. Pure and simple. You seem to have a narrow view of desires and do not see just how fundamentaly important they are. I have spoken to a man who pretty much got rid of all of his desires. He told me it was like being a dead man walking. He did not even crave life. Sure he did not suffer at all but he Also did not enjoy anything. In absolute infinity there are places with so much beauty and joy that you can’t even imagine it. What would happen if you visited the place with no desires at all? You would not enjoy any of it, it would make no difference to you than being scorched or tortured If you have no desire nothing will excite you, nothing will make you happy but ofc nothing will hurt you either. Having Desires and having no desires are both double edge swords