Emotionalmosquito

Well that’s just wonderful

Say no more. Good looks are what get you accepted into the audition. Personality is what gets you the part. Being the friendship or relationship in this analogy. The better looking you are the easier it is to get the audition and the more opportunities you get. A below average looking person is going to have a hard time improving their social skills because no one will want to give them a chance or forgive them if they make an oopsie.

What about non-ejaculatory faps? Are those aloud?

LDAR Just kidding. Getting arrested by itself isn’t that bad. What’s bad is if they find something to charge you with. So I’ll still keep trying when opportunities arise only I’ll have to walk on eggshells so they don’t have anything that can be pressed as sexual harassment. I.e. not saying any of the outlandish stuff Leo or the rsd guys get away with. As much as I wish this could be an enjoyable process, it just ain’t realistic.

Let’s communicate our level of attraction among other things through non verbal “cues” then wonder why when the other person doesn’t know what’s up. When we could save ourselves ten times the hassle by simply using ours words like adults. Straight from the species that prides itself on being the most intelligent.

He wasn’t allowed to show romantic interest immediately because he was at work. That’s just asking to get fired. None of her actions clearly indicated interest beyond friendship either. He would have had to take it on blind assumption. The risk op would have to take to show interest is the girl getting turned off and thinking “ughh! Another guy that just wants in my pants.” Todd V says to never sexualize a hot girl because they already get so much of that already it’s annoying to them. Both parties must clearly express to one another that there is attraction. Otherwise it’s a game of mind reading and awkward moments due to not reading vague signals accurately when you could have just plainly said what you meant with words. You mean like at work?

May be true but that doesn’t stop people from getting arrested for it anyway. Such as this feller for example. His yt username was 1st person approacher and he was arrested then released shortly after on lack of charges about a year and a half ago. All it takes is a few women to feel uncomfortable and complain about it to cause you trouble. Social awkwardness/anxiety/shyness is commonly perceived as genuine creepiness when doing pickup.

I think he makes some valid points especially on marriage and gynocentrism. Though in defense of the ten people saying he’s bad, I watched a convincing video against him by Brittany Venti. Hats off to that, sir.

I need to know if I should make this investment soon because of the half off Black Friday sale. I’m considering getting the standard version. It’s the cheapest yet it’s still 300 bucks at half price. It looks pretty legit on the website but I can’t afford to burn that money if I’m not gonna use the product or know how to. Anyone who has purchased this program please tell me what you think of it.

If only this was true

Pure presence is something most people will never taste until after they’re dead. The ego is sneaky enough to send you impulses making you believe they’re pure and good. You take someone inexperienced with spirituality and tell them to be themselves, not only will they have no reference point for anything other than their current state of being, but also be very likely to act on impure animalistic impulses that they believed was acting spontaneously. This can be disastrous. For example, you might feel the sudden urge to burst out erratically dancing in a situation where it’s highly inappropriate to do so. Like maybe you’re in church and they say a verse that resonates with you so well it makes you want to bust a move.

In that case it’s literally impossible to be anything other than yourself for a single moment ever. So what’s the point in saying it?

Wow. First off, good job and best of luck mate. With any luck I’ll be in the same position soon. Few questions: What tone of voice did you use to ask her and what mood were you in? As much as you can recall, how much emphasis did you use on each word and what was your cadence like? I ask because vocal tonality is something I imagine is a massive part of whether or not a girl says yes. In that case what better chance to recruit a new member. All of the evidence would be on his side as to why it is in fact quite the opposite of stupid. Anyone who thinks that probably doesn’t know what spirituality even is and is referring to pseudo spiritualists who use it as a status symbol or escape strategy. Which one? There are so many different aspects to one’s character that this command could mean anything. If you’re being your wild adventurous warrior self, you aren’t being your calm cool laidback self. If you’re being your playful party animal self, you can’t be your abstract thinking philosophical self and so on. You only have limited tokens to invest in your stats so you can’t be everything. And does “be yourself” work for autistic people? This is part of why I think this be yourself thing is so overhyped and rather frustrating.

I don’t think much needs to be said as to why this is so sickeningly cruel. The guy in the second video had a channel where he went cycling around his town filming his sets so he could watch them later and get feedback. He ended up getting arrested and jailed literally for no other reason than being awkward with women. His game wasn’t even terribly bad. He was very direct and clear with his intent, he committed to each approach and was good at making observations. There are several other videos of him you can watch running his game on that channel. The guy in the first video was very polite and left her alone as soon as he got the message. Yet he has been full blown demonized online and even on national tv. https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-50137960 [He called one of them "pretty", tried to get her phone number and made her feel "uncomfortable" but she walked away.] Apparently calling women pretty and asking for their number is sexual harassment now. If this is how the public is going to react to guys trying to improve themselves they shouldn’t be surprised when the percentage of incels jumps from 30 to 50 in ten years time. If things continue the way they are, the schism between the sexes will reach such a critical mass it may very well be beyond repair. Just look at Japan. When did it become such a crime for men to follow their most natural instinct and what is to make of this train wreck? How are we supposed to feel safe in practicing game if all it takes is one wrong woman to make a fuss (then others will join in) resulting in a modern day tar and feathering?

Yes I should focus on making them feel safe, no doubt there. But I don’t see how that will automatically solve the problem of my safety. There are so many real creeps, or at least that’s what they’ve been told, that their default reaction is to assume shady intent from the beginning. It’s very difficult to be given a fair chance from this position. I did. Granted this case was by far the worst of the three. I included that article because in addition to the actual crimes he committed they sprinkled in stuff that shouldn’t be any big deal so as to paint as ugly of a picture as possible. Like “He called one of them "pretty", tried to get her phone number and made her feel "uncomfortable" but she walked away.” for example. He also grabbed her head and tried to kiss her. He wouldn’t have done that had he known how badly it would be received which would indicate it was more of an issue of poor calibration than malicious intent. PUA infields always record all their sets and the girls leave before they get a chance to jump in and tell them they were filmed and ask for permission to upload but that doesn’t get PUAs in trouble. I’m not sure what the big deal is with following girls around on your bike for a block before you open. It’s unlikely for a newb to have the courage to immediately approach when they spot the girl they like. If you need a moment to psych yourself up and don’t want to lose her what else can you do? @something_else I didn’t notice him being forceful about anything. He always hung up the phone when he got the message and didn’t make anyone feel trapped. Worst the guy did was lie about recording them and act with sub-optimal social skills. Not illegal. Quite the accusation there, though it may be partially true. Yes I can improve instead of doomer posting but the source of the doom makes it all the more challenging to do so. We are clearly at a disadvantage here if people are eager to jump at our throats like this for simple rookie mistakes. @Bando nice analysis though I don’t agree with all of it. You’ve got some good tips in here I’ll try to keep in mind. More like because society tends to be extremely unforgiving to those of us who don’t already know them.

Phenibut+caffeine+CBD will set you just right as long as you have a handle on the addiction potential of the pheni. Phenibut plus microdose is something I don’t think I’ve tried. Sounds like it would be very powerful. An under appreciated noot is mucuna pruriens. It converts to dopamine so that’s usually pretty helpful. I’ve had good results with it.

@mmKay I would love it if weed did that to me, unfortunately it does the exact opposite. Very low thc high cbd strains are great though. The closest thing that consistently does that for me is phenibut. Too bad you can’t use it very often. It makes me feel absolutely perfect in every single way.

I’m more of a knee kinda guy personally. Tempting but I’m not looking for a borderline heart attack horror trip lol. @Lyubov Play cops and robbers. Or if you want a more complex scenario you can play head of fbi vs leader of organized crime syndicate and take turns interrogating each other. You could also play Adam and Eve out in the woods once spring and summer rolls back around. If you want to get super freaky you can try ice water sex. Cut a hole in a frozen pond or river or just put tons of ice in the bath tub. See what you’re both made of. Use your imagination. Lol. She would either love the proposal or think it’s weird af!

I already inferred that. Same question applies. If she liked him that much it would have been as easy as touching a button for her to secure him. Just Bambi eyes and asking for his number or ask to come home with him, that’s it. There is no need for all this extra needing him to be a player complication. Why are women stuck in this paradigm of “I really want this guy but since he doesn’t know how to play my mind games I guess I can’t have him.” Ladies: If things are going well with the guy you want but he doesn’t know how to seal the deal, it is completely within your power to help him out a bit. This is insanity.

How can the girl end up losing the guy? That’s backwards. Was she not very pretty or something? A hot girl can have her pick of any guy she wants no matter what she does. Sounds like her game had to be absolutely horrendous to not get the cowboy.

And you didn’t try to press charges? If the genders were swapped in this scenario, the guy would be buried so far under the prison his bones would be discovered by archeologists three thousand years later. That’s after being severely brutalized by half a dozen chads.

@something_else Meanwhile, Leo is over here getting away with social felonies and I’m getting banned for what amounts to shoplifting a snickers bar. To be fair he also said you have to be well calibrated and non-creepy to say this stuff and that newbs shouldn’t try it. But what’s funny is I was as well calibrated and non creepy as I knew how to be when I said stuff BARLEY HALF this bad. I literally warned them I was about to steer the topic into uncharted territory and they gave me permission to continue.????? How are you supposed to know if you have the green light to keep going or not if people are going to put on an act? And how are you supposed to express yourself authentically if people are such fragile, sheltered little babies you have to walk on eggshells and even then not know if you’re treading lightly enough? He even said the sexual slavery line got him blown out but she still walked away laughing. Funny he assumes the laugh was genuine when it very well could have been faked to hide her horrified response to his remark. What exactly can you do about this? Ask every ten seconds if she’s being honest about her reactions to your presence? That would be ridiculous and creepy in itself. I’m not the only one with this problem because if I was, Leo wouldn’t have put that part in his getting laid series where he says not to say stuff you’re unsure of because security might come after you. All this being said, I will take some amount of responsibility. Law of state transference. Since I was running broken man’s game at the time, perhaps some negative energy was rubbing off on people. Again, how often do drunken retards start shit storms with each other in those environments? There is an appalling amount of negative energy already present in bars, that’s not even counting the fights. Yet they still get to keep coming back. As far as this pretending to be open to someone out of fear of how they might react if you reject them, what do those who use this tactic plan to do when the approacher asks for the number or goes for the close? At that point the entire jig is up and all your previous efforts are wasted because the guy now knows he’s being rejected. There are other problems with this tactic as well. To be effective you would have to be suspicious in this way of every single person you meet. Psychos and rapists can have just as good or better EQ as anyone, you are statistically far more likely to be victimized by someone you know than some rando and there are significantly more who are simply awkward than mentally deranged. If spergs are so commonly mistaken for creeps, that should speak volumes about the accuracy of such a threat detection system.

I’m not asking you to read the op of this thread but it’s here for reference just in case you or anyone else wants to. I’m not making this up. The ban hammer was dropped on me without me having the slightest clue I was violating any rules. I wasn’t anything close to a jackass, I was calm, expressing my thoughts clearly and using playful obnoxious humor and conversational topics similar to what you use. edit: The reason she gave me was I said some inappropriate things and made people feel uncomfortable. It’s a fucking bar, not a Chuck E. Cheese, Karen. Sure, I may not have been in the best mood so I was running broken man’s game. But that’s no reason to react so harshly. “Inappropriate” “uncomfortable” “creepy” Those are the only reasons she can come up with. When i try to point out the absurdity of this reasoning, she’s too thick headed and stubborn to hear me. So yeah.

So what I’m hearing is don’t comment on her body unless it’s positive. Like don’t caller her hammerhead if her eyes are far apart, cyclops if they’re close together, busted biscuit can if she has a tummy, fire crotch if she’s ginger, fish face if she has fish face, fridge body if she’s rectangular instead of curvy etc?