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@The Don I can relate to this Whenever I know a camera is on me I’m become self conscious and get inside my own head The best way I assume to fix that is just by being in front on a lot of camera and by trying not to overthink Eventually it’ll just be like whitenoise and you won’t even notice it’s there

@ravlondon Yeah man I know tonnes of poor, homeless, bald dwarfs that get women all the time

@Moon Tell that to all the countless number of other 50+ year old men who get young women

@Someone here Good question A lot of things are undebunkable I would say all things are really You either believe something or you don’t That belief doesn’t have to be “true” And all truth is, is another belief Solipsism is just an idea The same as others existing

@JosephKnecht None of us can ever possibly understand the struggle of that great man and godlike writer R.I.P Jk

I had to hide that previous comment lol I don’t want to get banned I was joking

@ravlondon

Well, if that’s the case, it’s about your experiences, but it also has, you could say a more overarching philosophy behind it, because as you said it’s not a very personal book And it’s written in German Than I’ve got a great name for your book ”My Struggle” What do you think? You like it?

@Godhead So you’re writing in German about the ego Are you writing about your own personal experiences with the ego, you know adversities you’ve overcome?

@Consept Cheers bud Yeah I got amazon prime Ill watch it later in the week Already listened to the JRE podcast If you like JRE, Mike had Joey Diaz on a whole back Legendary

@Meta-Man

Watch Leo and he can do the same lol

@Bazooka Jesus Hitler took the DMT Mao took the DMT Stalin took the DMT Tyson took the DMT The D The D The DMT

@EddieEddie1995 I need to watch that Leo Love video again, for why “everything we do is for love” because it seems to me that it’s faulty. I’m not avoiding relationships If the special girl comes along that’s great, I’m just not going to believe in the soul mate shit To be fair I do have a weird thing with girls where the moment I know they’ve become interested in me I lose interest Ive only ever shagged 3 girls, I’m 19 btw, so I’m not talking from a well of experience, but I relate to The saying - “I wouldn’t want to be part of any club that would have me” Because the moment I can join, I want the next best thing So maybe there’s some mental fuckery going on there Okay ? Thats sounds like some Bruce Lee shit

@Roy

@Etherial Cat You don’t, maybe there’s some rare exceptions, but you know why you dont Because men and women are different Men have an incredibly higher sex drive I can just imagine 90 Hugh downing a barrel of viagra, to get his old rotten pecker up to shoot some whisky brown semen into some poor 18 year old who thought she was going to become a star, but instead just becomes a glorified prostitute Thats the dynamic I see when I imagine old men fucking young women, I see the appeal, but just tap out of the game man, you’ve had your turn

@Preety_India

@ravlondon

@Consept Whats the documentary called? I’d would never of thought Tyson would become the guy he is today, so absolute major props to the man, he’s lived an incredible life And he’s smoking that good old DMT

@modmyth I read the posts you linked I say that as mammals and biological creatures there is nothing that we can do for purely altruistic motives, just for the benefit of others There is always a deeply primitive, biological reasoning behind all of our actions Even cemented into the very evolutionary process, is this brutal, pragmatic, efficient process by which that which doesn’t optimally fulfil our Darwinian imperative is selected out of the gene pool For example, take self sacrifice, someone who is a martyr, or a dog who dies defending its master If the act of self sacrifice had no biological benefit, than the martyr and dog have just selected themselves out of the gene pool, those traits that made them on the surface seem altruistic, but when you peer behind the curtain, they cant possibly be Of course any functional relationship should be built upon a healthy amount of reciprocity, e.g. mutual respect, desire and understanding This does not mean that you do it for unconditional reasons/freely, you do it in the hopes that you’ll receive dividends on your investment If you do treat all people with this philosophy you will otherwise soon bankrupt yourself (if you understand my analogy) What you’re saying is similar to Gandhi’s “Be the change you wish to see in the world” The issue with that is it doesn’t work, because the world doesn’t give a fuck, and will chew you up and spit you out when you attempt that shit, it’s a good philosophy for those who want to live in misery and as failures I haven’t settled for anything, I’m acting upon the way in which the world presents itself to me, and I don’t think if you look at the world with detached eyes that you’ll find it’s optimistic Maybe it’s better to live in ignorance but the truth will set you free, and I prefer freedom than bliss Biology is our current understanding of consciousness, it’s not our god, it’s the meta physical forces that are placed upon us of which we had no say and possibly could never even fathomably have a say The unconscious effects of our consciousness still exist within consciousness, it is a figment of our conscious experience, the same with the subconscious I’d argue that we are mostly subconscious and unconscious creatures, the only substantive thing that separates us from the animals is our neo cortex and higher brain, our ability to abstract and communicate effectively Besides that we are just impulsive, base biological animals Animals don’t do anything purely out of love so how could we Also How can you predict the future without looking at the past? Legitmately curious Im not looking for the best possible reality, I’m looking for reality, if there is such a thing I try to not have blinders I don’t think that I’ll ever make the idea of romance sustainable, if I ever have a long term monogamous relationship with a woman, it’ll be out of fondness, respect and mutual desire, never out of “unconditional” love, as that is not possible and I don’t expect it from her, and I’d prefer that the two of us wouldn’t lie to each other, play make believe and pretend that we’ve magically achieved some idealised version of love, that our souls are some how magically connected We’re just people, and we’re all gonna die, and be forgotten, but for the time being we can take pleasure in each others company, I think that’s more romantic than the shit we’re sold today

@The observer I will its dark down here

@F A B They reach back because they’re not sure if they made the right call ditching you, which means you’re doing something right But it also means your not there too priority brother Relationships are all about give and take You love her as much as she loves you Whats best I would say is you love her slightly less than she loves you, that way she’s chasing you and she’s worried that you’ll lose interest Detachment is not something you choose it’s something you become, you become detached by not being to needy and clingy And you do that by knowing youre hot shit and any girl would be lucky to have you And if they don’t think your hot shit they can fuck off and you’ll find a girl who does

@The observer List the assumptions and I’ll elaborate on them No, it is like heroin, they share many similarities https://www.discovermagazine.com/mind/in-the-brain-romantic-love-is-basically-an-addiction https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/loves-effect-on-the-brain-is-as-powerful-as-heroin-2015-10%3Famp Romantic love is highly addictive You don’t feel complete with romantic love, you become very dependent upon it, so much so that many men off themselves when it gets shattered or they go on detox Also my intention when using the heroin analogy wasn’t to focus on romantic love’s addictive properties, of which it has many, my focus was on the high Romantic love is a high That is all it is, not some airy fairy bullshit Just the primitive biological urge to fuck and have kids Whats bad is dependency and the need for someone else to you fulfil No one is born completely happy. It’s a work-in-progress, and heroin can help boost that process to happiness. If you can’t be sober and happy that’s fine. Your drug dealer will understand and sell you more heroin. You sound like a junkie trying to justify his addiction. Just because you are born dependent doesn’t mean you should stay in a state of infancy. We are adults, those of us who are self actualised do not need any crutches, we can stand on our own two feet. Romantic spouses are extremely possessive, that’s the entire point of monogamy. Of course you are obliged to act in certain ways and they love will you much less if you don’t conform, hence my point, romantic love is a bullshit lie, that we’re sold to breed. You can’t both have conditions and no conditions Yes exactly, you can’t have love without conditions, that’s why romantic love is bullshit, you just refuted what you said on the previous paragraph Yes we require conditions, and what are the conditions TRANSACTIONAL, not because someone looks at you soul and love you for you, no they love you for what you give them, no moment you stop giving that the moment you’re worthless There is no one There are no souls mates

@F A B You haven’t given any information for us to know why she’d lose interest buddy You just answered you’re own question @Roy is right, it is needy When you try to lock a girl down it’s showing you’re desperate, it’s her job to lock you down Women are repulsed when men are more attached than they are, that’s your issue buddy, you’re too attached Why would you be making this post if you weren’t My recommendation is to see more women, you’re not in a relationship right now, it should be easy if you can