My name is Alex and I need some advice. My mother and father lived together with my three brother's untill I graduated highschool. When I decided to move out I did not have anywhere to go, so my brother and I were going to get an apartment together. My grandmother decided that she would buy us a place to live however my brother doesn't drive so he decided to stay at our family home where he could get a ride to work everyday. That left the place for me. However, I cannot afford the rent by myself so my mother( wanting to get away from my father) moved in with me). At first I did not mind living with her but over time she started developing hatred toward my father and would vent it to me in the form of verbal abuse. She has threatened to kick me out numerous times stating that when my grandmother passed away the condo is hers and she can do with it as she pleases. My middle brother didn't get along with my father at home too well, he would argue, and yell. At one point he pushed him into the wall creating a huge hole and eventually caused my dad to go to the ER for sholder pain. So my father told him he could not live at home anymore so having nowhere to go he moved in with my mother and I in our two bedroom condo. Having three people plus a dog in a two bedroom condo can be very crouted. Everytime I did something wrong that didn't please my mother she would threatened to take my keys away. About a couple of days ago I was walking up the stairs to get in and i herd my mother open the door and say "that's it, I'm done, pack your $hit and get out. I asked her why and she told me that I wasn't living up to her expectations. Being furiated I just couldn't take it anymore, pulled the keys off my keyring, put them in her hand and said goodbye. I was now homeless, I spent the night in my car for about two days before going back to my childhood home to stay. I was watching Leo's YouTube clip about toxic people and all of his points matched the behavior of my mother, he also mentioned that you should try to cut toxic people out of your life, but I am having a hard time trying to, because she is my mother afterall. I feel that my mental and emotional health isn't worth it. I currently am homeless living in my car, I plan on going back to my home to live with my father untill I can find a place to live.
Thank you for listening to my very long story. God bless you and have a merry Christmas
