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It worked for me. People these days tell me how confident and good social skills i have, when in reality i despise being social and perfer being alone. It just took a lot of suffering and putting myself out there to seem like a confident guy with good social skills. It can be brutal sometimes, but thats where i have got my biggest growth in life.

I am working on it with diet and gym. Then again how do you define a good phyique? Are you talking about pro bodybuilder physique with six pact and large arms or normal people?

Thats bullshit, if someone liked me for my physical appearence i would not want to be friends with them. I dont care about my friends looks, i like them for their personality.

Has happened to me a lot, but i just keep trying. I made a lot of friends by trial and error. Dont waste your time on people that dislike you and focus on finding someone that will like you. They exist just keep socializing and don't give up because of someone that dislike you. Making friends is also just a numbers game. No matter how good social skills you have someone will just not like you and thats life.

@lostingenosmaze Here it is

How do you tell if they are good with women, did you just ask?. I thought you said you only find them on online forums and the telegram group you posted a while ago. I have asked people that are good with girls to teach me, but they just tell me to drink alcohol and give bad advices. They dont even know how to teach it. It is all unconscious for these guys that are good with girls.

So i have finally been able to delete all social media at age 22. These include: Tik tok, snapchat, X/Twitter, instagram, reddit and facebook. I feel so free, no more bullishit cringe on my phone anymore. Social media is not good for your brain and just a distraction. I do use youtube, but i use it to watch educational channel like Leo, RealLifeLore and The Organic Chemistry Tutor. Also youtube has better music then Spotify. Youtube is the only good social media in this world if you use premium youtube. No social meida = freedom. What do you think of social media? Is it bad or good? Persoanlly i see no benefits with social media unless you going to use it to earn money.

What does that mean?

@Keryo Koffa I have not attacked anyone, this just my prespective. Why do you say i am trouble?? Have i done something to offend you? If i did i am sorry.

Why is everyone obsessed with climbing the spiral dynamics ladder? Why not take your sweet time at each stage and master each stage to perfection. I feel like there is a lot we can still learn and intergrate from lower stages like red, blue and orange. Personally i dont want to rush it. I will take my time with each stage.

@Princess Arabia I do agree to some degree what you said about how you use social media, but in my experience its it very easy to get into endless scrolling. Also i have tendency to start comparing myself to others, so the only soloution i found out was to delete it all and work on myself.

yes, why?

Does not count. it is at least better quality then reddit. I have deleted all low quality social media. This forum and youtube i consider high quality social media.

i dont mind

@Alex4 So in order to go from stage orange to stage green you have to do a lot of stage orange stuff right? Like to get rich, start a business and have lot of casual sex. You just do it so much you get bored of it and move on to higher levels of the SD. I feel like this could maybe take 10 years at least or maybe more. So i dont unerestimate the work you have to do to get to stage green. So is this the correct way to go about it? I would like to know how you did it.

So you dont experience any negative effects from cigarette like nausea and being dizzy?

I hate the nicotine buzz, it only make me dizzy and vomiting. Why would anyone crave those effects?

Is it stronger then shrooms and LSD. I am curious since i think shrooms and lsd are bit too strong for me even at low dose. I want to try a weaker more chill pshchedelics that dont feel uncomfortable on the body. So is 2C-B a good idea? What is your experience with 2C-B? How is it different from Shrooms and LSD? Also is pill form a good idea if you want to take it. I usally prefer oral consumption. Also if it comes in poweder form can i eat it?

As someone with dyslexia i would perfer YT videos.

So when i approach a girl, she will tell me she has a boyfriend, but she keeps smiling and staring at me for a long time. Even when i run out of things to talk about. No way she is intrested when she has a boyfriend right. Then she will want me to hug her. Then she invite me to hang out with her and her friends. So what does it mean? Any insights into this behaviour. Btw this was during the night at a saturday and friday.

I rejected to hang out with her since i feel like it would be highly unlikely she would come home with me and a waste of time if she had a boyfriend. Although i kinda regretted that i walked away, since it would have been an great opportunity to improve my social and flirting skills.

yes, and her friends in her group came over to introduce themselves to me. Bruh ofc i talked to her, i was the one that approached her on the street, on the way to the club.

yes.

Without hope, what is the point of life. No hope=death. This is why i always stay hopeful in life.

I don't know. Do you know?