ivankiss

@Someone here Ok

drugs and hoes, obviously.

If you do the work correctly, you will inevitably realize that there is nothing "spiritual" and nothing "woo woo" about any of it. It's very simple, direct and obvious. It is about realizing and then abiding as the true nature. Consciousness. Nothing spiritual or mystical about it. It's just conscious. Yet... it is magical. What you demonstrate in your original post is already a lot. Self - awareness, awareness of your limitations, curiosity, honesty, authenticity, open - mindedness... Those are all very, very important when it comes to "doing the work". Focus on direct experience. Investigate, explore the depths and dimensions of your being. At some point you should arrive to the source of it all.

resistance

Go for a run or a walk, do some stretches... it should exhaust itself. Your nervous system is inflated. That is why you are experiencing this. You need to find a way to release tension and relax.

Certainly much more than .001% lol

By "you" I mean "I", or "he", or "she", or "we", or "they".... It's all the same. There is only ever pure, direct, undisturbed, uninterrupted consciousness. Anything other than that, is some form of a distortion. Alteration. Delusion. So here it goes... This is just how deluded and asleep you are. These are all the layers that need to be peeled off - if you will. - You were never born. You will never die. - You have no name. No age. No location. - You are not a human being - You are not an alien, or stardust, or any other stupid thing like that - You do not live inside of a body, you have no body - You are not an organism, not a mechanism - You do not live on a planet, somewhere in the universe - There is no outer space, no universe, no planets, no stars - You have never experienced movement or time.... in fact: - You have never ever experienced anything at all, and never will - You have never heard the voice of another, never felt the touch of another - You have never thought a single thought - Never felt a single feeling - Never perceived anything at all - You are not "all alone in the entire universe" - You are not a prisoner of a solipsistic mind - You are not the second coming of Christ - You are not a hero, not a messiah, not a saviour - You are not a martyr - You have no purpose - You do not know a single thing about anything at all, and never will The list could go on and on, but I think this is enough. You should get the point. Those are all just ideas or beliefs about yourself. Let those go now and awaken. Do not fight them. Do not try to prove them wrong. Do not argue about them with fools on the internet. Just simply let them go. Kind of forget about them. Breathe them away. Forget that you're human. That you have a name, an age, that you have a wife and three kids, that you live in some country on some planet, that you're running a business or whatever else. That's all delusion. It might seem super duper real, and you might have all this "evidence" within your reach... But I assure you, none of it exists. If you take any of these ideas and really try to get to the bottom of them... You will find nothing. They're grounded in nothing. They simply do not exist. Once you see through it all, it will be impossible not to see things for what they are. Even while you're dreaming and playing the game of life. Here's how you know you're only a step or two from "enlightenment": There is only ever thought, feeling and perception in "direct experience". This becomes crystal clear to you. In actuality, you only ever think, feel or perceive. That's all there is. If you think you eat, shit, piss, fuck, run, walk, sleep, work, etc.... You are sound asleep. Those are, again, just thoughts and feelings. You do not do shit, ever. You are just conscious. Thoughts, feelings, perceptions... None of it is yours. They simply arise within consciousness. A step or two beyond this "state" (which is also an idea) is full-blown enlightenment, or God - realization, or whatever you wanna call it. And what is that? It's pure, direct, undisturbed, uninterrupted consciousness. Which is the same as Being(ness). Everything just is. Everything is being. Nothing arises, nothing comes or goes. There is only pure isness. No form, no thought, no feeling, no sense. Only beingness. Only consciousness. Forget what's said and awaken.

There is no experience in The Absolute. Experience only exists as an alteration/distortion/delusion. There is no relative, in actuality. That's a delusion. There is only Beingness. What you call "relative truth", falls into one of these three categories: thought, feeling, perception. Life, or the game of life, can still be respected and enjoyed. I'm not saying you should stop living. Rather, just see things for what they are, and then whatever. Kind of off topic, but ok. So what? I have studied the "feminine" approach to awakening, probably more than anyone here. The feminine is all about inclusion, unification, forgiveness, compassion, kindness, holding space, nurturing, etc. While the masculine is about overcoming, transcending, deconstructing, etc. Mind and Heart. The two do not negate each-other. In fact, it could be said that there is a third aspect, which is the child. All three in one being. But again, this is not the Absolute. This is only relevant while walking the path. It shouldn't be an experience at all. You could understand that there is no body, but that's not nearly the same as abiding as pure, formless consciousness. Let's wait and see, I guess. You. Just googled it for the first time ever lol. Cool.

The solution to solipsism is just to stop believing in it. Stop thinking about it.

It's this: But also... Leo.

Noted.

I made that very clear and obvious in my original post, if you were to read more carefully.

I'd not recommend texting during daytime in the early stages. Try to build a habit of texting right before bedtime or something like that. That's when you're going to catch more of her attention. Avoid texting before she's going out or while she's at a party, etc. Unless she shows strong interest and maybe is looking to bail the scene or secure a guy after the party has ended. I guess it all depends on what your intentions are. Try not to do all the work. If she's texting back like she's bored to death and couldn't be less interested in you, then the last thing you should do is bombard her with compliments and cheesy paragraphs. There has to be a pretty much even exchange of words. Tune into the vibe. Know when to take the convo deeper, when to make it sexier, when to make it funny or serious, etc. Try not to "play" her too much. It can be super annoying. Show her that you are a genuine, sane, interesting guy who is not afraid to make his intentions clear.

You only know because you once thought.

It's being conscious enough and knowing how to handle any emotion that arises, instead of being sucked into the heat of the moment and making a mess. It is not the absence of difficult emotions. Rather the ability to tackle and transform them. Or even, hold space for them until they naturally dissolve.

Checked her out once or twice, idk, she's giving off crazy vibes. Would not recommend.

Lol no. 'Veil of perception'

And I mean The God. The real Big G. The Infinite. If you do not feel smaller than a grain of sand in comparison, you know no God. Let alone are being God. Even if (and I highly doubt it)... ESPESIALLY IF you have realized yourself as all there is... As God... You must learn to be humble enough to serve the will of God. Which is ultimately your will, yes, but not until you become conscious and mature enough to "handle that kind of power". Until then... You better start talking to the big guy. You better say a prayer or two now and then. You better open up. Ask for strength and guidance. Clarity. And I don't mean in a biblical manner. This has nothing to do with religion. Unless you wanna call it your own religion. I guess that's cool. What I mean is... talk to God as if you're talking to your truest friend. The one being that never turned its back on you. Talk to God as you would talk to your one true love. Talk to God about everything. If you think you can hide a single thought from God... You are being very funny. You cannot hide anything. It's impossible. So might as well start practicing 100% conscious honesty with God. This will of course include lots of nastiness too. Don't worry, God understands. Just earlier, I was feeling so shit and I was so fucking pissed, that I flipped off the sky. And it felt great. I could almost hear God laughing. God loves you. You are fucked up because you were designed to be that way. You are a perfect, unique, beautiful pile of shit. Embrace it. You cannot not have a relationship with God, as long as wanna live life and play this lovely, messed up game. When you talk to a random stranger on the street: you're talking to God. When you're talking to your friend, your boss, your mother, your child... You get the point. All God. With or without you being aware of it. Absolute duality? Anyone ever used those words before like this? Whatever... I think it's obvious what is meant here. You and God only. That's the name of the game. (ps. If you are enough of a deluded, arrogant dickhead, and you think there's nothing above you and you cannot be touched... well.. part of me feels deep sadness for you being that blind and ignorant. And another part would love sitting down and watching life beating the crap out of you. Absolutely devastating you. Forcing you down on your knees and into submission. I would enjoy the crap out of that. Hated it when it was happening to me though lol... Don't push too far. You have no idea what you're messing with.)

Distinction is possible because: - thinking - perception

I am the first one who needs to take my own advice. I am thr first one that I'm criticizing in threads like this, even if I'm pointing my finger towards this 'you' character. Take it or leave it. It's never my intention to shove my ideas down anyone's throat. But if you do start mindlessly and foolishly opposing what's being said, I am most likely going to kick your ass - spiritually, of course. I am very much in the mood for it these days. Don't hate me, hate the game.

@How to be wise You are forgetting:

It's only sad if you see yourself separate from the "divine plan". It's your divine plan, your creation. But simultaneously you are not deluded enough to think that you can wrestle a bear, just because you have realized yourself as all there is. It's so stupid that this has to be even mentioned. If I was to point a gun at your face it would be super clear in an instance where is this 'you' and where its place is. You cannot see it because there is nothing but it. Everything you do or do not point out, is it. No, I am just not retarded enough to deny the basic needs and purpose of the so called 'body'. It's one thing to be lost in identity, and another to see things for what they are and simply let them be, without endlessly and foolishly negating them. I did not bring up the word 'ego' once in this topic. Imaginary or not, it only seems to be bothering you. Also, it's not like imagination is like... pretty much everything. It's been years since I did psychedelics, but cool. Thanks, no thanks. I am not looking for new methods or practices. I am perfectly clear on who or what I am. And I also know my place. Haha, classic passive-aggressive spiritual ego. "Namaste, love and light and fuck you, you ignorant sleepwalker!"

@Javfly33 You are so blind it hurts to witness. This has nothing to do with christianity or any other religion. It has nothing to do with sin, guilt, inferiority, superiority, morality, etc. The fact that you see it that way tells me how (not) awake you are. - If I must be a dickhead to be heard and understood... You serve the Will of God because there is nothing else in existence. Because you realize the intricacy and the perfection of God's divine plan. Because you know that it is ultimately all your Will. Because you are not retarded and you can tell an apple from the tree. Because you are not a zen devil and you are not denying the fact that you care for your own survival, that you relate, that you have beliefs and ideas and feelings and urges and so on. You are not in Godmode all the time = You are not abiding as pure, undisturbed, uninterrupted, heart-centered consciousness - devoid of any fragmentation, devoid of thought, devoid of feeling, devoid of perception. You simply are not abiding as God - consciousness. You are just pretending to know shit about it. Big difference. Know your place. If or when you happen to transcend it all, trust me, you won't be here debating with me about nonsense. But as long as you are as you are right now, and you relate, and you perceive and you filter and believe and think and eat and shit and piss... You are far from where you think you are.

@Javfly33 I see... You're trying to be humbled... I'll talk to God abou it