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I'm not so much concerned about finances as much as I am concerned with just how different our core values, beliefs and worldviews are. She did contribute in the past. And I'm sure she would in the future. It's really not an actual money issue in my eyes. Rather, beliefs about money, gender roles, political views, etc. That's what's bugging us. We have, most of the time, completely opposite views on everything. And we are both (too) strongly opinionated on everything. It's equally as stimulating and arousing as it is annoying and frustrating. We do tend to find common ground, quite quickly... But a few things are just like a brick fucking wall. We cannot move past them. They might as well end up being dealbreakers.

Except that I've been dating this woman for a year, she lives with me rent free, drives my car while I work... and yeah, she's currently has no income. She studies and she teaches English, basically for free. I was completely fine with things, until she brought up some of her reasonings and laid out a few things very bluntly. I don't really feel like she's using me. She has money sitting around... but she'd much rather spend my money than hers. That's clear as day.

Yeah, fair point. Well one just said it to me a couple of days ago. Word for word. And I believed her.

Even though it might be extremely tempting to enter the market now and ride the wave, I would definitely say it's not a smart idea. It is not a good time to neither buy nor sell gold right now. Let the dust settle down. The picture should get cleaner within the next few days or weeks.

Are you guys seeing this?! Are your charts open?! Gold has never ever, in the history of ever, been more expensive than it is right now!

Yeah... I mean, it sucks, but it's not like I lost a leg or anything. I'll live. I'm doing much better than in my previous relationship. We'll see where it goes. Obviously, there's a lot to like and appreciate about this girl, otherwise I wouldn't be with her. Not to mention her phat juicy ass. I'm all up for discussion, negotiation, compromise, etc. But when someone declares something outrageous like this... it's rather shocking, to say the least.

@Yimpa I'm sure he's into a lot of things I'd never be into. It's only natural.

No, ass hair is a turnoff for me. A little bit is fine or tolerable I guess, but I'd prefer no ass hair at all.

I love long, thick, preferably curly hair too. Definitely a turn on. Has to be clean and well nurtured though. An even bigger turn on is... pussy hair. Fucking love that shit. But again, has to be nicely maintained/trimmed. Not into huge bushes all over the place. That's a turnoff.

Glad to hear that, I guess

Thank you for your permission lol. Haha, no, but seriously, I'm sure I'm not the only straight guy who's fed up by people trying to get into their head and make them question themselves. I've been hit on by dudes quite a few times... One of my co-workers is gay and tends to cross the line too. It's just nt cool. I have no issues with gay or bi people as they are. It's how they usually approach me that I have an issue with.

Haha, no worries. Nothing I didn't hear before. You do sound a bit like my gf though. She's bi and she's trying to make me question my sexuality. She's also a lowkey feminist, and often hates men... not sure where you stand on that. Point is, I have no issues with anyone fucking anyone. I think it's all fine. But what I like to fuck, is an attractive female. Wanna hear something even more mind - blowing? I love eating ass, yes. But fucking an ass.. is an even bigger turn on. I absolutely have a thing for anal. And I absolutely have no desire to fuck a dude in the ass, or be fucked by another dude. Pretty straightforward.

Ugh... My bad. I read "if you are" instead of "if you are not". I guess ignore what I said lol.

Yeah, one would kind of naturally think that, right? But no. I feel zero attraction towards male asses. Not in denial, not supressing, it simply does not arise in me. Would eat my girl's ass all day long though. Yass! For sure. I think it does not matter, or play a role. But have to say, American, huh?... yeah, it does not surprise me. Phat juicy asses are nearly glorified over there. It's definitely a culture thing, too... Like Brazil, for example.

I do too, but I was mainly excited (shocked) from a technical analysis standpoint. As I said, not something you see everyday on the chart. It came out of nowhere and it was massive. Will look into what you shared and reply on the matter later. Thanks!

Yeah, unfortunately, my gf is not into eating ass, so all I can say is... it's been a while. But rimming does feel great, indeed. I fucking lose it at a sight of a nice butt. Big phat butt, small heart - shaped butts, all kinds of shapes and sizes. No ass, or "ugly ass" is a big turnoff. I obviously appreciate the beauty of titties, too. A nice pair can easily achieve the same effect as a great ass. I'd be equally as aroused and in awe. But preference - wise... Yeah, booty. All the way. I can be perfectly ok with no boobs or very small boobs, but no way I can be ok with no ass. Could be, yes. I do not tend to question too deeply my natural, sexual impulses. I think it's much more raw, real, but also fun that way. You know... keeping the head out of the way. As far as my sexuality goes, I question things that I notice are somehow limiting or debilitating me. Or worse, hurting me or others. In that case, yes, I investigate and try to get to the bottom of things. But if it's just the animal in me that wants to come out and live... I let it take over. So far so good.

Absolutely. Eating my girlfriend's ass is the essence of ecstasy for me. Boobs are great. But I'm definitely an ass guy. Eastern - European, if that says anything.

@FourCrossedWands Yeah, you're right

Everyone is conscious(ness).

It's so cool how I asked for zero advice and got 2... and a half lol. Anyone trading gold here? Anyone sane? It would be cool to connect on the topic.

If you have a heart, witnessing your old self dying, is the most heart - breaking experience in existence. I imagine it can be compared to holding your dying child in your arms, seeing it in the deepest of pain... suffering, struggling to breathe, gripping to the last touch of your hand... That is how it feels in my experience, at least. This thought strike me earlier, while admiring some of the "great ones". My personal heroes. I couldn't help myself but notice, that throughout the years, some of them kept their spark... and some lost touch with it. It's only natural, one would think... And it is, yes. But the insight that I had, which can be supported by various evidence, was that those who kept their spark, managed to somehow integrate their old self... and those who lost it, rejected their old self. Most of these "heroes" went through all kinds of challenges and struggles... Some own it to this day. And some talk about it as if it wasn't even them. As if it was a different lifetime. A different hero. I cannot help myself but notice the disconnection. The rejection. The shame. The guilt. The regret. That is why they lost "that something". Because they threw out a big chunk of themselves, in an attempt to separate themselves from it and become someone new. Ever seen this? I'm sure many can relate. I'm also sure many arguments can be made against this. Some probably valid, too. But ultimately, I think that's what it comes down to. Will you integrate or reject your "old, flawed" self? That's what makes you have that spark in your eyes. That's what makes you have that special something, that nobody can really point their finger at. That's the magic. Die to yourself. Die a million times, if needed. Be there for yourself, every moment of your darkest hour. Death is only natural, as is birth. Rejection, separation... not so much, arguably.

@universe Yes! It's beautiful!

There's too many... but these came first to mind: Absolute masterpieces... and undeniably sexy.

Not my style