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@Mason Riggle Careful with that kind of mentality. I understand it can be very liberating; but I'd argue you must balance and ground that realization. Understand the other side of the picture. Which is taking maximum ownership, responsibility, action, etc. Yes it's all doing itself. And yes you must participate. Initiate, even.

@bejapuskas Certainly. Like how you put that. And thanks again. I think you kinda understand where I'm coming from with this. Not saying it was the highest thing to do; but sometimes you can cause a greater impact by 'descending' down and distorting things a bit. Many people do not speak the lovey-dovey language. Especially on the mainstream dating scene. They have no clue what Oneness actually is and how it plays itself out. So this kind of stuff can grab their attention easier and (possibly) direct them in the right direction. I was open to gaining a deeper understanding of this, too. From the get-go. But I cannot reason with the unreasonable. I'm not interested in that, either. I emphasize speaking my mind with as little filters as possible these days. Standing my ground no matter what. And doing that without hurting anyone's feelings is a bit of an art. There must be a right balance between not giving a fuck about what others think and perceive but also being considerate and compassionate. Open for suggestions, criticism, etc. Mastering that is a journey. So that's what's up with me. It's funny how this forum always tends to focus on the messenger instead the message. It all comes back to you, baby @Moon To me 'master' or 'sir' is much hotter. But again; this is not just about the word. I get that most people are just going along with it and don't give a fuck. Not the point of this thread. @Zeroguy Whatever tickles your pickle, man.

@MatteO22 @bejapuskas Look, guys, I understand where you're coming from and I appreciate your effort. It was just a low quality post. Meant more for fun than anything else. I was not aware of how that might trigger or hurt some people. I do have my opinions about the topic and I certainly could express that in a nicer way. It's not like I'm not capable of doing that. It's just that it's not how I chose to go about it this time. I have plenty of other serious, heart-centered posts here. So what if I say a thing or two that's inappropriate, here and there. Part of my journey is allowing myself to do just that now. In reasonable measures.

You might be onto something there I know how to be dominant and assertive. And even a dick - if needed. And I do have a strong sense of right/wrong. What I don't do is bully or abuse people. It's just not who I am. Provoking and poking for a 'higher cause'? Sure. But not attacking or abusing. I find miy original post funny. It's meant to be a more loosy goosy post. But also; a nudge or a hint.

@MatteO22 Yes, I get that. Not judging or - as you put it - hurting people would be the healthiest way to go about this - or anything else. But that's not always how life unfolds. Sometimes I judge people and the shit they do. If someone tells you they don't ever judge anyone; they're full of shit.

Look... Some of you people here might know something I don't. And that's ok. If you like it and know why you're doing it; cool, go fuck your daddy. Or be someone's daddy. Yeah I'm lowkey judging you all and telling you you're kinda sick, but so what? If I enjoy doing something; there's little to nothing anyone can say or do to stop me. So why should you stop? Certainly not because some guy said something on the internet. If triggered; laugh it off and keep doing your shit. If you have a valid argument; share that in a reasonable manner. Anything bellow that simply cannot be taken seriously. What I'm trying to understand here (although I kinda lost interest by this point) is why people try to turn their lover into a parent figure. To me it's seems that it's because they did not have those needs met in their childhood. At what point, how and why does it turn into a sexual thing - I don't know. But I find it kinda twisted. It's just me. What I do find very hot tho is the sub-dom dynamic in general. Just don't fucking involve your family into the roleplay, for the love of God haha. I like being transparent on this forum... Last night I had some crazy, out-of-this-world sex with a very submissive girl. She's 20. I'm 27. Obviously; she's looking for someone older and more dominant. She mentioned she's into this guy who's 45. So yeah, haha, there's that. Obvious signs. But here's the thing... I ain't cooking for her and doing her laundry. I ain't thinking of her teenage problems constantly and trying to solve them for her. I'm not parenting her. I'm not her daddy. Not in the bedroom and not outside of it. I'm just an older, more experienced guy who know how to fuck her good. What exactly is going on in her mind - I don't know. Who knows what kind of a story she's got going on there. But as long as she respects our agreement; I've got nothing to complain about. Maybe I'm being a hypocrite, yes... Or a devil - if you will. But can you blame me? I like me some good sex. And as long as we ain't hurting each-other, or fucking up our psychology - it's a green light to me.

Lost in thought. That's why.

I don't have an advice atm. Just wanted to tell you all how awesome you are

@Heart of Space You don't have to educate me, dude. Just stop wining and describe what exactly is bugging you in a few sentences. What's your problem - other than I personally? I'm cool with being ignorant of something or in the wrong. But at least try making some sense and not just rage mindlessly.

@The0Self Awesome, thanks for adding that. Personally; I kinda dislike the whole snapshot thingy. I had a few unpleasant experiences - to say the least

@gettoefl Which doesn't mean I'm against partying ??

@Mason Riggle Is knowing your hair grows the same as being conscious of it growing, right now?

@Mason Riggle You are already making The Sun shine. But you're not conscious of how exactly you're doing that. That's the difference.

@Eternal Unity Awesome!

@Mason Riggle Absolutely; no. Relatively; maybe. Point is; you become conscious of it.

@Mason Riggle That is a half-baked awakening - I'd say. There is you. All of this is you. And it is only happening automatically until you become conscious it's happening out of your infinite Will. The limited 'I' - as in, the thought or belief - can be in the way while doing this work. But 'I' as the absolute is transparent and infinite. It's Truth.

@vladorion I guess you could argue that, yes. In that sense; consciousness in general is not God. But I think it's pretty obvious what I'm pointing towards here. Don't get too stuck up on the words I choose.

@Mason Riggle Well, yeah. You are reality. And no it's not doing it all by itself. By itself; it's more often than not (unconsciously) adding layers to it.

Nope. In this context; by 'doing the work' I mean peeling away the layers of belief/thought that you project onto reality. Stripping it naked. Switching from object-awareness to God consciousness. 'Just be yourself' has its place too. But it's not what this thread is about.

@Mason Riggle Again, what you saying is true, but the work must be done nevertheless. And the work is not telling yourself 'I'm already enlightened, there's nothing to do, nowhere to get.' Regarding the method; It is quick for me since I'm familiar with it. Someone who's just starting out might be having a more difficult time.

@StarStruck Yeah, my original post is meant to be a bit provocative. But I ain't bullying anyone here - like @Heart of Space is claiming. And I also got my shit under control. I made my point clear. I think it's (more often than not) a toxic dynamic. That's it.

I had the same issue. Was surprised to find out that things are not unfolding in a linear fashion. Pick your top 3 things and be really consistent with those. The rest will fall into its place naturally.

It keeps blowing my mind. I think I already know quite a few things about it, but I feel like there's much, much more. I'd like to understand it deeper and conceptualize it more clearly. Please share what comes to mind! Thanks!

@Kalo I got a bit dizzy reading that Cool. Whatever works for you.

@Mason Riggle You have to do the work. No one else. And the work is increasing consciousness - if you will. Use the methods you see fit.