Inliytened1

If you realize reality is Infinity there can only ultimately be one. Many is the fragmentation of the one which can be said to be the same as the one. Hence duality is non-duality.

Then he should put it in his book if he is a teacher. I just mentioned in another thread that suffering is a key aspect of awakening. Without drugs. So if it takes a million broken hearts or sitting upon an icy mountain top naked - do it.

Your paper will be frowned upon no different than Copernicus was frowned upon when he said the sun went around the earth. Stick to your guns and write the paper that Consciousness is fundamental. You know the Truth whether your philosopher professor doesn't is immaterial. So write it. You will never be able to debunk materialism in the eyes of university but it shouldn't stop you. At least they won't crucify you.

There was an episode of Leo's and I dont remember which. But he stood baffled. Absolutely baffled that no one else understands this stuff. And to me its absolutely beyond baffling. That a you tuber has to be the one to teach this stuff. Its mind boggling. But it is a culture paradigm locked.

You forget that it is a culmination of other stages plus going beyond. Its not some special people walking around its highly developed intellectuals yes - but also mysticism must be a part of stage turquoise thus it is a very distinctive part because so few others have become mystics.

Its not incorrect not to either. You have one foot in Turquoise when you become a mystic.

Really- haven't checked in a while. Might be time to revisit the book list. There are some gems there for sure.

The only other awakened beings i saw was Ralston and Marcus Aurelius. Ralston's book of not knowing was stellar but I didnt even finish it because I awakened from Leo's stuff alone. The other books I read from his list were Gandhi and Marcus Aurelius- also enlightened. There is nothing from Rupert Spira or Spinoza on the book list either. These teachers will only take you so far but they cannot take you as far as full awakening/solipsism as God

You don't need anyone's approval.

Id say women are the most picky about height though and men do not care about that. They want to look up to a man. A short guy unless hes extremely handsome has a very hard time regardless. Its a bad stigma in the US.

You have to look at it holistically. Here's a perfect example. There are many that get away clean with murder..legally there was no evidence found anywhere. Does this mean they get off scot-free? On the surface yes. But perhaps they wake with nightmares everyday over what they did. It will come back to bite in some fashion. So holistically he is correct over a long term not short term. You arent going to see it in all cases. There is always a price to be paid when you make a deal with the devil.

Actual enlightenment is the transcendence of suffering and of all worldly desires and fears. Not conceptual enlightenment of which you speak. Yes conceptually you can get there too. I'm sure with your wisdom, though not enlightened, you have reached a state of non-suffering. But to really transcend the fear of death and what lies beyond only spiritual enlightenment (actual awakening) can resolve. Nevertheless- one should not seek the transcendence of suffering. As you point out in embracing it one can ride the wive. Suffering is a natural progression. There have been many who have used suffering as a path to enlightenment. It is as natural as the air you breathe.

Really good advice. Woman want you to appear off the cuff. So even if you need to turn to theory you should be doing it off the cuff. A textbook can't teach you how to be funny. You have to just have that.

He's right though that the average man won't even engage unless she's sexually attractive to him. But the main thing for a woman is the sexual connection. So if you establish that it takes a lot for her to lose that. Which is kind of ironic since its the man that thinks with his dick. I know that this is beyond the dating scene itself but if as a man you establish that she will want you. Its getting to that point that is the initial challenge for a man. At least a woman will give you the time of day if there is some attraction. Woman don't initially base it on looks alone but something has to attract them. So in that sense its the same but woman have a wider spectrum when it comes to type of attraction. It doesn't always have to be physical. Though if you go on dating sites it will always be physical first regardless of gender. That kinda shows you that physical appearance comes first.

Only as far as the bedroom. Otherwise its the same.

Bro. Again. Not a textbook thing. Read the room. Read her. If you feel a vibe you make a move. On the date you feel that out. She will let you know. If she wants to start out with coffee do that. If she wants a drink do that. You're overthinking everything. Just talk to her and entertain her. It doesn't matter the scenery or the type of date. Let her choose and then entertain as necessary.

Worst advice ever. You shouldn't even be thinking about looks because girls will feed off of your confidence not your looks. Its not about boldness its about being entertaining the masculinity should be there underneath the scenes

Its really sad how superficial women are. If you're not over 5"9 and handsome you are just tossed to the side. Now to your point both height and looks can be overcome by personality. (Hopefully you have at least two of the three or youre really fucked) Making them laugh seems to be a huge stength. And further locked in by performance in bed. Performance in bed is probably the biggest. Getting that far aside If you can make a woman cum you have her as long as you want her.

It goes full circle. Suffering is spiritual growth. All roads lead to Rome. That which seeks to avoid suffering is the ego but in that avoidance the ego meets suffering. Its extremely counterintuitive. Embrace it.

Get a few beers in you and u will be much looser. Do not want to bring your baggage with women don't care. Especially if they're at a bar. Just be confident in yourself. Like you said they can smell a lack of confidence and self esteem issues a mile away.

I can tell u this. He's a sick twisted bastard But that's what makes it God. God wouldn't just be simple. .

I don't think I was projecting onto you i was asking. And you answered that it is approach. What i meant by conquest is sleeping with her. One and done. As for the volume of approaching girls that type of volume seems way to high for a guy still developing his social skills. This isnt a science but I love how these guys made it such. And you follow. Give me a statistical report of how you are doing. By the way - again..end goal? What is it. If it's conquest I can tell u that gets old but I guess its cool while it is fun.

It should be what you regret doing instead. But the list would be long. Not doing? Investing and putting into my 401k.

Maga is dissolving slowly.

30 women what approaching or full conquest? If your goal in life is to conquest women congrats. It will get you nowhere. Hopefully your goal is to find someone long term.