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Do you have evidence of.this? Where do you get this from

@Valachi am not sure why you are bringing trauma into this discussion. That is not pertinent and could confuse others. And cause them a lack of confidence

Yeah but we can't always have it like that. But you're right. There are certain women from my past I was just comfortable with getting it up for. Others made me nervous. But also those same others I wasnt always nervous. Its all about you.

You don't believe in that? It is what makes the world go round. If you can talk to people you can do almost anything in life. It's not limited to women.

Wrong again. Its not that. Its social skills. Yeah there are some who lack confidence but do you think @Olaf does? Absolutely not. He just needs to.know how to say the right things.

Right. But Its not even confidence its anxiety. Nervousness. Alcohol takes all that away. But after a while you find you can do it without the lubricant. Kinda like getting your dick into a dry pussy 🤪

@Valach see..this brings us back to what women want. They want authenticity. But they are more interested in your communication skills initially. How honest you are won't come up yet.

I don't agree. Alcohol is a lubricant. But a lot of guys don't know how to talk to women period

Even with alcohol..what you are gonna say has to be there. Alcohol just gives you the nerve. Yah?

Precisely. So. Here's the reality. Just like awakening. Sometimes you have the gift and sometimes you don't. Unfortunately you can't cheat and take psychedelics to get laid. So he's going to have to work on the quality of his game rather than quantity. @Olaf understood? We are tying to help you here. Don't get so caught up in how many you talk to. That's awesome. But you want quality interactions. Because that's what leads to your end game. Now. What your endgame is. That could differ. But you'll sleep with her. What you want to do after is up to you.

If you want me to be transparent. I think we need to move him past this phase. I think fear might be setting him back. The reason I say this is because when we talked about approach anxiety, and i was just viewing that thread..sorry all for my poor grammar. Its my phone. He said he's never gotten to the point of intercourse anxiety. Otherwise known as emotional or psychological ED. I had it for a spell. Maybe a few months. And it was the worst. But it goes away. Now..he has never even gotten to that point. So I think maybe he needs a little push to get past this initial phase. But hopefully none of you guys have to experience that. Its terrible.

Exactly. But we have been telling him this for weeks. Me, you, @Zenterus. I think he just likes gameplay. His end goal might differ from mine. I want the holy grail.

So then what is the end goal..just to practice game? If so fine. But if his intent is to take one home on the same night then he shouldn't be so focused on volume. But yeah. Im old fashioned and from the states. So if I get a girl interested and get a number I usually can tell if it was real. He's not dumb. He can tell.

Lol.

@Olaf I second this however if you get numbers then its all good. If you just spam talk 100 women and don't get numbers then what is the point. So tell me more about your procedure.

Why do you think I do so well Most of them haven't found this forum. But seriously you're right. I would love to meet a women who is bothered by the famous philosophical question. "Does a tree make a sound when it falls with no one around." They just think it does. Lol. @Leo Gura @Olaf hey there's a good opener!

That's probably it. I live in the states and I meet mostly stage orange or below.

I'm talking about the typical girl off the streets.

Maybe...but wait for the second or third date to talk about idealism. Its a turn off for most women to suggest reality isn't made of atoms. They could get weirded out.

How r u supposed to know that lol

I would be wary with that one. Too risky it could backfire. It would have to be executed perfectly with the right facial expressions otherwise you're bombing.

Dork 😞

Do you come here often? 😀 it gets a laugh actually because its so unoriginal that it becomes original.

What is a former PUA anyway? No i just enjoyed the whole dynamic. Yes I have always been good with women. Other than when I told tou i pysched myself out and went through that weird time. I have always been good at approach.

This is the weirdest shit and I've seen some shit. Yes they have both came over but not at the same time. Are you insane?