Inliytened1

Because after she lost the ability to make decisions..it was posted "free pussy upstairs" and guys partook. Isn't that enough? That's probably only a fraction of it.

If you wanna be the Buddha that is fine. But if you want a girl..then I have found that spiritual alignment is not only key, it's vital. Trust me. From experience. It will come up. And become a major factor. Often later on will it rear it's ugly head.

Yes but it's like a needle in a haystack to find a lasting love. I like this song by Rush

Yes. My career is very well established. That's one thing I was able to do. And yes that took many decades to build. I totally agree. But you can probably do both..meaning work the career and date. Its just a matter of priority. You may have to dial down the dating but you don't have to cut it out completely unless you wanted to.

No. Im talking about enlightenment. What do you think is the difference? Can you explain to.me? I had enlightenment via meditation which I consider the sober way. So maybe you would find this with my brain patterns. But who cares about that? I'm talking about how you function in everyday life. That doesn't change. Brain patterns ..well..I don't give it too much weight. I'm talking more about how your state of consciousness returns to normal

Thanks man. I really like you as well. My problem throughout my life is impulsiveness. I do things before thinking. Which can be very damaging. Life damaging. So learning to think before I speak or do is a work in progress. But yeah. I'm good natured. Yeah no one is without some sin. If you think you are then you are living in a bubble. But again, appreciate you!

I wouldn't say addicted. I like sex. Im 56 and still keep fit and look fairly young. So looking young has kept me with a young spirit. But I have been married. And staying with one woman has proven difficult on multiple levels. Long term relationships are hard but it would be something I desire. But like you, I can't find the right person that is on the same level intellectually and spiritually , with the physical attraction and the personality I like. I won't say I've given up., but I realized I'm just fine alone with casual sex. If that is to be my destiny. If she comes along I'm all for it. But I've had many failed long term relationships not just my marriage. If anything I can relate to you.

There are bigger ramifications as to how American men treat women as a result of our culture. We grew up with a black book. Body count was the sign of the alpha. How many girls can you get? If you got none you were a loser. Of course this kind of shit is on a whole other level. But its still part of the culture here. Only the normal person is not going to commit rape. That's a whole other level. But my point is that the culture does not create a good standard- it actually encourages this type of behavior indirectly.

I thought about this today and thought about my recent behavior on the forum and i became conscious of how my culture has influenced my outlook on women as well. Would I have gone upstairs ? The answer would be no. I just emailed @Natasha Tori Maru that I know I've been kind of dick regarding women but I want everyone to know I would never take advantage of a woman or do something against her will. Or if she had no will due to intoxication. I think this is like a level for someone who is a sociopath if you could do that. Though I bet some people might have did it to fit in which is a more fucked up thing with our culture. We all need to think before we do shit. Anyone who hits women or forces them against their will deserves to be punished to the full extent of the law.

That would draw a laugh from me and i would know I was in the right place Unfortunately in the states..women are mostly stage orange with very limited exposure to advaita, non-duality, etc.

After you become God you can go back to wanting girls again. What else is there? Caves and God? God doesn't have nice enough legs.

Your human don't be too hard on yourself. You are not in a state of God Consciousnessm. You're in duality as a self with other. So it's OK but realize that you don't need external sources to complete you. You're already whole.

Takes one to know one 😀

If you're lucky enough to come back at all eventually you return to normal. But another dimension was unlocked and will stay open. It might close back up a little but it remains unlocked.

If you actually awake to the facets I dont think you forget easily. Yet forgetting is precisely what the ego wants of us. To forget all of our spiritual insights. To make them a distant memory. So we do have to do spiritual work regularly lest we risk falling into ignorance again.

Doing what exactly? He already did it. Read the thread.

Yeah. That's how they work. So now take a beautiful girl you want and behave the same way.

You can't do that. Not ever. You can never make it seem like you are too interested. A little. But not all the way. Women are extremely counterintuitive. If you try too hard it just turns them off. I dont grasp why that is. But it is. So you have to always remain a bit elusive. I think it keeps.the game alive for them.

Sometimes yes sometimes no. But you always have to act like you're listening. Because if they ask you what they were saying you better be able to repeat it back. Haha

@Leo Gura right bud?

No. Stay. That's precisely what you want. You want them to be talking. If they're talking and you are listening. Then you have them right where you want them. Ultimately you will find they just want to spill their guts out to you. All you have to.do is two, maybe three things. Listen Fuck them good. Listen some more. Cut the grass. We have a simple job but we must do it properly.

Let her talk while you compose. I love the ones who like to talk. You don't have to do shit but listen after the first few questions. In fact, they all like to talk. So you set it up. You ask a few questions and then you let them just talk. And talk. You be the guy they can lean on. That's really what they want.

Yeah. But you have to be able to do it with one my brother. You have to be able to walk in the grocery store and fucking land her. You won't always have the luxury as using the first twenty as lubrication. Just loosen up. You got this. No one else does. Youre God.

As many as it takes. Yes I drink. But drinking isnt like the answer. You still have to know how to talk to them. So put that out of your mind. You do not need alcohol and never did. Approach anxiety is great because you can just break through it. Imagine intercourse anxiety. Shes laying their spread eagle and you can't get it up. That's the ultimate mindfuck. Coz then she has to.get up while you feel like a moron and put her clothes back on. So approach anxiety is fun. I think if you're practicing game that's great. The more you talk to the better you'll feel.

You're already that. You already have the goods. Stop being so nice. Let go a little and just be the bad boy. Just be him.