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Well..be careful there. I've had my share of married women. They probably want to screw you and keep his health insurance.

Yeah exactly. Well..there's two options that I see. You can just start touching her. Or you can ask her if she wants to be touched. What i said here was..would you like me to touch you. And when she didn't answer..she kinda squirmed a bit and moved in my direction..then I reached under and pulled her panties down under the blanket.

So..this is kinda interfering so i'm gonna talk about it. So when the blonde came over. She's spread eagle on my couch. Oh and fuck the hot witch. So she's spread eagle. She asks for a blanket and I get it. So here do we ask what she wants or do we just make the move. Sometimes you have to make the move. I struggle with it like the best of us.

By the way guys..don't try to fit your girl into Spiral Dynamics until after you break up. It may backfire. But I blame it on the model.

No. Of course not. Why would she be pissed if it was her. That's why I don't wanna say too much. She's still trying to understand spiral dynamics. No. This one - Blonde. Her - brunette.

Well my ex hot witch GF apparently found the URL to Actualized.org and was quite offended when I said Clair Graves says she is stage Blue

Haven't you ever seen Shallow Hal? That's an easy 250 BTW. You're trying to get me demoted aren't you, you little devil.

This post did not help. We talked about witches.

I think my ex might be reading the forum so I don't wanna give too much so I don't have to hear her BS. You know, our witches. She didnt like me calling her the hot witch ex GF.. AT ALL. Lol. But suffice it say, and this applies to your previous post about what's a success in going out. I got a call late Sunday from a hottie who i had set up previously. Success in the final hour! That's where you start to earn dividends.

Hugh Hefner. He was probably still going at 90

By the time you get the process down you're popping Viagra haha

I don't want to insult anyone so after I used that saying I realized I had to leave it at that. There is nothing wrong with a 200 pounder. But no this girl was 5"10 nice long legs and very thin. But I have nothing against any type.

Yeah..it's like walking a tightrope. You don't wanna seem like you're too into her..but you don't wanna cross the line into jerk either. It's a balancing beam. But in the end, if you come through in the bedroom that is the truest form of masculinity. Should you get that far. If you come through there..you can almost get away with murder.

I don't agree. It took me a while to realize that you don't need to sleep with her or get her back home on the first night for it to be a success. A lot of it is about setting things up. And this often takes a few dates. If you push it you are bound to blow the whole deal. Now there will be some that want it and you'll know those. But otherwise as long as you set it up for next time it's a success. And who knows. You might even fall in love.

If we let it run the show we'd all be six feet under by now. No..I'd say an 80/20 split. I won't say which has the 80 😀

Would everyone rate their weekend a success? I came through in the final hour. Just remember, It ain't over until the fat lady sings. Just when you think of marking it off in the loss column.

You should probably be hanging in the high consciousness sections not with us horny toads 😀 @Miguel sorry for giving you shit.

Woman like you to listen above all. That's the beauty if you find an outgoing woman. She can do the talking for both of you. You just have to pay attention.

That and the do nothing method worked for me. I will probably start meditating again. I prefer the concentration meditation the most. Make the Buddha dance.

Probably even more profound.

Isn't part of his thing the whole polyamory lifestyle..which I posted the thread about. I question the whole premise of a second girlfriend. Or boyfriend. That's another sticking point for me. It sounds good on paper. But I think it ends up causing more problems then it is worth. Even when all parties are on board. He hasn't even lived such a life long enough to see any long term effects. And has admitted he could change his views. I don't see it providing long term satisfaction.

That's the only thing I was giving you flack about. You seem to have your science down but you're still very young. It will hold a lot more weight at least in perhaps 5 to 10 more years. It's basically why I didn't even bother listening to Leo's how to get laid videos. I don't need some smart ass kid giving me a textbook on how to do it. When I did it fine without any of that. But that's me. I'm sure it can help a lot of people. Oh..and i still question the whole second girl premise.

Hey. I love @LordFall. I was just teasing him. I get a little rowdy sometimes. That is why @Ulaxput me in timeout. It's all in good fun.

@Natasha Tori Maru so how's the aussie tonight? 😉

Yeah honestly I don't know how i missed it.