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Btw, the sales lesson here is right in front of our noses. Look at his sales page. That sales page is what he will tell you to create at best. " High ticket items" to make people feel it's special because of its price, making them feel special for belonging to that community of people who spend that kind of money "The best way of getting rich is teaching people how to get rich" That being said, a handful of specific training programs are valuable for sure. This doesn't to seem to be one of them What kind of value are you looking to obtaining from that " training"?

This is exactly the response that this piece of marking is looking to trigger -------- Unless you're making 100k+ per year I wouldn't consider any of this. And even then you could leverage this capital better. I understand you want to invest in yourself, but it's a common trap for wealthy people to throw money at problems believing the more cash I spend, the more expensive the product, the more I'm investing into myself and solving my problems. It's a logical fallacy really Properly leveraging your capital for serious growth requieres more careful thinking and planning than giving someone 5k and expecting it to be as valuable as if you had invested the 5k yourself into your own business and experimenting in the real market with your own hands But I'm curious what is the reason for you asking us instead of just doing it? Are you honestly looking for opinions? What's really on your mind ?

The first step of dealing with emotions is to deeply feel them and embrace them. Trying to resist them or let go is the wrong initial approach Doesn't matter if they are justified or not. You may have heard that "what you resist persists". It's more true than for anything else for emotions. It seems like the kind of emotions you're referring to are better off being called " emotional reactions. The nature of these emotions is for self-manipulation. If you hear a loud noise mid night that wakes you from your sleep, you will feel fear. For a good reason, which is to maximize caution , watch out for threats and enhance your perception for the sake of survival, even if it turns out it was just your cat that knocked a glass off the counter It is deeply wired into your genetics and it's the reason you're alive. Anger specifically is a little different. It origins when you feel you've been hurt. The " something deep that makes you feel like you should be angry" is your subconscious frame of mind and perspective If you come at the situation from a more broad and understanding perspective, it's pretty much impossible to get angry. Once you reframe, then tools to deal with the accidental emotional reaction begin to be effective. Deep breathing, exercise, nft tapping, Sedona method, shaking, etc ( depends on the emotion) If you share the specific scenario you were referring to I can show you how to reframe it if you don't see it yourself already. Byron Katie has an amazing book on this subject called " the work ". You can also just look up her seminars on YT to get a feel for what she's about Let me know how that sounds and if you'd like to elaborate on something more concrete. Also it would be good if your thread title was more accurate to your question so that other people with similar struggles would click it. You can still swap it if you want

This so obvious in retrospect. It brings a whole new perspective to learning for me. I have unconsciously held teachers as an authority and as people that "have mastery" and "have it figured out". Someone I look up to as the master - period. The specific example for me is learning guitar. I've been learning for the past 6 months and there are certain YT teachers I've modeling. They are incredibly skilled, don't get me wrong I was holding them in my mind as " they KNOW how to play guitar. They are the teacher" But as I learned my first songs , I realized I can teach guitar now, to a certain level, to certain people. And THAT is what they are doing to ME. The teachers are actually still learning! It brings somewhat of a relief when thinking about the concept of Mastery . You never arrive! The skill of guitar never ends. It NEVER ends!!! It never ends!!! Therefore the teacher doesn't have it ALL figured out, he is just ahead of me. Not a single person has "mastered" the skill of guitar in the absolute sense. Because music, as many other domains, is infinite, and you can infinitely come up with new combinations and train muscle memory and so on. Yes, 10k hours gives you a decent amount of mastery. But the process of mastery and learning never ends. It seems so obvious from retrospect, but I'm sure it has been a frame many of you hold as well. This insight was influenced by me recently revisiting the " learning from partially wrong perspectives" blog video. You are learning from people relatively ahead of you. Looking at you L e o n a r d

Keep In mind that Leo has changed his opinion on some of the stuff he said in other videos, like the " you don't exist" from this video

I got it from Andy Cutler's Hair Interpretation Manual. I'm no biochemist nor I know what studies does he base his claims off, but he has been one of the leading authorities in this subject. The book has a dedicated section for toxic heavy metals different than mercury. You could try joining the andy cutler chelation facebook group. They have a sub group dedicated to specifically chelating children. There is a lot of people in your shoes there. The reason I said I'd recommend normal chelation if you tolerate it is because there are no safe levels of toxic metals ,so getting rid of any arsenic, lead and specifically mercury that you have should improve your situation meanwhile you try your other thing, Aparently mercury is nr 1 foe and once it's out of your body it recovers natural detoxification capabilities for other heavy metals. If you're asking for more ideas, maybe try Zeolite Nanoparticles. It's supposed to work for Thallium as well. I've been using it for two months and the results are unclear. I would avoid the one that has nano sized silver added. It's the cheaper one. The science is between miracle health supplement and terribly toxic heavy metal that you can't chelate out https://www.actualized.org/insights/zeolite-nanoparticles-for-detox wishing good luck to you and your child. Extra resources

It took damn long for someone to figure out that less developed and more dangerous countries need more strict policing

Why do you think thallium and cesium are your problem? thallium chelates with ala, dmsa and DMPS anyways, so I'd just do the normal chelation protocol as explained by Andy Cutler

If you share your situation in more detail we could get a more fruitful conversation going No, you can face truth and still be suffering Also by definition, distraction is a mechanism to avoid suffering

Emojis have recently been specifically banned from thread titles

Once you're on the forum for a while you get a grasp pretty quickly whose posts not to read if they're more than two lines long or skip entirely lmao

1# is finding experienced wings But I just came up with something cool. Just pay some cute girls to stand next to you while you cold approach lmao they don't even have to say anything just be there I'm joking ofc but I'd love to split test the difference in responsivity

Wtf guys don't be that blind to feedback She literally told you. Why would a guy she just met ask for pictures of her house and family? Through Instagram???That's some psycho stalker sh1t you can see in movies and on the news. No wonder she blocked you No offense. Learn from this mistake. Anyways, there are a million things that can get in your way after the interaction ends. She can endlessly rationalize what can go wrong. Once I approached a super cute shy girl during the day. The was carrying shopping bags. She loved me. But she didn't want to come on an instant date because she was set on leaving her bag at her apparent first . We walked to where her apartment was ( she told me she would come in an hour ) and in a later she texted me that her sister convinced her it's s bad idea basically. Just find more and don't be creepy. Specifically understand what triggers creepiness and erase it out of your behavior and mouth.

Adding piercings, tattoos and other body modifications to this list

Don't mess around with a man that has lost everything. He has also lost his fear.

@Happy Lizard he said it took him 3 years to get to where he is with his value list at that moment. Put that into perspective Also it's something dynamic. With time and life experience it morphs

no, that explanation falls short. Also don't conflate displays of sexual value with our love for aesthetics in our species. I'm talking about the human domain, At the metaphysical level everything is Absolutely Beautiful. end of story There are things that trigger sexual attraction because it signals reproductive value . In women : youth, broad hips, being emotional, having a big butt, having breasts, eye contact, etc. Read this slowly : We find sexual value beautiful, but not all beauty displays sexual value. I explain my understainding of this in detail in the other post I pointed out about Male attraction. There are specific things that do not signal reproductive value AT ALL besides the fact that it's just beautiful and aesthetic, and we value beauty and aesthetics as a species, creaing a strange loop effect in society that ends up giving actual "survival advantage" to aesthetic " beautiful " people, by the technical definition of the " survival ". Examples of beauty that don't signal sexual value : Proportional body, aesthetic face, harmony of colors in: clothing ,style choices, jewlery, skin tone, hairstyle. For more details check out that post. These things can be summarized in the Golden ratio ( fibonacci ) , Harmony of colors ( Golden Ratio applied to colors ) and our preference for harmony and order over chaos, besides personal prefferences. It's the reason we love music and hate noise, and it's not all just beautiful as non duality folks would say. watch this playlist of Photoshopping people into the golden ratio. notice that actual displays of sexual value are untouched. It's pure aesthetics and fitting into the golden ratio. The equivalent of Photoshopping into the golden ratio in music is auto-tune. Chords and scales exist. They are aesthetics and beauty in sound. the metaphysical explanation of our preference for these proportions must be that reallity is dragging the physical appereance of our species towards the golden ratio over a very long stretch of time. It's everywhere else in nature . The number that the golden ratio points at is very special. Its decimal part is infinite and it never repeats itself in an predictable manner. That's a hint from the Universe It must be uniquely efficient as reallity does not want like being uneficient. I want to also point out the importance of psychology : selective focus and Reticular activation system when it comes to attraction. It's possible for you to be physically ugly but if someone's selective focus is focused on only your good parts, you're atractive and perhaps even beautiful. There is a more detailed explanation for this that I can share if this sounds interesting .

This is a little insight I had today. Personally the closest I've ever been to being in an actual cult was an entrepreneurship door to door salesman pyramid scheme cult, and even though I was well informed by all of Leo's content, it still took me 3 months to figure out that I was fooled But in a cult , other people are fooling you. If you're lucky you can think for yourself and escape. Its possible that you get so brainwashed that you never escape. But once your own mind fools you, and you brainwash yourself deeply enough, you're done. The minds capacity for self-deception is infinite.

@Happy Lizard I've struggled a lot with this as well, but as a toxic perfectionist ive learned to let go of looking for that absolute clarity which ultimately leads to procrastination for me. Go with what feels right and you will learn to prioritize and add more concrete definitions over time . matter of fact most of my clarity about tis comes spontaneously when im about my day. Also brainstorm with chatgpt about this. its super good for seeing things from multiple perspectives and giving examples so that you can see if you resonate with anything. you can feed it entire exercises and pick and choose what you feel is relevant. How much chatgpt can help you depents on the quality of questions you ask it. thats how that tool works,

@Leo Gura @Leo Gura can you explain what is beauty ? not at the metaphysical level, but for humans. I have been thinking about this for the last week and I shared my ideas in the other "understanding male attraction thread The nature of beauty is slippery, and in the absolute sense everything is Absolutely Beautiful. Our love for beauty , beautiful faces is a strange loop Beauty is valuable because we value beauty. Dont conflate " beauty " with specific displays reproductive value. Thats " attractive " . if we dont make this distinction this conversation will be unnecesary fuzzy. Yes beauty is attractive, but attractive ques of sexual value are is not only tied to beauty. Beautiful faces are valuable. Why are they valuable? Because we value them individually. Ofc it has social and economical benefits , but why? It has those benefits because we value beauty as a society as well. Beauty serves no information about fertility or survival value. It has to do with our love for the Golden Ratio, harmony of proportions and harmony of colors. all of these are technical concepts, but it's the most accurrate i've been able to pinpoint beauty. ofc personal preferencs matter lemme know whats your take

speak in front of the camara like leo

The process of master Mastery runs from your beginning till the day you die https://www.actualized.org/insights/i-am-not-a-master

Proper socialization builds energy, it doesn't drain you. It's an evolutionary biological fact . Let me know if you want me to explain further Sounds like an issue of lack of social experience and being too stuck up your own aS$ Owen Cook does a good job of explain why socializing may fatigue you: Persona fatigue: burning mental energy on maintaining a facade, appearances , trying to impress and look cool Decision making fatigue: being uptight and micromanaging interactions rather than than going wherever spontaneity takes you Judgement fatigue: obsessively mentally judging yourself , your words, your actions. Having unhealthy disempowering beliefs about yourself, thinking you're boring, overestimating how much other people think about you, overestimating the importance of other peoples opinion of you and their approval, etc. Lemme know if any of that sounds familiar to you Sometimes I spend entire weeks without talking with anyone as I enjoy alone time for thinking, writing and music, but I have deliberatery learned how to properly socialize I have spent 17 years of my life playing World of Warcraft and other games for 16 hours at a time and being extremely cripplingly shy, but with a little theory and a lot of practice you can learn this skill. What you're explaining is not what introversion means. It's a factor but nowhere that black and white. But introversion can have these accidental unwanted consequences in our modern world. You "recharge batteries in solitude" because you're taking not experiencing these fatigues