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  1. I'm so excited!! I just had the idea of trying to astral project inside the Astral realm and upon research it's apparently a thing!!! I'll report after I get some experience. GPT: To astral project within an astral projection (a projection inside a projection), you can use similar techniques to your initial astral projection, but with a focus on deepening your awareness or shifting dimensions. Here are clear steps you can follow to achieve this: 1. Set the Intention Before you begin, mentally set the intention to project further once you're in the astral state. This can prime your consciousness to seek out deeper layers or dimensions. 2. Stabilize Your Current Astral Projection Once you’re already in the astral state: Take a moment to ground yourself. Focus on your surroundings, use your senses, and feel your astral body fully. If things seem unclear or you feel unstable, use verbal commands like, “Clarity now!” or, “Increase focus!” to stabilize the projection. 3. Use the Rope Technique (Within the Astral State) You can apply the rope technique even while in the astral state: Imagine a new rope above you in your current astral body. Mentally grab onto the rope and pull yourself upwards, just like you would in your first projection. This action can help you "leave" your current astral layer and move to a deeper one. 4. Roll Out from Your Current Astral Body While in your astral body: Visualize yourself rolling out of it, just like you did to leave your physical body. Feel yourself separating from the current astral body and moving into a new state or layer. 5. Shift Your Focus to a New Dimension Focus on the idea of exploring a deeper or different layer of the astral plane. Command yourself to "shift" by saying something like, "Take me to the next dimension" or, "Shift deeper into the astral plane." Feel your surroundings change, and let your awareness move to this new space. 6. Spin or Fly Upwards You can use spinning or flying as a method to transition to a new layer of astral projection: Begin to spin around quickly or float upwards into the sky or space. This action can cause a shift in your consciousness, bringing you to a different astral layer. As you spin or fly, focus on the intention of reaching a new dimension or deeper astral layer. 7. Jump into a Portal or Mirror Look for a portal, door, or mirror in your current astral surroundings: Visualize yourself walking or jumping through it, using it as a gateway to enter a new layer of projection. As you pass through, expect to leave your current astral body and enter a new one, transitioning into another projection. 8. Command Projection Within the Astral While in your current projection, you can directly command yourself to project further: Say something like, "I want to leave this body and go deeper" or, "Take me to a higher astral realm." This can trigger the shift to a new astral body or dimension. 9. Visualize a New Scene Close your astral eyes and visualize a completely different scene or environment. Focus intensely on this new place: As the visualization becomes clearer, allow yourself to be "pulled" into the new space, effectively leaving your current astral layer and entering a new projection. By practicing these techniques, you can project within your current astral projection, experiencing a shift to deeper layers or new dimensions. Each time you go deeper, maintain your focus and awareness to continue exploring.
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  3. It's like that in most of Europe.
  4. Exactly the same in Spain. It seems that the US beat EU on that one. Changing majors is very complicated. It's actually what stopped me from going into Psychology. I didn't know that was my direction with 1 ( ideally 2 ) years of notice. Oops If you really desire to go into that college and switch majors, 1 to 2 years is not a lot of time in the broader picture of your life. It's actually a pretty short time period. People waste 5 years to a decade on a bad relationship or get stuck in a dead end job before doing something about it if at all.
  5. Can we get a coffeezilla t shirt saying -- I liked coffeezilla, until he investigated me -- ?
  6. Get up, sit on top of her and say that that's actually your place -- then tell her that she's actually the most unconfortable girl you've ever sat on, stand up, grab her by her wrist, walk her to the other one, and when y'all sit on the three person couch place numerous pillo's between you and her and say that it's your protection against her -- or tell her to place her purse in the middle so that ( you ) feel safer and tell her to make you some popcorn Two step forwards one step back
  7. Throw pillows at her until she moves Then get rid of that extra couch -- sell it and get yourself a shaggy rug. The fluffiest rug money can buy you No shoes in the house rule. Sit her down on that cloud and enjoy a more playful vibe. She will actually throw herself on it willingly without you saying anything Or get one of those huge XXL Lazy bean bags filled with styrofoam balls. Anything of that playful / fun nature is good. Fill your house with that kind of stuff. Play with her as if she was a little girl ( don't stretch this too far guys ) Let me know how it goes
  8. Imagine Trump wins but dies of old age and JD Vance becomes president
  9. A couple of days ago I was crafting myself a DIY necklace and it got me thinking how much effort it actually takes to source all the materiales, create the tools, use tools proficiently and go through the entire process of assembling the piece of jewlery. I can definitely see how in tribal times jewlery could be used as a physical display ( or flex ) of abudance of resources of your group, abundance of free time away from basic survival needs and even display of skills. This may work both for men and women. This is obviously a minor thing. People still flex this way even as of today, but it's not that impressive these days anymore for obvious reasons
  10. Yup we guys like a piece of ass and titties. for some men that's the end of the story and that's fair enough. I've always been intrigued WHY do I find specific things sexually attractive and other things sexually repulsive . Why am I attracted to ass, titties, a beautiful face and smile, well put together, youth, slim , makeup and color? Today I'm excited to share some simple but personally satisfying answers. It felt like zooming outside of my human being to become conscious of myself being this chimp, and that this chimp has specific preferences and dislikes, like love for sweet and hate of bitter, or being a bee and realizing the evolutionary reason why I'm drawn to flowers This may apply to males at large but I've noticed that different guys have slightly different preferences, which only makes sense because of different successful genetic backgrounds ( if your ancestors mated with females with "X" traits, and you're alive here today, it means traits "X" work for survival and therefore are attractive to you) Quick note. All of this is from an non judgemental POV with the sole purpose of noticing and understanding . In no way I'm trying to make women feel worse about themselves. Second quick note. Since in the scope of our evolution the risks of sex are minimal for men compared to women (besides getting your head smashed in by another male/gang of males for having sex with the wrong woman ) we are more okay with just sticking it in literally any chance that we get and possibly skipping on any of these preferences. Women on the other hand get f*cking disabled for a year and they can LITERALLY DIE if impregnated. ACTUALLY LITERALLY DIE. Therefore they are a little more picky. Anyways, from my BIOLOGIES POV, for me to be attracted to a woman she has to display physical traits that mean she can bear children GOOD, and a minimum degree of mental capacities ( otherwise it would be a turnoff because it signals bad genetic material) For me personally, I know if I'm physically attracted to a women immediately. At a primal biological level. In a single glance. Now since I'm not an absolute chimp, her personality can be a further turn off if it's just not for a pump and dump. This one I found to be the most interesting. And it's the exception to the rule: Beautiful face , smile, teeth. A symetrical Golden Ratio face doesn't provide much raw survival value or information about fertility. The value of a symmetrical face is a strange loop. It's valuable because we value it. Beauty is slippery. We love the golden ratio. Beauty is valuable because we value beauty. But a pretty face by itself is not enough of an attraction cue as you may have noticed. You've got all teeth? Clear sign of youth and health. Showing your teeth in monkey societies signals submission . Perfectly aligned teeth are more of a aesthetic and universally recognized love of Beauty in the abstract, like Greek sculptures. Why men/I'm not attracted to chubby / fat women This one I've been racking my mind over the longest, and the Insight came to me watching an Instagram reel of a couple dancing bachata. It was a before / during pregnancy dance video. In the initial video the girl was slim and I felt she looked very attractive. Few seconds later, the video was cut to them dancing months later where you could tell she is just a tiny little pregnant, she had an inflated belly and my attraction was immediately killed!! So the Insight is that I'm genetically not attracted to chubby or fat women because it resemblances pregnancy. That their fertile real estate is currently taken and therefore not worth pursuing. Also you can't tell THAT easily if they're pregnant already . Imagine you had sex with a female thousands of years ago and she was pregnant already and you raised a child that's not yours. It's shooting yourself in the foot genetically. Although you may argue being overweight was pretty uncommon throughout history. I know personally men who are into chubby girls. On the other hand, easily storing fat would be extremely useful and therefore attractive for species who have to survive in places of extreme cold like Alaska. Otherwise It kind of signals scarcity of food and the need to hoard. Historically Surviving is easier if you're capable of consistently obtaining food from outside of your own fat sources. It's more efficient to be thin. Make up , Youth , Color An appearance well taken care of is the physical visual equivalent of seeing muscles on a guy . It's a what's called a "honest signal" , which means it's a conveyance of value that can not be faked. You are strong, end of story. Or in her case , you have put time and effort into your appearance, which signals good caretaking , which is essential for raising children. Contrast it with looking like this A dishonest signal of value would be mentioning you get laid a lot, even if it's true . Because that CAN be a lie and not true. Make up covers skin signs of ageing. And genetically we're attracted to young women because they're in their prime for bearing children. I'm genetically attracted to female eye contact, a primal indicator of sexual interest. Once two attractive women were in front of me. Only one had done her eyes and eyelashes done. It emphasizes her eyes A LOT more. Colorful make up for eyelids, lipstick etc, simply draw attention for humans overall, not just for men. I have been using my smartphone in black and white mode for the last few weeks and it's astonishing how much less distracting app icons are. Color provides vital information about ripeness of food, time of day, poisoning factor of food or animals or insects, purity of water, etc. Conclusion : color draws attention because it conveys information. Why the hourglass shape? Thin body with broad hips is the genetic preference. I didn't know this but broad hips are a big factor on how well the mother can give birth. The mother can literally die if her hips arent wide enough, because of the size of human babies. Nowadays C-sections exist which would minimize the attraction to wide hips, but it's still there instinctually. Why the attraction to booty? It comes from our monkey times. Bonobos and macaques specifically find swollen buttocks more attractive because it signals more estrogen and fertility Titties? I was watching a absolutely non sexual video. Some people were talking . The woman was wearing a loose shirt. For a speck of a second, she accidentally pulled on a part of her shirt and it slightly shaped to the form of her bra. I instantly noticed I felt a primal feeling of attraction. It was so quick I barely noticed it happening, and had to rewind the video to investigate what the fuck had just happened If she has breasts , biologically it means she is past puberty and ready to bear children. Non sagging breasts are a signal of youth as well. All of this is just from a primal perspective. Of course modern humans have the capacity to appreciate personality, and for quality couples it's an absolute must. Hope I shared an insightful perspective about why men judge women that heavily on physical appearance. Let me know if you want to share some interesting take. Do not turn this into a gender war post
  11. It happened 👏 Tonight I lost my astral virginity lol I was having a dream where I'm getting constantly chased by my brother and group of friends. They cornered me and I "woke up". I hadn't moved a muscle and my eyes were still closed. I started doing body exit techniques. Rolling out didn't work by itself, but it immediately worked once I rolled my eyes together in the direction I was rolling my subtle body towards. I exit with my physical sensations in the head to toe axis which seems to be the most complicated way but it worked. Everything was dark but I could feel my arms and that I was standing in the floor. I gently opened my eyes and started seeing. It was blurry and low resolution. I rubbed my hands together and felt my body to increase bodily sensations. I looked closely at my palms of my hands to increase clarity and resolution. It worked. As I was feeling exiting my body and the turbulences that come with it I was imagining a girl I had a crush on some time ago. When I appeared in the Phase, I appeared inside a room facing a door. As I'm opening the door I'm thinking about her . It's a door to the outside. A couple of people are siting on bar stools. I look at the girl face sitting in the most right and it's not my crush but the hottest girl I know ( from sight , I don't know her in person ) from a latin dance club I go often to. I'm super excited as she has the body of a goddess. I walk towards her, tap on her shoulder and communicate the intent of having sex. She said what??? Me?? Yess!! Of course We walked away from the group of people and I don't want to get too graphic but I can say that I undressed her, and could feel and see her naked body . It was beautiful. She literally didn't have any weight so I could move or pick her up easily. I felt the pleasure just as if it was real. The only thing that was unrealistic ( I like to believe ) was me lasting 5 seconds before reaching climax. It wasn't very explosive but I'm satisfied for it being the very first time in the Astral realm It makes me excited for the possibilities. But to be honest now that's out of the way I'm more excited to explore other things. I want to try some techniques I've read about , to prolonging my stay in the phase by imagining a protective bubble around me to resist being pulled back , or imagining sending roots into the floor work my feet, or holding onto objects And the one I forgot was breathing very mindfully and coordinate the breath with every movement. I truly believe that's the key to staying in longer So for all the incels that may be reading this, there is hope for you!! -- damn does this count as breaking my nofap October challenge? I'll say nah
  12. I love this one. So simple yet so deep
  13. Damn that's blasphemy. Now I honestly feel that Actualized.org AI should be against forum guidelines unless it's a serious project lead by Leo
  14. You see yourself as a child because you see yourself as a child Adopt the identity of an adult and you will slowly mold into the beliefs and actions of an adult Wear a wristband to remind yourself the affirmation " I am and adult " Bonus points for defining " what is an adult? How does an adult behave ? How does an adult not behave? How does an adult think? As you consistently think about it ,you will slowly change how you think and behave. It will become who you are Human beings always act, feel and think in accordance with what they believe to be true about themselves and the world
  15. Fun little game here, let's not take it too seriously. When I first asked myself this question the first thing animal that came up to mind was a Fox, and it actually is aligned with some of my top values which are ingenuity and playfulness Other than that I thought Turtle, because I drive a small camper van and as an introvert sometimes it feels like I can go back into my shell whenever I want a time out from socializing What's yours and why?
  16. I dug up this pic back from 2019 Lots of these wild goofy fellas at my place. Currently one has been roaming my bedroom for a month. Sometimes I find him on my pillow or crawling on the ceiling on top of me when I'm at my pc lol I love geckos. Get yourselves a handful. They are the cats of the reptile world Get yourself a pocket sized croc What's my prize?
  17. Leo's crocs while shooting vids
  18. @UpperMaster sneak peek appetizer https://www.actualized.org/insights/learning-from-partially-false-perspectives @Davino my ego says my ego is tier 3 so it can't possibly be wrong
  19. Vestigial traits in humans are remnants of structures or behaviors that had a function in ancestral species but have lost most or all of their original purpose due to evolution.
  20. High fever is physically taxing but I actually love the cognitive benefits. The raised metabolism and body temperature that's fighting the infection enhances thinking, at least for me. I don't know about focusing on some external information, by for contemplation inside of my mind is great
  21. I'm sure it's not something Leo may be very fond of but it seems it's just a matter of time before someone scrapes all the video transcripts and trains an AI on it. I find It inevitable and of tremendous value to the people that are already familiar with the content. I would definitely recommend putting it behind a monthly subscription paywall. @FlyingLotus already summarized all the content using AI as a first step. https://ai.servicespace.org/ is an example of this. It has been trained on over 1600 transcripts of his videos and it's basically like having a conversation with Jeffrey Mishlove. It's feels like the natural evolution of Leo's work. A decade to create the body of wisdom to ultimately feed it into an interactive tool. The nature of the beast is that there comes a point where the amount of content is so immense it gets exponentially difficult to get into it and review all of it, where as an AI chat-bot may be just the right solution. Anyways, I thought I'd bring out the elephant in the room and hear your opinions. Feel free to lock this if it's out of discussion
  22. Confidence doesn't necesary requiere experience, just a lack of self-doubt. Some people's confidence comes from delusion, blind spots and dunning kruger effect. But yeah massive experience is a sure way of developing confidence, specifically with women
  23. The desire to take credit and recognition exists for a reason, and that reason is survival, just like ALL human endeavors and ALL human features. It's one of many survival mechanisms. Credit and recognition can give you survival value. It can give you status, resources, validation, sex, money, etc. (Validation is also a survival value; your peers liking you means they will help you with survival.) Imagine being the inventor of big game hunting, fire, the lightbulb, or electricity. Credit and recognition for that one innovation or idea could make your genes spread exponentially. Survival is serious business, and giving credit where credit is due is essential for the evolution of society. Imagine you work hard for years to create a solution to a major problem, only for someone else to take the credit. That's a serious handicap to your survival. It's also deceitful, and you are being taken advantage of. The person who takes credit wouldn’t have the intellectual genetics that people think they do, which could lead to them getting status, sex, and resources that should have gone to someone else. The wrong genes would receive an unfair advantage, skewing natural selection (which is meant to boost beneficial survival traits, not deceitful ones). Deceitful traits can only last so long before getting weeded out by real valuable traits . Credit and recognition serve a real purpose in survival. We are still playing a game of survival with dead serious stakes at play, and we are nowhere close to transcending it. Without copyright, griefing would run amok. Why work hard if you can just steal someone’s work? That's the more energy efficient thig to do. We have tried that before given our lazy and selfish nature, and now laws are there for a reason. They are not perfect but it's better than nothing. We can always apply discernment to check if we are being dysfunctional and just crave attention and validation, or if we are actually being reckless and working against our own survival benefit when we still haven't built a solid foundation there. Emotions exist for survival reasons, and they may be screaming: "Hey! I need the fruits of that work!" Anyways, it's a tendency to be aware of. Check what the actual stakes are and make your decision. The ego can be insatiable, so drawing a line may be tricky. And the ego exists for Survival, so the more you get Survival sorted out the more you can lay back and let go of the need for recognition, instead of demonizing the survival mechanism for doing its intended purpose I wrote this (credit please) because I'm actually currently wrestling with the same situation and had to contemplate , why do I feel that way? Ultimately it really is something to let go of. Just don't be reckless with your survival efforts and you won't need the emotional reminder for it It's actually a cool double standard. It's cool if I benefit from others ideas for free but not the other way around