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@Lubomir ?

@flowboy Maybe we just have a different definition of that word...

@Natasha Love ?♥

@Lubomir I know man, I've been there sooo many times. It sucks. Maybe try seeing yourself as one person, rather than Lubomir, ego, brain, soul, personality, body, mind etc etc... It helps because then you don't blame your problems on these parts but rather accept them as your own which gives you more control over them. Also meditate every morning.

@flowboy Of course this can be a case, but I have a very negative experience in my life with manipulating others unconsciously, maybe I am projecting that onto others, but it certainly is an issue... What do you think?

@pluto ?

Dating other girls would just be a distraction to hide your deep self-deception, I would suggest you to wait some more with that. Watch yourself lie, read this: And then this: You have to be honest with yourself, unless you work with the real you, you cannot be helped. Did you really mean this or were you just trying to manipulate her unconsciously? Think about that. You couldn't read her sign correctly.

@pluto Yeh but you know, be careful with this, I don't know the quality of your jaw, but when you don't pull out certain teeth, it will evolve into a situation where you might as well pull out all of them. I feel like your understanding is quite holistic and deep, but be careful with recommending this to people randomly

When my mum was a teenager, she had messed up teeth, but my grandma was scared to pull her teeth out and buy her braces. This then escalated into a much bigger problem, now when she is an adult, her teeth are all brown and uneven, you don't want that. It costs a whole bunch. I think there are some ways to avoid this problem in childhood, but I would recommend having your wisdom teeth pulled out if you have any issues. It hurts for like 3 days then it is okay and the operation is painless.

@Lubomir Literally every person who is crazy in love feels special

@Lubomir Sounds good as long as you both are willing to learn from your mistakes I don't know about going back together, I don't have a personal experience with that, but I know many people don't recommend it.

Because you think that you can't stop, but in fact you can stop And also you love being authentic so what's really the problem? Just thoughts.

@saffron The point is, you are deluding yourself, the survival of the fittest has already ended hundreds of years ago.

@saffron Reality is better than that, you can have a good feeling about yourself without comparing yourself to others.

What Leo says is not always 100% true you know, you gotta think for yourself sometimes. For example, @ajasatya analyzes data, he loves his job. This data can then be used to make everyone else's life easier and @ajasatya even gets paid. It might not be „good“ for literally everyone, because the data can undermine lies, manipulations and stuff like that, but really, what's good and bad can change with time. For example, when something causes you to suffer and you realize it after some time, you become motivated to work on yourself. But you cannot really say whether that event was good or bad, it depends.

You can make anyone look like an idiot if you take things out of context

@lmfao What about instead of trying to climb the spiral hierarchy, you try to be more joyful and loving? That alone will move you super high.

@NoSelfSelf You can move on and still include all this things By moving on I mean recognizing, that stage orange is not everything there is to life

@lmfao Be careful, this effort to identify yourself with some stage can cause you to feel superior to others.

@NoSelfSelf Your stage orange issues become too much, you have to move on. Also, you don't ask others what your emotional trauma is.

@Nahm Yeh, but if you have a conversation with your grandma and she tells you what it was like in the concentration camp, saying: „I know too, because I am all-experiencing and eternal“ is so arrogant, you don't really know. I don't think you can meditate this experience into your reality either. It might all be groundless and imaginary, but you don't know.

Suffering

@Leo Gura Yeh, but we couldn't live here if there was no stable ground under our feet that is made out of rocks from a big part, isn't it so... It all kinds of revolves around our survival from one perspective If one thing was different than it is, we might have not been born.

@Ibn Sina Ok, you are right, but your muscles would be useless without bones and you couldn't live as you live now. Also you could deconstrust the bone further and further and you could do this with everything. Also you aren't conscious about most things in your body, your head would explode.

Do you realize that your body is built from bones, flesh, organs, neurons, bacteria etc... And all these things have different functions, like a bone is completely different from a heart, but also they work together you know. Also could you say that a bone is not alive, but heart is? (for whatever reason) Where is the boundary between life and not-life, between individuality and collective?