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@Good-boy But dont try to solve your problems by looking for the perfect 11/10 stage red ninja girl. Thats can really be a huge obstacle. I used to be in your shoes back in the day, experiencing first breakup, very emotional thing. But then I was so depressed that I am so unattractive and shit like that, you have probably heard that story quite a few times. But as I am going deeper, I am becoming more and more introverted and independent, I am not seeking relationships anymore. This kind of transformation is also possible.

This belief will change as you move up the spiral, its just an illusion, I have gone through it myself You are almost always attracted to the stage you are at, but you must understand that evolution is possible, you see?

@Outer Should I ask myself that question and contemplate it?

I am quite new to actualized.org and meditation. Therefore it surprises me, that I experienced some weird experiences during this week. The first one was when I was doing self-inquiry. I was sitting on a couch, closed my eyes and then I felt like I knew that this „I“ is not actually the true self. I saw a flash of light for a split-second and experienced a high level of joy. I dont think this is extraordinary or anything, it was very short and mysterious. I have also heard some people saying that we shouldnt associate spiritual experiences with pictures. (the light) Than I was very bored at school and we had a free hour as the teacher went missing, so I was meditating in the corridor, it was very peaceful and quiet there, everyone was having a lesson. I tried the mindfulness meditation for like 5th time, I saw Leos video on it just a few days ago. After some time I had a feeling of being 4D, it was like I realized something about the things I was seeing. I dont know if it was like a shift in a paradigm, that the pictures are just creations of my brain and stuff, or it meant something different. What do you think? (I dont think I am enlightened or something, I just dont know whats happening to me)

I am actually taking responsibility for my life. I think that you misunderstand what I am trying to tell you. I am listening and also learning, its not like mental masturbation. (maybe I am wrong here, I still dont understand what are you trying to tell me, probably I am just asking a poor question) I listen to enlightened gurus, (but also to other kinds of people) because they have more experience, have higher consciousness and greater knowledge, I am not here to reinvent the wheel when someone has invented it for me hundreds of years ago. I want to know from you, if you have either positive or negative experience with this approach. I am listening to them, because they have such a high level of awareness, that if they tell me for example to follow the pranic way of eating, try seeing things from this and that perspective, try developing a greatfulness habit etc... I assume that they know what they are talking about, its beyond my consciousness, I cannot fully understand it, but again, I dont want to try to reinvent it, when I can get amost instant benefits.(not in all fields obviously) I also only take advice from the people I would probably swap lives with. (in the topic they are advising me in) I would not listen to my grandmother, who is deeply stuck stage blue thinker, giving me advice in my spiritual life or finances. There are many perspectives, some say we should follow to pranic way of eating, some recommend vegan, vegetarian, fruitarian, keto, paleo etc... The same goes with every other thing, I am just putting diet as an easy example. I am quite scared to try to come up with my own type of diet, when there are people more knowledgable in that field already that I can listen to. I just feel like listening to for example Sadhguru is wiser, than listening to some American businessman/professor/physician, who is selling his or her supplements and books and only talking from 1 perspective, only giving me scientific proofs when there is inner side of things as well. Thats the main thing I am asking for, can this cause me any trouble? I understand this cannot be applied to self-inquiry and contemplation type of stuff, I am doing that myself whenever I can.

@Nahm I mean it more like when they say something, for example: you shouldnt eat any meat, I will then not eat meat. I know that there are different kinds of people, some are promoting meat eating, some are not, I personally dont like eating meat, since its hard to digest, but there might be something about it... I am not an expert. Its just that then I have some difficulties trusting people who are saying something different....

I can just add that you should listen to this advice, its legit. Quitting no-fap, cold showers, meditation, exercise maybe, when you have the energy... Basically get rid of all the toxic addictions and you will probably not suffer from fatigue anymore.

@John Iverson I think you are slightly misusing the knowledge Leo and other teachers are giving you. He did not mention what is his family like, they might be turquoise, without him knowing actually haha. (just an example) Inability to do action is almost always a problem, maybe you and him should see even beyond where you are right now

What if stage coral actually needs words again? We dont really know haha

@Omadorinlooper Increase body cosnciousness. I have been practising Leos method to overcome most of my food addictions, I no longer enjoy eating meat, ice cream, chocolate and other stuff... I just feel super sick and weak after that. I basically overate from these things at some point to really feel the backfiring thats associated with them. I also love fasting. You can try 1 day, only drink water. Dont eat at all, not even in small portions, because thats actually the thing that will make you more hungry. For the first time I felt so cleansed at the end of the day, it was much easier not to eat than to eat! Its a pity I can just survive without food... The next morning I was a bit hungry so I made myself a smoothie from bananas and apples and strawberries from my garden, added some blueberries there too. It really tasted greater than ever. I have never experienced anything tasting like that, you have to try it.

I am not a fruitarian myself, but I want to at least try it for some time, when I have the energy and money. Otherwise, when I eat mostly fruit in a day it feels like heaven, I agree with that, its just that its very expensive if you dont live in the south and you also dont get the best quality fruits in central Europe.

@AMS I am scared of her anxiety and ideology, even though I am not a strict vegan...

Hey everyone, What are some of the must do habits that I should apply to my life, that are going to help me to self-actualize? I already am getting rid of all my addictions and actually am quite conscious of their backfiring, experimenting with diet, cold showers and WHM breathing, a little bit of meditation (I still have to go to school so its difficult to maditate for a long periods of time), questioning and contemplating about paradigms, ideologies and cultures, body consciousness, reading. Things that I am getting into are exercising (trying free classes in the yoga and martial arts centers) and I also try to do some self-inquiry, but its not like a habit of mine, I should do that more. Do you have any advice? I am basically a beginner in most of these stages, so I am open to anything, especially if you can give me some clues about the fields that are further in the list. My other question is, should I study for school? I saw some people talking about that the grades from 1 to 12 are pretty mandatory, and I shouldnt miss those. Leo is also talking about reading textbooks (maybe he just means that if your life-purpose is based around scholarship and empirical knowledge) in his video about the number 1 rule for acing life. (basically doing the hardest things if possible) I feel like I dont understand this topic at all so I would appreciate if someone has any insights on this. I probably cannot just pass with terrible grades as my parents will start to distrust me and stop investing in my courses.

@KenDo Thats obvious, if you actually mean it. I dont underestimate you, nor do I know you personally, so I cannot judge objectively. But be careful about setting goals this big when you arent in the field yet. (from what you have written) Maybe you are idealizing... Just a warning on my side. Otherwise go for it, it would be very great.

Found this on google lol, pretty cringy

@KenDo For how long are you having this vision? If its just a short term thing, you might want to contemplate it, as ego will want to trap you here and give you bunch of negative motivation. One can want to become a leader for 2 different reasons... I dont think you are not ready to decide, just want to warn you before you go full in to something...

@Igor82 Maybe you can add something like: this 5 meo dmt tea tastes freaking good. j/k

@Fuku Maybe hitting the gym might be good for you? I dont exercise at the moment, so I dont know...

@Fuku We are individuals, if you enjoy Muay Thai, why not do it more? If you dont enjoy it, just quit. I actually think that martial arts are good as you get both cardio and weights in most styles, as well as better concentration. Martial artists seem more mature and at peace most of the time.

@Key Elements Do you mean spirituality based facebook meme page for „actualized“ people?

@MM1988 As long as its not his life purpose to do memes its ok I suppose haha

Guys, I recommend you to watch the video on overcoming addiction. It has helped me so much! Discipline alone will probably make you suffer. If you fap, you suffer from tiredness. (there is bunch of energy in those balls) If you do nofap by choking yourself, it will bring only very few positive effects which will be negated by the stress. If you increase your consciousness through meditation though, you can actually be so aware of the negativity that comes after the orgasm, that you wont even want to do it anymore. This is at least what worked for me, even though it took a loooot of time. I think its worth to at least try it. Go watch that porn, but be aware how tired and sick you are afterwards. Its only a short term pleasure.

@MarkusSweden You sound like mentally ill haha, imagining girls. No offense though.

@Mikael89 Thats a great decision, but be aware of the traps that are waiting for ya! I have already found many.