SageModeAustin

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  1. Thank you everyone for your insights, extremely helpful. Especially @Emerald hit the nail on the head for me. I just realized i'm extremely brain-washed by pickup culture so this made me view sex as the central importance in my worldview. I can definitely see how this has caused a lot of suffering.
  2. Okay i see your point. I'm not saying our value system in our head we created is useless rather it is causing problems. We are imposing value onto objects, people, animals all of the time unconsciously. This is the reason why people are soo..what's the word? Outcome dependent, needy, not content with themselves. Imagine you are passing out candy to people that you think are attractive or 'high value.' Then afterwards you try to get this candy back. You want their validation. You want to fuck that hot girl, you want to be friends with the cool kids, because they have 'high value' which means they can give you some of that candy back, that value back. Your placing some concept of value onto them and playing it accordingly. It's some bullshit game we play with ourselves. What i want to know is if it's possible to be able to see things as truly equal beings, vs the hierarchy scale we all see the world through.
  3. we both know you don't believe this. You see a hot girl, you place her higher unconsciously and consciously.
  4. Acceptance. I wish i could fly too, we've all been there.