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I think there’s certainly a long chain of cause and effect, and that everything is happening for some reason in the chain. Both in the universe and in your life. A lot of times, when trying to make sense of certain events it can seem quite senseless. That’s because some events aren’t directly related to you. This meaning that something else is the primary cause or effect, and you just ended up in it. The assumption that everything happens for you or because of you, will make things that don’t seem senseless. Sometimes causes are so far removed from effects that you couldn’t see the connection. Btw I mean cause and effect in a spiritual sense not merely physical. Thoughts? Questions?

I have gotten to the point that I’m in a deep meditative state, and feel an extreme vibrating sensation. But, I can’t seem to visualize anything more. Is there any helpful methods or tips? Is Astral Projection even real?

Yeah, for a while I kind of just avoided sex. I was definitely too worried about my performance. For me, I think what helped it was this girl I was with who didn’t put any pressure on me, and was cool with just cuddling until I was ready or wasn’t ready instead of trying to help me get erect, which would only make me feel pressured. She showed no signs of annoyance, and seemed to really just want to be there with me. She made the whole thing just feel fun like it was no big deal. Since then, I haven’t had any problems with any partner. Also, perhaps you have some sexual repression issues, and some trauma you need to address? Always something to consider.

This happened to me before. I never really found a solution. The problem just went away. I’m interested to hear a fix should this problem ever arise for me again. I think the biggest thing may be simply establishing comfort, having her in a way convince you that you don’t need to impress or or worry about performance and just be there with her. Like if you don’t stay erect don’t worry about it and just keep enjoying the intimacy