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Winterknight will always be.... ”a badass mother who won’t take no crap off of nobody!” He opened my eyes to the self inquiry technique and spilled a ton of wisdom and knowledge here in an amazing way, he taught what he knows points to Truth, what worked for him People judge and critique him as if they should take his word and can actually trust or believe what he says without the experience, then aren’t able to relate to his perspective, condoning him as if there’s actually a Right perspective to hold on any matter other than our own

Hahaha, no no carry it with you as a souvenir, as a baby, as an identity ? “Jack be nimble jack be quick jack river sat on a candle stick” @mandyjw “Amanda” Black, groove it ?

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”how I beat fear and became invincible through 100 days of rejection” for anyone feeling stuck or held back, scared to go after whatever desired, here’s an inspiring book dedicated to facing fear, stepping back, thinking outside the box, and realizing the infinitude of possibility available through connection within and toward others

@Keyhole praise be. You don’t need anyone to approve your message as long as it’s coming from the right place ? and when it is not, it’s your chance to turn your gaze inward, acknowledge, and give the self some love ?

@pluto hey are you a fan of dr. Robert morsend? I’ve recently started watching his YouTube videos on health and nutrition, it’s very juicy info, he’s quite a genius, I’m amazed and no idea how I’ll be able to resist pushing it into anyone’s face, especially family whenever I see them

It’s funny I’ve not really dated much in the past few years, literally not even speaking to woman other than saying a few words to some friendly banter, but recently there was a gay dude who didn’t come off as gay but started complimenting me in a grocery store and he was the most charasmatic dude I’d spoken to in a long time and I’m embarrassed to admit I gave him my number because I wasn’t sure if he was just being friendly and spoke of playing tennis etc. when I later realized he had been complimenting my body a lot I was like wow I was completely absorbed by his charisma. Just the other night he spotted me again and brought up me consiee becoming a stripper and how much he’d pay me etc and I was much more grounded and handled this much better, thanking him for his compliments and saying I wasnt interested. Am I bisexual? Not at this time but he sure made me seriously question my interest and attraction toward guys. Spiritual work as definitly brought out my feminine side but this is still being integrated back. A female companion will help with this

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@AlldayLoop yes I feel once it becomes a “thing” one doesn’t wish to give up and seen as being a significant part of their life, that’s the best time to completely drop it, at least until it shows up again, as a true desire, or insight. Ive done it a few times in the past year and this is how the practice becomes a way of life. Everything about life is spiritual, no more forcing it

@Zigzag Idiot thanks again man. I’m coming to terms with this myself, the worst keeps coming to the surface and it seems unbearable. Will utilize what you shared

Worth sharing And a short Documentary

Mindfulness meditation and self communication. This book would undoubtedly shed some light on whatever you must reconcile within

Perhaps there needs to be an integration of thy shadow

started listening to this one, excellent Thanks for sharing!

Humbleness is a defense mechanism the ego uses for dealing with life’s unpredictability. Riding the waves is fully embracing self whatever may arise, transforming that of fear or resistance to maintain a state of allowance @Truth Addict I did not read all but wow cool Which is constantly affected by our beliefs, some of which need chang if Unaccepted

Good stuff, i like the stages of emotional healing, can really relate

People act as our mirror, reinforcing our self construct (who we believe ourself to be). Operating from the self construct is the “safe place” to approach experience and interact but it is only as true as we make it. The veil of perception is only able to see itself. We see what we are / we are what we see unfortunately this is not always ‘what is’ in actuality

Root cause is fear. See through your fear and there will be no more problem.

⚠️Love is whatever you make of it, but notice all duality will be limited, so your life is limited, your feelings, limited, suffering is limited, acknowledge what YOU choose to perceive, understanding means acceptance/love/connection...aka the ultimate truth (undefinable all encompassing, oneness) sure you can choose to disagree but that is the choice of duality positive and negative? Shiiiit that’s monkey chatter mate, love/truth/awareness is the embrace of ALL in eternity why descriminate against the word love?

His desire now seems to go beyond the practical, as he probably feels we can take responsibility for determining what’s going to be practical for us. It seems he’s pushing the limits of the human mind and this is most important to see through our own shit and the value of learning to view multiple perspectives simultaneously to gage where there’s value in aiding our expansion on the collective level

Yes, if it’s raining bring an umbrella

Powerful, I can relate, thanks

I’d say the line is you. To be objectively compassionate (if that’s a thing) allows for any authentic response when there’s the undefined space of awareness between you and other. Messages can be given in a number of ways depending on the situation (dynamic)

Thanks for sharing your experience Hmm but isn’t this how most heightened empathy is developed? Sounds like you were super susceptible particularly to irregularities and maybe even negative energy. Like a defense mechanism is activated in specific situations and boom you’re flooded with response energy I hear ya there, I remember the first time I realized I had gaslighted my little sister, had been in deep pain myself and so it took a while for me to realize and own up to it, felt really bad All good stuff appreciate your perspectives, I better watch it overthinking all these dynamics, ever-so complex, and theirs only me I can really actually influence Here’s an example of what I would consider codependent empath: my mother: she’s unable to excuse herself from a conversation with a complete stranger because she doesn’t want to offend them, workaholic, can’t say no to anyone, but tends to explode on those she loves when enough stress builds up, she’ll find someone to treat badly, my step dad mainly because they could never communicate well enough...anyways maybe I’m biased and my needs to change the people in my life has always been manipulative narc behaviors I feel like the dynamic between a narc and a codependent empath is like they subconsciously sign a contract agreeing to meet all the needs of the narc, only consciously this is not always understood by the empath and so there’s a lot of confusion and frustration as you said. And the narc doesn’t really see how things could be any other way without feeling a lack of needs being met