Etherial Cat

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  1. As I see it, gaslighting occurs when someone doesn't want to acknowledge someone's truth or free will, because something is at stake for him/her. It's a power move which includes re-writing and controlling the narrative in order to strip the person being gaslit from its sense of reality and get it to conform to an expected behavior. What is really at stake is a battle for power and sens making. Through the gaslighting, the person is trying to shape and define reality. The main issue will be to recognize the pattern, because the gaslighter will deny its gaslighting through self-deception or ill intent.
  2. Yet, the best way to be God-Like as a woman and match your man would be to Love him enough to let him go. If the relationship breaks at this point, it means that something which can't be worked on is tearing it apart. Most of the time, this would be an unresolved personal issue that can only be deal with on the level of the individual. The other can't do it for him/her. Or just plain realities limitation as Life unfolds. Often, it's both. Maybe the more God-Like you become, and the easier it is to accept that all good things come to an end. Ideally you'd Love during the relationship, and you'd Love the person as it goes. I mean, what makes separation difficult is the ego and a lack of perspective. And obviously, it's desire to possess. If you'd be with such a God-Like person, it's quite likely that anyway the whole relationship would have been an efficient training to its conclusion. Intimacy with a highly developed human, guided by the principe of Love, would be realistically one of the best teaching one could have to get more conscious. But yes, I mean, like Shakespeare said it well "These violent delights have violent ends". Welcome to the relative.