Etherial Cat

These type of graphics are nice. I've hard they are now very common in sexual education classes.

Very much so. I get the chills when I hear men talking of hard close, because if I think about it, a lot of rapist will perceive their action as being a hard close and not a crossing the line action. Consent doesn't mean stopping when you get shouted NO. It is looking for a YES. Are you aware that a lot of rape victim do not say no out of fear or freeze up?

There are several qualities of consent and degrees of coercion. I think this is why it can be so hard, unfortunately. The best is obviously a big yes .

Women having sex when they don't want it is much more common than just a rape by a stranger. I know women/girls who've been put some pressure by their boyfriend and/or husband to have sex even when they would rather not. I had a boyfriend who would extorcate sex from me by telling me normal people had sex a defined number of time a week, and turn to me like I owed him the weekly quota.

@Shin Thanks for creating these threads. I just watched the video and It's really accurate. Since most of this is occurring on a subconscious level, I also got the chance to learn a few things there as a woman. I've been contemplating on the importance of trust in female/male relationships before and I've found it to be one of the corner stone of a functioning dynamic. I'd say that there are two dynamic with men in general. Either they make me feel safe and I trust that they respect my needs, or it's the opposite and I fear their agression. A lot of time, it's a spectrum... but I'm only fulfilled in scenario one. A good man is a man that I perceive as trustworthy, protective and able to emotionally relate to me so I feel protected on several level (physically, emotionally, intellectually...). I guess that's what Teal talked about when she described attunement. When I feel aggressed I withdraw. I can't be open. I get defensive and I sulk. Because I'm just not safe to be me. I don't feel loved nor protected. And this happens as soon as there is a violation of boundary. I get especially displeased if I realize that there is no intimacy going on and depending on the level of it, I just decide to sign off to the relationship. On the other hand, when I feel trust, I'm open and able to be in my feminine. My femininity depends highly on how much I am able to be made feminine in an environment. If I spend a lot of time protecting my emotions and my boundaries, well, it's all that energy not used on the "right tasks".

@Raphael Just move out, Raphael.

Some men are feeling so weak that they need to diminish women to feel strong. Nothing new under the sun. As I said many times before, these are no catch.

I'm not convincing myself of anything. I'm merely stating my experience. If it offends you, it's not my problem. Your narrative is not mine,

Being fearful of aging doesn't mean you think of college girls as being your competition. While I find them beautiful, I am still very confortable with my own sex appeal. Being a college girl is a state, and it is a state I don't long for. I'm too wise to long for a state, let only for one that presuppose loosing gradually your innocence for maturity. Also, you've got to understand that I have no shortage of men. I come from an abundance mindset and this is the least of my priority. Each time a man tries to make me feel like I am shit, I tell him bye bye and don't think of him a single second forward. So that's it.

Airol is what I got in Greece. It has different names everywhere but the formula is kinda the same. In Switzerland, I think I had the usual Retin-A but it got discontinued and hard to get. I'm afraid of aging. But I'm not afraid of aging for low quality men's attention. This I don't give a damn . I've got no time for this rubbish when there are non dual Chads hanging around- so sorry! You're afraid of aging too. All ego are. Aging challenge your self-image, your sense of self, and reminds you of your mortality.

Right. When I saw Melissa for the first time I was like... "I'm gonna use than thing forever"! . I'm european and it happened that in 2017 I spent a few weeks in Greece where it's available without prescription. I bought a dozen pack and brought them back and I'm still living out of the supply. You basically need to find a way to get it somewhere for the best quality/price ratio available. I've heard its very cheap in Mexico, so If you're american, think of loading your bag with them while traveling to Tulum or Cebo.

Yes! I also got it prescribe first as a teenager Basically RetinA makes your skin shed and pushed it to produce cells on a constant basis. At first, your skin is looking absolutely awful but after enough material has been discarded you're left with incredible skin. And yes, it does work for wrinkles. As long as they are not too deeply established. Hold on, lemme introduce you to Melissa. https://youtu.be/dqkt9rYtt2Q

RetinA and retinol is not exactly the same. RetinA is more potent and only available on prescription. But yes, your routine otherwise seems pretty solide. I've got also some rosehip oil which does wonders. I'm very minimalistic when it comes to skin care, so I'm basically alternating between RetinA and Cera-v type of ultra potent hydrating cream. The rest is accessory. I love using also Mario Badescu as an exfoliating tool for the body. And that's pretty much it.

Most effective trick is using RetinA + vitamin c serum. I also use +50 spf because my face has freckles.

A man with a disintegrated anima will attack women for control. Claiming that a woman is too "old" is typically an attempt of pedestal dragging. But that's exactly what I mean by a man not being a catch by behaving that way. Women are women from 20 to 80. A 20 year old will turn a 80 year old if lucky. Good men treat woman well from childhood to death.

France be like:

Surely, I have seen a shift during the last year regarding how China is conducting its diplomacy. It is more and more expansionists and confrontative to the western world. China intent to play by new rules. Now I'm not sure how China and Russia will ally themselves, but it is clear that an alliance between the two of them against the USA and our European quasi satellite state doesn't look good. Fixed it.

Nope. It's sort out automatically bigots and leave you with the best pool. A smaller pool, but better quality pool. The job of a woman is to always find the best suitor. Most men interested in you is somewhat spam pretending to be a match. But you ain't compatible. If a man adopts low-key disempowering or objectifying narrative, he's no catch. That's it.

It's a common one. Even the men I know are not keen on aging. Regarding men and attraction... If you scrutinize the forum, you'll see two type of men. Those who have anima issues (and will be keen on trying to disempower women, and are projecting their own feeling of disempowerment on you) and those who have a healthy relationship with women are the type of catches you'd like to date. A man who tells you that you're only worth something at 20 and try to make you feel unsecure about aging is a man you don't want to date - and this even at 20. So there is really no loss here. The catch are and always were the ones who are into you because you are that specific woman who caught their attention. Physical capital is loss as time goes by but your personality and consciousness mature and that is of greater value.

I'm gonna re-quote myself... --- Exactly. And let's not forget that his definition of attraction was always specifically youthfulness and attractiveness

Lol, bruh. It is not because a man is attracted to young and beautiful women as well, that it makes of it the main attraction trigger. It is solely an attraction trigger which is what we told you in the last 10 posts. You still don't get the nuance and think you are being right. Emerald has just been losing track of the logic of our arguments. She agrees 100% with me, not with you. Her "conceding" just came out from the confusion of your lack of logic and goalpost move. You're just trying to take advantage of the optic. ?

Your point has been that men are attracted to youth and beauty and that this is the main attraction trigger. It is not true. Mature masculine attraction towards women is a blend of several qualities and youth and conventional beauty are not necessarily the main trigger as you keep on repeating.

We told you several times that men are attracted to beauty and youth- but it is not their primary motive. I guess they would find the tits at least aesthetically pleasing. But it depends largely on context. If looks (youth and beauty) is the main attraction trigger for men as you say, then why are these men not with 20 year old girls with big tits?

Attraction changes with maturity and this goes as well for men. As I mentioned it earlier, they will still appreciate a young woman's beauty but their experience and wisdom significantly tame a potential drive for actually seeking sex with incompatible partners. Beside, a man who already had multiple sexual experiences is usually seeking for something deeper than some rather shallow sexuality. So they screen out women with additional filters. No, I am not confusing anything. A man needs to be attracted to a woman for sex. But men are able to still be attracted to women past their prime. The maturity of the woman does count for mature men, because as long as there is a sufficient base for attraction he's going to be more fulfilled with her than a woman without it. A man is happy as long as he finds the woman attractive enough. The resonance on the subjective level is far more important than maximizing looks. Men are attracted to attractive, young girls on a superficial level. But there are other dimension that men values with experience and as the superficial lose its shine in life. And attraction is the main trigger for sexual desire. This attraction is possible beyond youth and conventional attractiveness. And this is especially easy when a man is mature, open-minded and is genuinely love driven towards women. From your gaze, a young big pair of tits might be irresistible not to sexualize. It depends. I'm certain that there can be as many reaction from highly conscious men as they exist. There has been zen masters who were highly sexually frustrated and used to grope women. Adyashanti said in one his talks that consciousness doesn't grant the development of all lines which include the sexual development one. But I'm pretty certain that if a 20 year old woman with big tits would show them to him, Eckhart Tolle, Rupert Spira, or whatever, none of them would consider sleeping with her. They are too satisfied with their 50+ year old wives who have got a depth that no 20 year old can give them. ?

It depends what you mean by primarily attraction? In terms of appearance, I would say that it is safe to say that humans are attracted to health in general and youthful attractive women certainly look the healthiest and the best physically. But if you are talking about attraction in the broader sense, conscious men are primarily attracted to conscious women. And what happens is that young women while being physically attractive are significantly less conscious. And generally speaking, I would say that conscious men are able to see beauty in the not so perfect (like in wabi-sabi) and appreciate the wisdom and knowledge of self an older woman can have. No. The problem is when the youth and the attractiveness becomes the primary/sole reason for the attraction. This would be some sort of fetishization. Also, recently I've been finding myself more and more attracted to maturity. While I appreciate and love young people, I'm thinking more and more that youth is a liability in term of relationship material (inexperience, a sad gradual loss of innocence, immaturity). The two comes together. Youth is physically attractive, but an annoying rather undesirable state on the personal level.