Etherial Cat

In other words, he says he's going through states of awareness that are so profound that no one can have intellectual intimacy with him anymore. The feeling of loneliness is due to that. I think this issue is quite common for spiritual teachers.

Women who are attracted to material wealth and fame solely, and not in the man behind are setting up themselves for an unfulfilled life. And that is because what female really wants is intimacy and you often don't get that if your principal concern is the dude's money or fame. Often what they really are attracted to is the money and the fame and the man becomes the proxy. I would recommend you to beware of chasing women who are making of wealth and status their primary selection criteria. They are making a foolish choices and will eventually get burned. So it would be unwise for you to aspire to such a woman. Like this, you're dodging the bullet. But of course, if there is real attraction and the money and fame is not what is driving her like a moth towards the guy, it is a really fortunate situation. If the fame was the reason why she got into him it could be.

Yes. A lot of women are fond of social status because it gives the appearance of value. And it comes with nice perks. Nice houses, nice car, maybe even private planes and exclusive social circles. But you can have men of high social status that are poor partner material and low value despite their status, and men of lower social status that are great partner material and of high value. Unfortunately, status and value aren't correlated. What women are attracted ultimately is a man's value. In general women ≤ Orange value a lot status.

Si la vie était simple, on grandirait pas. Courage! Tu as tout ce qu'il faut pour t'en sortir.

Heard Leo say in the past that his ex was constantly threatening suicide as a way to get compassion. He might be reacting that way because of this.

If it helps, I didn't feel it at all. I was waiting for the doctor to sting me and he told me it was already done. He said that after administrating 25 000 vaccines in the last few months , he's reached mastery in the craft.

Ouch. Sorry to hear that Farnaby. You didn't get lucky with this one. I also got my 1st shot of the Pfizer vaccine recently.... it was exactly 7 days ago. I got a sore arm for 2 days, and very very mild headache few hours after the shot. No fever. But my nose has been running slightly since then and my throat is a tad painful. Seems like my tonsils are a bit inflated. Also I've got a bit of a wet cough. So perhaps you'll have also these extra symptoms popping up. One must say- this Covid virus is a strange one. The variety of potential effect is astonishing. Thanks for the info! I'm now totally unexcited about that second dose. And shitting my pants like Fanarby. Hahaha

Tchooo! Petit commentaire pour te laisser savoir que je suis admirative de ce que tu écris dans ton journal. J'aurais tellement aimée être aussi mature et aware à ton age. Tu as de la chance!

Well, just tell us then, because I'm curious and I find what you say a tad mysterious.

@eaaaeaeae Lemme guess. You're french !

Intimacy is the ability to see in another person. You'll have often individual referring to it as "into me see" to define it. Unless there is intimacy, you are not being present with another person but projecting on them. In that context, is a very shallow knowledge of someone where the person is a mere object in your experience, instead of being a portal to your own Self. Intimacy can occur on many level. Intellectual, emotional, spiritual to name a few. What you get as a result of it is a feeling to inhabit the same dimension and understand one another. In this space, there is unity. A connection of the highest quality. There is... Love . It is being able to see beyond ego, the Self. In all vulnerability and acceptance. It allows for heart chakra based characteristics to emerge and enter a place of true generosity, nurturing and care for one another. Emerald put it so beautifully when she said intimacy is particularly important for women in the context of a romantic relationship because of the heart opening feelings. In my case, this heart opening feeling is the doorway to my most intense feelings for merger, unity. Which is also what makes me want to have sex.

Yes. Putting the emphasis on the survival game in relationship is a big mistake. It also hurts men in the long run, who end up seeing everything through this lense... and miss out on the most important, which is love.

I would say that time is what appears as creation unfolding itself, from the vantage point of eternity. And this would be why the moment is always "now" while forms are dancing around.

No we don't. Enjoy making yourself unattractive and dangerous.

@Parththakkar12 I'm not interested in addressing your points any further. Sorry. Best wishes of growth, though,

She was screaming at him after he did "something evil" from his own words. The reason why you and Starstruck are not getting laid has nothing to do with women. So far, I understand totally that a woman would want nothing to do with men acting this way and holding such toxic views on top of nurturing a large amount of resentment towards female. Misogynist make poor partners. You are just being low value acting this way. And Starstruck has proven himself to be dangerous and losing totally his control in front of a contrariety. This is piss poor quality behavior. This girl would have been better off not having crossed her path with him. That is the hard truth that you need to let sink in. Now, if Starstruck and you want to redeem yourself and work on rising your value, it starts with healing yourself from the feminine wound you have and taking responsibility for your feelings and resentment. Starstruck had already started looking on that last week before he give in to his spite. I think this case is a great example for why it is important to encourage a multi approach coming from men doing PUA and work on developing both their relationships skills and their inner wounds. Obviously, it is the latest that has been and still is sabotaging Starstruck efforts.

@Parththakkar12 So, you are telling us that women are evil for having the right to deny sex from guys who only want to use them to dig their dicks?

This is not a male vs female issue, so there is no need to frame this as such. And also calling out the women on the forum for pointing out at this totally inadequate behavior is kinda strange because a lot of men have been also disapproving of his action as well. What are you doing out of this? What he did was not okay and he knows it. You are making him a disservice by siding with him and encouraging his spite.

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What is this non sense? What you've done is not okay and you should stop being in full denial or taking any type of satisfaction from it. Taking any type of pride, joy or relief, or having a fire "sparked in your eyes" is the sign of a major dysfunction. Stop approaching girls and go talk to your psychologist instead.

Probably one of the most profound and empathetic post written in a long time. I see what you see. Though, sometimes it is hard to keep this in mind, reading some of the stuff being said. Kudos to you for not getting triggered and staying so firmly grounded.

Aww... so adorable!

You've got this girl.

In general, I really question the idea of building a relationship with someone out of wanting something specific from them. Nowadays, I just meet people trying not to have much expectations to what it will develop into and let life do the sorting. When you meet a person, it is normal that they enter the acquaintance zone for a while. It takes time to discover someone and know who you are dealing with and what is the underlying potential of the relation. It allows to check the overall compatibility. Even when you enter an actual romantic relationship, you kinda have to act the same. Detachment of outcome is important. You need it to stay grounded and not be needy. That's also what makes someone attractive. Here is quote from Rumi I just found on patience and accepting the process..

You should talk about this with your psychologist during your next appointment.