Etherial Cat

Cowboys...? Bwhahaha.

Women definitely do have plenty of shady sides. But I think the red pill doesn't make a good job at understanding why we/they do that. The perspective is not deep enough. Women aren't meant to be put on a pedestal but to be seen as fellow humans. I think no humans belong to a pedestal to be fair. I'm surely guilty of forgetting this from time to time.

Yeah. Absolutely. I mean, red pilers are the ones consuming the poison and it's them who are first and foremost suffering the consequences. Of course, it's not agreeable to read such things on the forum as a woman, but it's nothing next to believing and living with this stuff in the back of your mind. What I see is hurt, a total lack of hope and a raging anger and disgust against everything feminine. And they are kinda stuck in devilish loop, because they crave what they hate and demonize their antidote. Behind the difficult discussions, I almost picture some sort of attempt to extract from them the cancerous ideas like we are some sort of shamanic-surgeons-philosophers in here, trying to help them by bringing on new perspectives. But not all sort of mind cancer are possible to deal with. Unfortunately, the current zeitgeist make it possible to easily get sucked into these holes. Incelosophy is a bit of a disease of our time. I hope the systemic elements that makes it spread will decrease in the future instead of proliferating.

Sure! Because having the blessing of a red piller I've briefly met on an online forum is that important to me. Maybe if I find one old enough I could entertain a virtual relationship with him in here for your non sense to be complete? Red pilers also be like: "How dare women be as shallow as I am?!". Of course, the red pill is just the fruit of their own projection and distorted worldview. They are the selfish, materialistic, status obsessed and loveless users they abhorre. That's also the thing that make it so disturbing and sad.

At 31, I'm surely an old hag, please. Coca is not interested in being my beta cuck provider...

Yes. I've found that a lot of men are trying to beat us up into their projections/mental models. They really insist on what must be our experience and resort to plenty of mental gymnastic to make it work. My experience of life so far: I've been spending all my week-ends in the clubs from age 17 to 21 without having sex with anyone met there. Though, to be fair, I got sexually abused after being intoxicated with drugs and alcohol. But I'm sure we agree this doesn't count... I have been in a relationship with the same person for most of my 20s. Actually, to be precise since I've turned 22. So that whole cock carrousel bullshit is totally foreign to me.

This topic has been discussed over and over on this forum. If you want to understand why, you're free to look at older threads and try to understand the points which have been made, instead of insisting on being explained through numerous thread in details what makes red pill talking points wrong. And this especially if in the process you've been showing hostility and close mindedness towards forum members. And it's not about women being triggered "because the truth hurts ", it is about women being triggered because of being gaslit, falsely depicted and having to over and over refute the same points on top of them being misogynistic. I'm sure you're able to notice by yourself that red pill is not exactly a cordial perspective on females and you'll probably end up wanting to move on to something more constructive, conscious and humanizing than reading stuff like "wOmEn aRe bEinG rAn TrOUGH dUrIng tHEir teEns AnD EaRly 20s By AlpHas" on a forum which is dedicated to self-help, philosophy and consciousness.

Many good points have been made here . And it's wonderful that Leo is looking into making this subsection more woman friendly. I must say that I've already got the feeling this dating section has been improving in the last months or so. Of course, there are still threads, posts and users which are triggering but I feel like this is all going in the right direction. I get often implied that 30 years old women are old hags who should run for the "first beta simp" around now that my cock carrousel days are gone and I "can't lock anymore alphas". You just can't win.

If I were you, I'd consider finding some sources of feminine energy both within myself and in the outside world. At least, until you manage to finally get a girlfriend. I think it's quite possible that you are literally starving for it and this is what creates a lot of your suffering. The obsession you've got with girls is actually a deep inner need for the reintegration of your own feminine side. So adding some ressources on the Divine Feminine to your spirituality list and looking into its principles could be of great use for you. And you could make 2 shots with 1 stone because I already told you that your main problem is that you are projecting your inner relationship to women outside.

Users complaining about your behavior and mods siding with them does not really make a situation where you should allow yourself to dismiss the issue unilaterally simply as per your wish. From outside, it makes it look even worse, tbh. Why don't you try introspecting and considering there might be a part of truth in this?

@Preety_India I've been quietly reading threads in the last days and it is correct that you've been over boundaries attacking forum users. I'm not sure if you're into a phase where you're trying to assert yourself or something, but you are being hugely biased about your own behavior. What is said is true.

Being married, engaged or having kids has nothing to do with happiness or being further in life as you are. It's just a life situation. When you are in your early 20s there is still a lot of room self-discovery and growth, which in my opinion make it not the idea moment to get married. There is a lot of chance that you'll outgrow your relationship at some point and figure out your partner and yourself aren't that compatible.

These morons are everywhere. They strike anytime, whoever you are with. I had a disturbed pervert who grabbed my arm as I was walking around with my boyfriend and his buddies a couple months ago. He had his hand on his junk, under his jeans right before. What I do each time there are enough people around is to scream, describe their behaviour in front of everyone and let them cope with the humiliation. This is also an advice which I got from a feminist newspaper. I like it because it seems that a lot of them are horrified by the experience, and might reconsider doing this again ?. I also did this to a degenerate who flashed me in a park last year and started masturbating in front of me. His dick got all small, his face turned all white and he ran away. If I am alone, there is a need for evaluating what are the option. Usually, I chose to prevent the odds of such things occuring by not finding myself alone at night. I take an Uber home or chose a trajectory where there is a lot of artifical light and potentially still a lot of people passing by. I also observe people's behaviour, walk away from anyone who's looking dodgy and get closer to people who are looking normal and walk around them.

Hehe.

Be honest with yourself and question whether you've spent enough time listening to trans people. The points you are bringing are typical of those who haven't integrated the reality behind being LGBTQ but are certain they are criticizing it from above, dismissing it as mere Green delusional bullshit. Contrapoints also has great videos on the subject https://www.youtube.com/c/ContraPoints/videos

This is not correct. Transgender are not expecting that transitioning will solve any of their existential issues. What they are looking for is to circumvent thick social biases and gender norms going at odd with what they subjectively experiment. This way of thinking is a form of spiritual bypassing. Knowing your essence doesn't free you from tangible social limitations, degrading your life's quality on a daily basis. Suffering from gender dysphoria and being stigmatized hardly make people "happy and healthy" in general. The transition is coming from a place of discomfort in one's birth gender. It just causes a lot of emotional distress and confusion.

Because they want to live their life as the other gender, and for that they need to pass. What do you mean here? Knowing their truth of who they are, as such as being infinite consciousness itself?

It is a difficult choice, but I think parents are right to leave space for children with a clear and consistant gender dysphoria to transition. The social stigma issue by itself is not enough of a reason to go against your child's authenticity. Denying someone who feels bad in their gender to be trans can be of far greater damage than just worrying about the social ridicule and oppression they will face. Transitioning early, especially for male born transgender, can help them pass tremendously better by inhibiting the development of masculine features. So it is a very though balance of interest. Also, the social ridicule stem from society's problem with transphobia and the general lack of understanding behind the phenomenon. The trans person has nothing to do with it. I'm more thinking that if I can avoid the whole situation, I'm happy. Being trans in nowadays society is a heavy experience to have.

Before anything, what I am thinking is that I'm not keen on dealing with the stigma, social harassment and diverse obstacles that would inevitably fall upon me/us if I were to date a trans male. I think in another cultural context I would not make differences, but dealing with another layer of bullshit because of drifting further from social standards would be exhausting to me. For this reason, I prefer cis gender individuals and I would really need to flash on someone happening to be trans to go for it. But I think I could be attracted to a trans male. I haven't met many of them IRL so it's hard to tell but I know a girl dating one and having seen some picture, her boyfriend looks cute to me which proves the attraction threshold could kinda be kinda reached.

Sorry for the lame ass editing. But the spirit is there. LOL

@Emerald Ouuuuuch. That was a flawless demonstration. I think a lot of people will get what you meant there. Just one thing. I don't think you're a screw either. You're the hammer nailing the incelosophers around.

You're not living in an easy part of the world, so I understand your cynicism, pessimism and your different order in priority. It's already though here, so I don't want to imagine what it is in Syria ?.

Though it wasn't necessarily a pillar of sand. The general thesis was correct. There is a need and usage for crypto, but the industry has turned into a massive devilish cartel. Crypto as an industry is still standing and kicking well in general, but what I did back then is harder to reiterate because the scale is 10 000x bigger than what is used to be. Back then, from all the assets I used to hold, 4/5 would have got me to a 10 millions + usd value at the current time and raised to be leading and lasting project in the industry . What occurred to my Bitcoins is a very long story. In a nutshell, I got burned by poor venture management, bad timing and a multi-million famous fund screwing over the team who was working on a well established project once they made billions with a veeeeery famous scam. This team is made out of people I know personally and worked with, so I'm closer to being an early crypto project runner than a meer speculator. I've had Vitalik Buterin eating at the table next me and I've met several influencer and founders as part as my job. But as things are currently, I am out. I don't have the spark nor the feeling that it is the right place for me anymore.

Yes, of course. From a masculine perspective, being high status definitely facilitate the access to sex. There is nothing to say there. But the question is more: is this ultimately fulfilling for both part? Being high status means you've got social leverage, so having an easier time to pick up people of inferior privilege your way. And that mostly in hope for them to benefit by proxy from your lifestyle and situation. For that, people sell their integrity or just self-deceive themselves into believing that the human being is what they like but very often the person itself is secondary. What I am trying to say by women not being ultimately attracted to status as a sufficient condition is that it grows "old" quite fast and dissatisfaction lurks in if the choice is not genuine. The thing is that what really makes a woman happy is being connected to her heart and genuinely pick a man that resonate with her. If she's choosing a man solely on a status basis, the odds that he's a real heartfelt match is quite low. What women are attracted to is the power and the money itself, which they wish for themselves but have difficulty to get. Of course, the ideal scenario is to have both. But you don't chose who you get the butterflies for. And having this deep, genuine attraction for a man is what can make the sex go to a really fulfilling level. And as a man, you can get plenty of women sitting on top of you and change them like you change your socks, but if you grow very conscious as a man, their own consciousness quality will not impress you and you'll long for something else than these girls being lured by whatever you've got.

The deductions you've made from my writings are not even factual. So imagine how much distortion stem from the interpretation you've got there.