Brittany

This thought causes deep suffering

"shorter than peers" "he's among less preferred" "girls won't like him" "disadvantage with taller people" You need self love. Self love and self compassion heals all of the "I am not as great as other people" thoughts. You are bullying yourself! And saying horrible and mean things to yourself. This is why you are suffering. Because there is a bully in your brain. You are holding up a sword against yourself. Drop your sword and stop attacking yourself.

Julien Blanc is the Buddha of the pick up community. His material is great.

Wake up 1-3 hours early each morning Cook dinner on Sunday nights for the entire week. (or whichever day you get off) Take care of mundane tasks on Saturdays and Sundays. (or whichever day you get off) Also, what do you do during your lunch breaks? Also, what do you listen to during your commute?

Be careful with this. haha We are always trying to change men into who "we want them to be". Don't be with a man for the "potential that he will become a better person". Men will always drive us crazy if we view them as a "become a better person" project.

Awesome!

Female/Male begins to break down once you begin to talk about enlightenment. Many teachers that "focus exclusively on developing the feminine" fall into "new age' and not enlightenment/non-duality. There are many "new age" resources on the feminine spiritual life. But here are some female resources that combine enlightenment and femininity in their work: Meagan Moon - Her work is really poetical and metaphorical (really feminine approach), sounds very new age but the foundation of all of her work is non-duality. Boho Beautiful Meditation & yoga from a (feminine) perspective. Her work is solid. Allie Michelle - She integrates non-duality and femininity with grace. She has 100000's of young girls who are following her and look up to her for guidance. There are tons of girls in their teens and 20's who are getting into non-duality because of her influence. It's interesting to watch. The Perception Trainers She reminds me so much of Leo. haha She digs really really deep into things you would usually never think about. She often speaks about eating disorders and body image which are her more female oriented topics. She doesn't play around with lies or deception. She destroys them. Annie Tarasova Once in a while, she makes really trippy non-duality content. haha Teal Swan - She breaks the ego down layer by layer. I learned a lot about how my own brain works as a woman through her work. Krystal Arayani - She teaches about feminine spirituality from a Hindu perspective. I am reading her new book now "Awakening the Goddess". Lisa Cairns Female non-duality speaker who sometimes speaks about non-duality from the perspective of a woman Emerald Of course haha I could think of a ton more femininity resources but they fall into "new age" more than enlightenment.

Do everything that you love without putting an age limit on it. Don't worry about what is "normal". Try new things. Go into your town and do activities you haven't done before.

My childhood was a living hell.

I thought I knew but I have to think about this.

Because the mind forgets. Quickly! The dream-state is extremely powerful. The dream state is like a song that pulls all of humanity into a trance. Many people who have watched that video about "Strange Loops" have already forgotten and went back to sleep.

Why do you think you are red and not orange? Orange is extremely self centered too. What is making you red?

The dance between the "man" and the "woman" pushes us into duality. It's a "duality" that symbolizes "oneness". It's a paradox. "Men" and "Women" becomes complicated once you pass orange stage. Orange stage men and women are what we usually see in culture. But then things start to get funky at green, yellow and turquoise. Where green stage men are more compassionate and loving than orange stage women. It becomes super funky. I think we are far far far away from fully understanding the duality between men/women. Even within the enlightened communities. The shadow is really thick. And we are babies just learning how to walk.

Beautiful. Thank you for sharing!

You are young. Many people don't start connecting to life and their purpose until their death bed.

+1

Charisma and confidence are attributes that walk on a narrow bridge. There are some people with charisma and don't even realize it - they aren't thinking about it. And there are some people with charisma who are carefully manufacturing an ego that appears charismatic to other people - in order to gain something in return. And sometimes there is a mix between the two. It gets really messy where "intention" comes into play.

I have never told my parents that "I am not a Christian". They would kill me. Like damn me to hell. No kidding. And I haven't told them for ..... 6 years? And we are cool. My lifestyle is barely any different since I am boring as hell. haha They have no reason to ask. I talk about philosophy with them and speak about Christianity with them but more "mystically". I "point them to the moon" if that makes sense. The Bible has a ton of non dual concepts. And most of our conversations about the Bible are on those non-dual topics. It's something we still have in common. And when I moved out, they only see me during holidays. So it's not something I think about. Our lives are extremely separate now. It's optional to come out. But if it will make you feel better to come out, then do it.

A monastery is still in the maya. haha There's no leaving it.

Is this a green stage soup? haha

Have you tried going to business networking events in your community? Or entrepreneurship conferences?

Life only gets boring and pointless when you have the crown chakra activated - and the heart chakra and root chakra are not activated. The crown chakra is infinity. The heart chakra is being grounded in love and compassion. And the root chakra is being grounded in the maya and in non-judgement towards the material world. The imbalance of these 3 turns people into zen devils or into nihilistic ghosts.