Galyna

Why nonsense? What would I desire a man I see the first time in my life, please explain. (Taking into consideration I have never talked to him on the phone or online, pure stranger) Just because he talks/looks good? Or frisky? Not all the girls are stupid and can reveal red pill manipulations.

Ideally, both.... But I am trying to be realistic here and I was talking about love , since we are in the dating category of this forum, not in the spiritual one!

Do not repress, suppress or nihilate, as one day the door of your “subconscious mind” will be open and all the repressed feelings or emotions will avalanche with the huge power. Human language reflects your worldview. At the core of everything are the objects in this worldview. And the main thing that reflects your worldview is the “I” object. Notice, “I” isn’t something real, but rather is a glitch in perception. Everything you see and then call it yourself, your body for example, is not what it seems to be. You see a certain image of your body: it moves, you have bodily perception plus visual phenomenon. By default, you assume that this body with its sensory perception is “YOURS”. But think about this phrase: “It is my body”. No, it is not your body! It is just something that being perceived and something that being observed. But the illusory “I” claims these sensory perceptions and calls it “mine”. What you call your body is just a set of perceptions. Body does not even exist. Some set of perceptions create it, create the illusion of the solidity of the body. This is the biggest deception. Just because the perception exists, it does not mean it belongs to someone. Success of the realization is hinged upon the notion, or better to say, upon the understanding, that “something” (this room, your body, color, smell, taste) is being perceived and “you” have no idea what is. You do not know what you are! You must stay away from conceptual thinking or attempts to explain “something” you are perceiving right at this second. Because you will be a copycat if you do, since it is not your direct experience, but rather something you have heard before (parents, school, books, universities, science, etc.). Notice that parents, schools, books, videos, gurus, enlightened teachers are a part of “your” perception. You are creating them by perceiving them. They do not have existence on their own but rather dream characters of “your own dream”. This is so important to see. You must clearly see it. But remember this Dream which "you" call "yours" does NOT have an owner. You do not exist the way you think, as something. But rather you do exist as a process. A collection of processes.... Remove all the language descriptions, labels. What will you be left with? A body runs in some space, and you do not know what it is, I mean this phenomenon what you see (space + body). Why would you assume by default that so called “people” are telling you the truth? Question this. People are a part of your perceptual experience. And be honest with yourself that you can not trust others but your direct experience.

Awe, thank you, all the best for you too in the New Year!

Right, she will drink coffee and will go home. I mean what a normal woman would want to sleep with a stranger or a guy she barely knows? Unless, she is a desperate loner and never been with a good guy. For woman to desire a sexual connection she must be in love. I am talking about normal healthy high value women here.

LOL, and tell me how many women will agree to get laid with such opening?

There is no distinction between these two !

Then question yourself what is reality and what is illusion, might help.

What do you mean when you say "perceptions are not trustworthy? Perceptions create "the self", they can not exist separately from "the self". Everything is then hinged upon "self". No self, no perceptions. I did not say perception is not real, but what I said that "you" are not real. Perceptions are real and they create this identity swirl. There is no one home, you need to stop creating identities here. Anyway...

Your biggest lie is “you”! Period!

Because you are them. Perceptions form “you” but not the other way. You think you are a separate being that has a perception. Now you need to train your mind to think otherwise. You are a product of the perceptions. “You” can’t trust them. Because you don’t exist. You are not a separate entity. Imagine a picture what asks if it can trust its colors! Do you see the absurdity in this question? Colors make a picture. Picture doesn’t exist without colors. Does it have a separate being?

Thanks 😊

@Squeekytoy all right, part 1 is done, you can read it if you want....since you were asking me this question in the other thread. Thank you.

Thank you, my Dear!

I will reply soon. I will write an article and tag you. it is a very lengthy response, and I have to lay it out in a proper way.

I appreciate your feedback about starSeed, but it doesn’t go with awakening. once, I truly believed in a twin flame concept. I even had synchronicities falling at me from different places. But now I just see how mind creates concepts and gets attached to it. Surprisingly, you will be shown exactly what you believe in. It works.

The ice has broken! Piles of snow and blocks of old frost that covered up the “inner knowing” have started to slowly melt and move forward, carried away by the current of the ever-present awareness. This thick, crude perception of identity, like an iceberg has crumbled into small pieces. I am not that thick, solid glacier of ice anymore; this “I” feels more like scattered broken chips of everything: feelings, emotions, sensations. But “I” am not there. And here comes this desirable anticipated bliss, euphoria. Mind is still. Self-love is the most fundamental principle of Reality. Time and space are not, but Self-love is! It is not your egoic little self-love, it is Love toward the whole Being/Self. Sometimes, we do not notice it, but we are always in love with Being, even when suffering. You love your life no matter what because it is yours, and you wouldn’t want to be someone else, even if you had a chance to be. It is rather a subtle feeling. You must remove all other “noises” to notice it. The big barrier is your mind. It is always busy constructing things. But really, everything happens on its own, without a doer. And your mind is just a lost CEO who thinks it owns a very big corporation. It wants to think about its importance and power. During your life course people and circumstances will trigger you. It will require superhuman effort and will power to start practicing and morph your life to reach Realization. You must train your mind to stay aware during the whole entire day. But at the end, when you see that others are You, tricking you, then triggering you into the game, the big rock falls from your shoulders. You don’t react anymore. And this state of acceptance is where you want to be. It is your inner peace. Things happen, but you are peaceful, without any effort. But to get to this place, you must go through some turmoil. Years of practice, self-awareness, meditations, journaling, you name it. But it’s worth it. And by far, this knowledge is the most valuable thing you could ever ask for…

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“Myself” through “you”….

I agree 100%, total honesty with yourself is not easy sometimes…

@Yimpa ok, I see.

When Light meets Darkness, it starts to forget its intrinsic qualities. Darkness is scary and all consuming. Naïve Light travels through life, assuming that everything and everyone around IT sees the world in the same way. Only one day the Light understands how far apart it is from the Others, because Others lost hope, lost their hearts, and lost their love. So Light walking through life, trying to adjust, mimicking other people, drowning in its own suffering from such a big ignorance. First, it starts to inspire by calling others to follow Love, then it starts to push and pressure, then it rebels, and then it finally completely gives up. This is how slowly Darkness consumes and persuades Light that Darkness is way bigger than the Light itself. Light starts to follow Darkness and makes it authority. One day Light believes it. Because Light does not trust its intuition and self-guidance. “I am so small”, - it thinks…. “I cannot sustain.” Days pass, life moves on and eventually Light becomes smaller and smaller. It is lost and forgotten of what it was. Plus, every day Darkness keeps persuading it more and more. Light is the most favorable gift the Darkness could ever desire. Darkness lives and feeds from it. It wants to possess and consume Light. It does not really care, nor Darkness knows the Love itself. But deeply inside Darkness can not portray itself without its opposite. Therefore, by consuming Light it thrives and becomes bigger. These two can not really exist without each other. Because they are One. When Darkness dominates Love cannot be flourished and transcended. Darkness should follow the Light but not the way around. Darkness is feminine aspect and Light is the masculine. It should enlighten (figurately speaking). When these two opposites change their polarities, tragic things happen. And the most tragic thing of all when we stop believing in love. We dwell in the nightmares and depression. Truly life becomes hell on Earth. We lose the track. We lose our lives. This is how Darkness consumes you fully. You have this little Light inside, but you barely notice it, the flame is almost gone. You become a regular human being. And all you have is just a piece of memory, because once met with Divine, you will never forget nor confuse it with anything else. You feel burned out, nor you have potential or resource any longer. You will have a lot of regrets in your life. Years will pass and memory will slowly destroy you. Because you won’t be able to accept this loss. It will tear you up. You will spend so many sleepless nights pondering about your purpose, and but you will never forget, forget the Divine and the Light it carries. Eventually you’ll see how you betrayed your light by believing others. And that would be the most crucial and breaking point of your existence. And the most painful realization will be to see that time is lost, opportunities have gone, and life cannot be returned. You’ve aged but got wiser. You’ve got knowledge but lost the time.

Why? 😂

@Squeekytoy @Yimpa Well honesty is tricky, it all depends on which angle you look at, honesty is relevant as well. Would not say I am so honest, but rather straightforward with people, yes. We all lie, even lying to ourselves, sometimes we notice it, sometimes we do not. In a long run, there are no other people! It is a mere reflection of "self" in every mirror I look....

@Merkabah Star I appreciate it