I have this girl in my life whom i have confessed my feelings to, and she's ignoring me. I am meeting a new girl this week but i strongly feel like this one girl ( the one who i had feelings for) is the one. It becomes difficult when you know that there is only one of her and that she is irreplacable. How is everyone able to let go when you know that if you don't fight for her, she'll be in someone else's arms?
What is the thought process through which you let go?
You let go by realizing that the best chance to keep a woman interested is to be willing to let her go and not fight for her. When you had confessed your feelings to her and she had been ignoring you since then I think you have only a chance in this case, when a woman ignores you, when you don´t run after her and wait until she comes to you. In my opinion, the reason why she´s ignoring you is that you have done something wrong. Most men think in these cases that they must be taking action to improve the situation but in reality, you push with this behavior a woman only more away. you must give her space and show her that you are not needy and strong. Also, I think that "The One" doesn´t exist. This idea is only in your mind. You can find even a better match for you in the future.
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You let go by realizing that the best chance to keep a woman interested is to be willing to let her go and not fight for her. When you had confessed your feelings to her and she had been ignoring you since then I think you have only a chance in this case, when a woman ignores you, when you don´t run after her and wait until she comes to you. In my opinion, the reason why she´s ignoring you is that you have done something wrong. Most men think in these cases that they must be taking action to improve the situation but in reality, you push with this behavior a woman only more away. you must give her space and show her that you are not needy and strong. Also, I think that "The One" doesn´t exist. This idea is only in your mind. You can find even a better match for you in the future.