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isnt that spiritual bypassing

Thats true but the problem is 99.99999% of people believe this is it. On another cautionary note. My mum is 100% sure atheism is it. And some on here are 100% sure no mind is it Jeez maybe psychedelics are the only saviour, problem is they dont trust those experiences because they are hallucinations and too radical. If its too radical then it cant have weight

I hope that's not the one you use... Jks cant help myself tonight

@Nahm if deep down you're concerned about any deficiencies i may have in my relationships or love life, i won't get offended if you let me know. In fact deep down i knew originally you were just concerned i wasn't living up to my full sexual potential, and you were just leading up to offering me an educational video with props to help us struggling beta males out...

Yep so blue stage women don't like blow jobs due to social conditioning telling them that blow jobs is how you get used. Very valuable insight, thanks! ... or I'm just being a smartass as you've stated earlier.

assuming you don't live in your mum's basement, this may indicate there are cultural differences in preferences between asia and the west (India vs France). Which I doubt because the women I dated in New Delhi wanted oral.

Lol this forum is the best place for her to share this stuff because its the most anonymous place for her to share it and its meant to be a place specifically designed for improvement and getting help.

@Nahm reiki effects more then just the heart chakra does it? EDIT: on 2nd thought, I'm offended you'd think I lie on this forum

if you're looking for stuff to say, then you aren't in the right place.

the only limitation that's not a belief is the fact that there are no limitations. Yep maximizing happiness is what you want, and maximizing happiness has to be done a certain way, what you want is a particular way of this dream unfolding, this may look like "limitation" but its not.

hey sorry did you see my post

not sure but, the waking dream feels like there's much more shit there. Many more beliefs that are highly solidified. In sleep dreams its very light, and there's much less shit there because the dream is what an hour long? And this dream is 20 odd years long

excellent points thanks! oh well then you're not using the highway well enough.

Everyone has different styles and preferences. Some like BDSM, some like romantic loving sex. There's nothing wrong with liking BDSM and as preety said, repressing or shaming that aspect of a woman or man's mind will just cause further complications down the line. But acting like every woman or man likes BDSM and rape fantasy is incorrect. It is a generalization. The are men and women out there who would take deeply intimate, loving, caring sort of sex(the type you see when you type "passionate romantic" in porn sites) over BDSM a thousand times over.

haha, that's right, the waking dream feels as flimsy as the sleep dream, almost identical. my list is quite small. Waking dream is different to sleeping dream because: - higher resolution(for me, I believe others have better imagination skills then me) - goes much slower, and lasts much longer. - in sleep dreams, I always feel a bit of a spooky atmosphere haha lol. Like there's something not quite right going on, like a bit of an alice in wonderland sort of thing. What happens in sleep dreams is always a bit spooky and twisted, like the dream I had last night was I was at a trump ralley. And trump was winning. Why would I be at a trump ralley? And why would trump be winning when he lost? Lol. And the people were saying stuff that was a bit off, like the progressives were saying that they liked Trump's nose even though he's an idiot. Why would they say that lol? The waking dream feels much more sober, grounded, Infinitely Loving, deep significance to how its structured (like its structured for deepening the love), etc. I think the above is a huge point TBH. The universe IS love, and its got a very significant agenda to increase that love as much as possible through structuring the ignorance so that you build up on it in the most loving way possible. This is totally omitted (or I'm unaware of it) through sleep dreams. I am not going "oh this trump ralley is all love" I'm going "oh this is spooky as fuck". - the waking dream is much more consistent. It changes much more consistently and gradually. The waking dream is a playstation 4 while the sleep dream is a glitchy 1980s gameboy. - the waking dream is much bigger and therefore there's a lot more inertia that's required to change it. The sleeping dream is like a piece of paper. - im not myself during sleep dreams. I have severe brain damage during them. I'm not thinking straight, making very silly decisions, not thinking things through properly, not understanding what's going on, my agenda is different during sleep dreams. My agenda in the waking dream is to understand reality as deeply as possible. My agenda during sleep dreams don't exist. I'm going with the spooky flow. Just going through the motions of weird occurrences. I'm not obsessed with how the dream is working, its literally nonexistent. I'm not obsessed with worldly things like plans for the future. I'm just going through the flow completely with 0 agenda.

A spiral wizard owl gets the cricket, mouse and owl working together to make a farm

that's some non duality happening right there. (that wasnt me who posted that). I didn't realise Connor was into tantra sex now. He always gave me sinister/showoff/arrogant vibes so I never really watched his content. But if he's into this tantra sex stuff now, maybe my judgements are seriously deluding me. Maybe I should start watching his content. Recently I've been really applying a rethink of how relationships work within myself (just through my own derivations from contemplation), where relationships are more of a scaffolding for reaching the infinite, rather than something to get attached to. There's lots of toxicity in how relationships work in society (and even among personal dev junkies like on here) that is just a distraction and waste of time. Getting attached to someone else is just an absurd thing to do when breaking up is largely inevitable and necessary for growth for most people. The archetypes for males and females are largely toxic and outdated (even though normalised). And what both men and women want is to override these archetypes, attachments and to see the divine that sparkles through relationships, so why not go in that direction? If instead of viewing relationships as a way to get sex, or a way to get happiness through a human form (the other person), what if you viewed relationships as a way of exploring the consciousness that you are. A way of knowing Thyself with greater intensity. Every interaction with a women is an opportunity to explore how your body and mind interacts with the opposite sex, how our chakra and energetic systems mingle, and what they actually do and want. What if its an opportunity to explore and release traumas, an opportunity to explore bliss and joy and happiness not from the vantage point of it all coming from the opposite sex, but from it coming from within. When seeing a women on the street, you're not seeing someone to have sex with, you're seeing a library of information about your traumas, chakra system, energy system, different states of consciousness you've never explored before. And approaching her means the opportunity to open that library and see what YOU are made of, actually. And every woman is not just an opporunity for you to explore what You're made of, but to help her explore what she's actually made of. You can literally transform a human being through a relationship. Instead of making relationships about maintaining titillation through a binding contract for what the other person must serve you, and how how long (short or long term relationship) see the relationship as a course or journey of transformation of your own being. In other words, it doesn't matter if you break up, because it never was about staying together, it was always about transforming yourself and the other. And choosing to stay together is only about whether that helps both of your journeys. I've been experimenting with this mindset in pickup, and it seems to be working, given the right techniques and processes used when doing pickup.

But that's what religious and scientific folk have against you. Its symmetrical. You grip peterson for deluding people, scientists gripe you for deluding people. Surely this is a sign that gripe for others deluding others needs to be rethought.

Excellent! Thanks for sharing! Writing here so I can follow this thread.

@seeking_brilliance yeah ive found that the most effective thing for me so far is to just question "am I in a dream" 24/7 and then to give very thorough answers as to why the answer is the way it is. Makes me feel very dissociated though. Some times I can't give a good answer as to why I'm not in a sleeping dream right now.

Leo's approach in the environment forum tends to be acknowledging that there is unconscious behaviour going on in politics, but always a push to lead others to be more conscious. Show others not to get wrapped up in conspiracy theories, not to vote for an unconscious president. Yes 99% of people in politics are doing things unconsciously, but we can lead and show them the way. On this subsection though, Leo's approach is, women are unconscious, and lets kindle and egg on that unconscious behaviour by being unconscious ourselves. Women want rape because they handle relationships unconsciously, so lets rape them. Has it occured to anyone on here yet that if you are a man, and therefore the leader, you can actually lead them towards better or more conscious behaviour? Must you give into a women's unconscious, totally toxic desire to be raped, instead of showing them what they actually want through leading by example, pushing through their unconscious biases, bringing out the conscious elements in them and through good sex showing them that this is what they actually wanted, and its way better then what they have been given before? One element of rape(even if Leo meant the word as an exaggeration rather than its literal definition) is overriding a girls wants through dominance and assertion. Its saying, nope fuck what want, as an alpha male i know what you want better then you do and you're gonna obey me in sex. This isnt the best way to do things, even though most sex is like this. If you can show them that a guy listening to their wants, and sex being a collaboration rather than one sided dictating, actually helps them get what they want more, then they will override their own unconscious biases for the better way.

Nope, not many women want to be raped by men. Doing the opposite actually(showing them that you care about their feelings during sex, being gentle with them, and even expressing what you want and asking them whether they want that too) yields a very good experience. Jeez, if your views are the product of doing pick up in Las Vegas, then sounds like Las Vegas are full of ape like hoes. And the pickup men there sound even worse. Get out of Las Vegas are try a nicer area.

Excellent

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