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Anyone that recently has adopted a more abundant mindset that actually worked out for them? Meaning not someone that says they are abundant and then remained broke, but a mindset that brought out actual change. I would like to dive a bit in that mindset and what changed for you internally? Specifically around carreer and money, not relationship wise.

Am I the only one that went from listening to the big spiritual gurus to more basic almost beginner meditations? I don't feel these gurus have the effect on me they used to have, I rather do a quick 15 minute basic meditation on youtube. I am intrested how you feel about this and what is your favorite meditation?

@Recursoinominado yes I think that makes sense why I don't resonate with it anymore, thank you for your answer.

I have spend 6 months trying to find my purpose realizing that how most people find their purpose didn't fit me. I now have found an alligned path for me, but I know many people might have some issues finding their purpose as most peoples purpose is very simplistic and unconscious, like be a firefighter or something simple and a bit stupid, to be honest. For me it was much more conscious and deep, touching me at my very core, but to get to that, it took me going through allot of resistance, allot of painful humbling moments where I had to realise I had to start from 0 again and that I might have to embaress myself, put myself out there, be couragous, what my ego definitely didn't want to do so it wanted an easy, comfortable purpose. Anyways enough about me, if you have any questions around purpose let them know below, I might be able to help you get some clairity and insight.

@Joshe I agree with this to great extend, I would say my purpose first was more brought and then it became more narrow, by noticing what resonated with me and what didn´t or as chatgpt says `what fucked me up` hahaha. I would say first find the broughtest thing that could be your purpose like. Inner work, inner growth for example. Or self development. Or even more general like growth. Then you take in this case the direction `growth` and explore all aspects of that and just go in a direction that resonates more with you and overtime it becomes more and more specific. Because even if your purpose would be cooking, it wouldn´t be likely that it would be all the different dishes from all the different countries of the world, you would probably resonate with either Japenese cooking or french cooking more then cooking all of the different dishes. Unless you have a very specific personality type that wants to cook a dish out of every single country and never get to perfect a specific dish. If everyone had that personality type then the world wouldn´t have Indian restaurants versus Japanese restaurants, I think we are naturally going from more brought to more specific, but its about not rushing that natural process and starting as brought as you can.

I have an intresting question or atleast I find it intresting to hear from different people the same or different answers. How do regular people respond to you, not people into spirituality, regular folks and strangers, after you are very present? have been meditating or when you are in a super high vibrational state? I am intrested to hear everyones response to this.

I have been for the longest time trying to be as authentic as possible and the more I am interacting in the world, the more I realise that a character, personality, that isn't authentic or semi authentic draws in people way more. That makes me feel performative, rather then transparent, I know that I already can't be transparent as too many truths trigger the mainstream people, so I have to filter everything and dumb everything down to their level, then on top of that create this type of character and only then do I have people resonating with me. I feel authenticity in that way is a scam, cause unless you are very unconscious, being conscious and authentic makes you resonate with no one. Putting on this character almost makes me feel like a split personality, the one I show to the world, versus the one that I am at home, because the one I am at home, no one resonates with. This makes me feel very split in a bad way, in the sense that character. I feel the solution might be accepting that this is the reality, but I somewhere still have hope for an alternative reality although that feels very unlikely. What are your thoughts on this? Do you struggle with this fatigue of putting on a character or being authentic instead and having no one resonate with you?

@theleelajoker Yes I hope everything is clear now

@Joseph Maynor I think that is great news for you, probably you have found a purpose that is on the higher scale of consciousness therefor even if you grow, your probably still gonna feel alligned to it.

@Alexop I feel in stage green many people still get triggered allot by even more open minded perspectives. I had a girlfriend in stage green and when I started to be really authentic and transparent about my inner process and perspectives shifts and all this work we do with Leo, she said I turned too spiritual and it actually let us to break up. Now you said older woman, I never had a older girlfriend in stage green, but I wouldn't be suprised if they get triggered the more authentic you become and tell you something like your "too spiritual" aswell. Yet I haven't dated them so I don't know.

@LastThursday Could you ellaborate a bit more, because to me I don't experience a character as fun, only practical or necessary honestly. Fun would be to be completly authentic to me, yet that driving most people away as they resonate at a lower level.

@Ramasta9 Yes I guess you can find better potential in those crowds

@Ramasta9 Yes, this is very true, we could have a whole discussion on success, but that is a bit off topic. I would say I should seek a little bit more community, because even tho there is allot wrong with most spiritual people, I would say I resonate much more with them, then lets say, your average person at the club. And it would balace maybe everything out. I see your walking very much a path that resonates with you socially, I can respect that. Thank you for sharing.

@Ramasta9 This intresting for sure, I love to dance sometimes I dance even a bit crazy in clubs, cause it feels authentic and people are shocked by it. But when I let my unfiltered self speak that makes most people leave rather triggered hahaha. I guess I am just very honest if I am unfiltered. Its funny, but also a bit sad sometimes, because when I am actually very much less authentic most people in my city seem to resonate much more. I think finding your tribe as you said, places where you can be authentic, beautiful, but sometimes also it is important to be effective with communicating with people outside of that. As you said with your parents, but also in success. In fact I would say its part of becoming successful or atleast that is my belief. Feel free to question my assumptions.

@theleelajoker These are many questions, but I can answer a few as a starter. How do I know ther is a single life purpose? There is no single life purpose in the sense that you will have a purpose forever, some people have a purpose to be a firefighter and after 5 years they don't resonate with it anymore. Therefor even my life purpose might change in 5 years, I would say therefor instead of thinking in words of a final super hero type of purpose, think more of it in what is in allignment for you while giving value. For example, a farmer is giving value, but that doesn't mean everyone resonates with being a farmer. So allignment is key and allignment might change overtime. Especially when you have a lower conscious purpose like being a truck driver or something, then if you grow you will grow out of that faster then a purpose that is more on the higher scales of consciousness. Doesn't mean you can't be conscious and a truck driver, but its very unlikely that that still will resonate with you. What would tell I might be wrong? I don't look at it from an intellectual point, I looked at what resonated with me, if something resonates with me, its not an intellectual decision, that is the big difference. How do I know that others life purpose is simple, stupid and unconscious? This is of course a blunt saying of me, maybe exagurated a bit, but I would say that I rarely find someone have a very high conscious purpose, maybe something like getting people get rid of alcohol, but that even to me doesn't sound like it is super conscious, because lets say people are no longer addicted to drugs or alcohol, are you now helping them to be conscious? No, your just helping them with addiction, many people have gotten rid of alcohol and then became a billionaire chasing money like Grant Cardone, in fact maybe you could even say that Grant Cardone getting of of drugs made the world more unconscious, because not only is he chasing money like a dog, he is encouraging others to do so in great quantity. What makes me sure that my life purpose is not simple, stupid and unconscious? How can you be sure? I guess nothing is full proof, but you can say that if you resonate with something that is beyond ego, meaning status, money, sex, even safety and security, that we are already leaning into a good direction. For example Jesus purpose had nothing to do with status, not only that his status went down, his safety and security was attacked, BECAUSE he had a too high of a purpose for people in the middle ages to resonate with it. It attacked his survival directly yet he never swayed of his purpose, I wouldn't know if I am as hardcore as him, unlikely, but if its not encouraging survival, it is something beyond ego, therefor higher conscious according to me.

@Alexop Yes, I think we are quite similar in that respect. When I was younger, I used to talk about spirituality with people, my girlfriend, all of this Leo stuff, but I quickly learned that people, or at least the people I was talking to, didn’t resonate with it at all and often got triggered. Since then, I’ve completely avoided spiritual topics. I think you’re right that there are other parts of authenticity that aren’t related to that topic or other triggering subjects. Although it may be a bit superficial, it’s still interesting to lean more into that type of authenticity. Food for thought, thank you for sharing. Would you say you feel fulfilled being like this? In other words no character fatigue?

@Natasha Tori Maru I agree that partly validation is important not in the sense that I can´t stand rejection, rather that my success relies upon others validation to a great extend as a performer, youtube creator where I am aiming to shoot for I wouldn´t say virality, but greater exposure, it seems hard to not care about that at all. To answer your question, this is mainly related to me trying to make it in carreer. I guess, because that is where I am trying to focus on social skills for, to help me create in a way that resonates with others, but in doing that I feel split between how I naturally am and how I feel I have to be in the world. Hope that makes sense.

I have realised lately, that as an introvert doing extroverted stuff is very exhausting on me, I have been more reguarly going out, talking to people, not even to get laid, rather to gain social skills. I have realised that the main things that drain my energy as an introvert doing these are a few things. One, excuse making, you spend time thinking if you should approach or not, not knowing when to stop, you have not set a rule on how many sets you open or how many or for how long you will talk to people, they also call this decision making fatigue. Another one is putting too much pressure on yourself, you have to do it well or you have to not fuck up, all these outcomes are very exhausting and something I am still learning to let go of. Insane, cause I have been approaching people for the longest time and still find myself stuck in basic level stuff. Then lastly I would say taking moments, breaks, in between, sometimes, you just need to breathe for a second, 30 or 50 seconds of just connecting to yourself and then go into the next conversation. Not to the point that its so long that you start to make excuses. Also another thing I would say its self judgement fatigue. Due to recently going bald, I have had to face insecurity around my hair loss, but I am working myself through it not by hiding it, but facing the fear. I feel the best way to overcome fears are gradual exposures where your not BOOM facing your fears, but rather gradually expose yourself so that you can integrate and learn the body to feel safe, have a relaxed nervous system, cause the goal is not to have balls, but for the `scary` thing to start to feel safe or safer. If you were once scared of sky diving, doing it 100 times in the next 100 days would make you less afraid of sky diving. I know this, cause I have done tons of things in my life that made me scared, but through habit, repetition, it becomes more normal. Any introverts dealing with the same issue of remaining high energy and also socialising? I am glad to hear some people talk about this, its an intresting topic especially because allot of my work is based on socialising and its a real struggle for me sometimes to have energy throughout my day. These are the ways right now I gain or remain the most energy while also being social.

@Gigsi I don't think the focus should be on the purpose of life, but the reason why you are alive. For me I am alive for a purpose and I don't care about the purpose of life, why? Because I am living and focused on my own purpose. Even if life is meaningless, it wouldn't matter, cause I have my own purpose. Being focused on the purpose of life is like a philisophical question making you go round and round, not taking action and achieving your purpose here on earth, therefor these questions are meaningless loops, this is what Buddha meant with meaningless cycles, this is a meaningless thought loop, adding nothing to your life. Because honestly life is more likely to be meaningless then have any specific meaning. Meaning is made up, even getting kids and surviving for them can be your purpose, its not such a high purpose, but its a purpose, now I don't imagine consciousness caring about the kid and you surviving or not, its you that care, its your life purpose.

@SimpleGuy What have you tried to find your purpose?

I think this is something you could start with and through doing this you will feel a way that alligns to you and also with the world, cause also you got to see if it resonates with other people, if you can't make others resonate with the multilanguage rap, your enjoying it, but no one cares and then no one pays, so its a great idea, execute on it, but also listen to feedback, if this doesn't resonate with you or with people, you have to fine tune more and more to get to the sweet spot where it resonates for both you and the world and then you can also make a living from your purpose instead it being just something for yourself. Hope this feedbacks helps you. And you can only know if something work by testing it out and seeing how people respond. Good luck!

you say your life purpose is your instagram page, I went on your instagram page and there was 6 posts or something, no real consistency, nothing really niched down, all over the place. How can you say this is your life purpose? I am not trying to give you shit, I am just trying to get to the truth, cause this doesn't seem to come from your soul and a burning desire to become successful with it.

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