Preety_India

I consider your point. Now please consider mine. I want this forum to be a loving fruitful place and not a dumping ground for redpillers Red pill threads are against forum guidelines. You're a new number of this forum and I respect you but I'm a very old member on this forum, been here for years. I have seen tons and tons, day after day, some new guy everyday opens a thread on a red pill topic and spews all hate against women calling them and manipulative cuss words and what not almost like a hate brigade. The moderators on the forum had to constantly remind them and even after being told kindly change their attitude, they would go after the female moderator here, to the point they drove her mad, she didn't want to be in this section anymore, they would harass and bully her, I stood for her many times, yet this trend continued and this section turned into a cesspit of raging hate against women. Those days she would quickly come to this section to correct these dudes. Not anymore. I had opened a thread very long ago on here and I was simply asking for advice regarding an abusive ex boyfriend and they turned my whole thread into a discussion of why women like me want such men, when it had nothing to do with it, constantly Gaslighting me, to the point I was no longer interested in getting any advice, any woman who entered this section would have a bunch of words thrown at her. This thing continued till Leo had to step in and he made a common thread, a featured thread telling the men here to stop blaming women and work on themselves to be better at being with women. I have seen all of this go down and there's a limit to how much you can take. These same guys would make different accounts and harass the female moderator. I don't see her much in the dating section anymore. So much for giving space to all the red pillers and hearing them out? Or is it that they are simply seeking validation for toxic thoughts and are never open to the idea that they work on themselves to attract better women? My goal is to create a balance. Women on this forum are extremely few, like a rarity almost. You don't see women coming here in large numbers bashing men or bashing men and calling them evil. On this thread the word manipulative b**'h has already been used. It gets to a point that all the toxicity gets very traumatizing everyday and good members are not heard, driven out by name calling or are bullied.. I'm the only remaining female who had the courage to take a stand against this in the dating section. Most females would not even enter such a conversation out of fear of being bullied. At what cost are we supposed to hear these men or their toxic ideology? This should be a safe place for women who are here to get advice and to connect with others. I have given plenty and plenty of good advice to men here over the years. Many men have even approached me personally for advice. Many have thanked me.. The thing is if a guy comes in here with a respectful tone, (not a trollish tone), and is asking for genuine advice on his relationship I try to tell him the best course of action in his situation. And they respectfully understand and respond. But the red pill type guys do not come here respectfully, they start threads to outrage women, to do mudslinging and they want me to agree to their hateful ideology. It's similar if I opened a thread and called all men rapists just because one man sexually assaulted me. Would that be fair? And if I intensely disagreed with all the men trying to explain me that it's not true. How many men on the forum will put up with that? That would be wrong for me to do. Similarly it's wrong for men to stereotype women on here. I'm taking a brave stance here. I should be appreciated for this bravery and effort. I can easily say that it's none of my business. But I care about that female moderator and how most women feel but don't say it. Then they start with a kernel of truth argument. There is also some truth to nazism, so should we now allow nazism to fly on here, or give them a platform? Do you wanna know the real truth? These men will never be able to say things, the most toxic, sexist, hateful things in public because they would be quickly called out, so like Anonymous keyboard edgelords, they come in here on the internet and find places where they can dump their toxic thoughts and use it like a dump ground every day. It's so easy to do that without repurcussions and keep trolling the good members and get their daily dose of "High"... This is a vulnerable site and there are a few vulnerable women on here. I have been to plenty of sites and I have faced tremendous amount of cyberbullying for months from toxic men on the internet, to the point I began to suffer health issues coming from that trauma of bullying I don't want this place to turn into something like that. I feel safe here thanks to the moderators. I don't want this place similar to other places on the internet where red pill men seek out their rage and bully vulnerable women like me. I feel protected here because Leo takes a firm stand against such behavior that a lot of website founders don't care to on the internet. There is already enough space on the internet for red pillers, look at Reddit But there is an extremely small space for women like me and others and this place is one of the rare ones. I don't want this to be corrupted and become like other Red Pill Communities. That's why I stand against it. To protect the sanity here. Before you think about giving space to them, please think about giving space to all the women. Anyway they are very few. Over the years I have seen plenty of good women leave this forum out of extreme frustration after being bullied by the Red Pill guys. They stay while the women leave. So my outrage is legit. To all those who support Red Pill this is your thread

Red pill = a bunch of angry Incel rejected dudes who just keep whining about women and target women every opportunity they get. They are generally miserable and out of touch with reality. They have a poorly integrated feminine side so they look at women as if they are aliens. They don't even understand that all women are different, they generalize and stereotype all women based on their negative experiences. Some men don't even have any past experiences with women because they never had a woman. They simply jump on the bandwagon as a refuge from their own Insecurities. An outlet to justify all of their toxic thoughts. If they were about walking away in peace, they would have left women alone in peace. But they are always looking for women and also complaining how women are so terrible. They can't sort themselves out and make all women responsible for their problems in life Also they have this toxic mindset that life is all about dating and relationships. They can't see anything beyond it. They suffer from toxic masculinity. Some of them learn pickup and dating and find partner and move on in life. The rest remain lonely and miserable ready to pounce on any woman and unload their resentment on her..

Got an idea. Make a series of art with both writing and drawing and post it on Instagram. Patumba earthen pots line. Each pot contains something, either it gives or something is given to it. It has two compartments. Or two pots placed one upon the other.

Earthen pots in a line

This is how the bar will look like. It's the chain bar of colorful lights.

I got an earthen pot. Nice find. Wrote a list today.. Gonna do it later though. Just focusing on what needs to be done. Putting all the concepts in line. I forgot a very important concept. Let me think. Arghh I also want to be random at the same time. Just start with good things. I really need an initiation ceremony. This will be more like Grounding But I want something that I can do frequently. And not feel so restless Maybe keeping a timer might help And to keep a rhythm I think I need something like a connector. Looking like traffic lights A set of traffic lights acting as chain links That would be great Each defining something. I also need a digital drawing board. So I can draw. Like a manuscript? Something on which I can both draw and write

@DrewNows good for you.

@Recursoinominado I don't care about your opinion. Don't talk to me. I hadn't shown you any hate. I have the right to have an opinion on a movement that mostly peddles on hating women and justifies it If that is a problem to you, it's your self bias. I won't bother to reply.

Kamala Harris is going to decriminalize Marijuana which is great news for y'all Americans.

@mdg333 because that's the truth. Leo understands truth better than anyone You don't see it that way because you haven't reached there yet.

This is the only place with some sanity. This is nothing like the Ring lol. Btw that movie gave me nightmares for months.

I agree with this. Good point. I believe in creating a fair system, good for all human beings. We cannot live in peace meanwhile seeing and ignoring the suffering of others. Now coming to the video, I'm not so sure what the covert message of the video is. But the comment section put me completely off. Also I researched a bit about this channel. It seems Google demonetized one of the videos for being controversial. And the comment in support of the video was some anti-semitic bullshit. I don't consider this academic at all. Below are a set of comments. That I find not very liberal or open minded. This particular comment made me think that it had an anti-immigration sentiment. Anti-diversity This comment really made me not buy into that YouTuber's video, considering there is so much radicalization, hate mongering and misinformation based brainwashing propagandist content being peddled on YouTube. Sorry but I don't wish to be brainwashed. From my end, the video gets a thumbs down.

They are woman haters who were rejected too many times but their Ego was so big that instead of working on themselves to get along with the opposite gender they decided to create an obnoxious faction of victim mentality and entitlement and place all the blame on women to make themselves look like saints and justify their ignorant opinions and actions against women. Short summary of red pill according to me.

Why are the comments constantly about cultural Marxism. What is the video covertly trying to hint at? That the current culture of multiculturalism is being peddled as the "greater good" and is the video trying to go against that by masking the narrative using the example of Marxist fascism of Stalin and not buying into the elite rhetoric? So what's the deal here? Who is the maker of the video taking a swing at?

I could use a candle.

The video sounds like anti-immigration agenda to me Another form of social control..

The ways in which / people deflect blame Denial Rationalization Justification Projection (projecting self bias on others, blaming going to do something in the future. You are going to be a threat Conspiracy I guess I think too much about / people.

You're very misconstrued about Green. You are trying to make them look like violent thugs trying to get what they want. Green will justify force when things are out of control and rights are being violated The need for justice is extremely strong in Green. But understand this civil rights movements were never really peaceful. You think that by simply standing peacefully, people in authority would care to listen? Green needs to challenge Blue and Red Authority which cannot be done without the use of some force or disruption! This is perfectly valid if the goal is to stop oppression or social evils. Today because of Green movements like Feminism, I'm able to speak to you. Or else under a Red system I would have gotten married at 9 years old to an older man, doing dishes and getting beaten up by him,the way it happened to my grandmother.. So be grateful to Green, because of Stage Green activists, the world is less oppressive to the vulnerable groups in society. No I'm not attacking you, just trying to correct you.

How can you say this is wrong? Nurses are at the highest risk of getting Covid-19. So nurses protesting to have better and safer conditions is wrong? I'm baffled.

At every stage there is an unhealthy part. At S Green it's fairly minimized. Why not focus on the larger good?

Try to have some spontaneity in your life. Play it between rigidity and freedom. You don't have to be so disciplined all the time. And most importantly follow your heart.

You missed my point entirely. They are not the characterization of Green. They are a mischaracterization of Green. How come people who don't follow Green values be considered green in the first place? And even if some were excessive examples, they are too small to count. They in no means represent a larger group which is relatively peaceful and focused on progressivism. You can't use a broad brush and say all Green are this way. Even Green people would not agree with someone like Antifa. Progressivism is not a cult.. It's a movement. Sadly a lot of minor groups can hijack it for their own agenda. But as history as shown, progressivism wins and such groups pass into the shadows.

The background music that begins at 9.12 always gets to me. It makes my hair stand up It's the most glorious piece of music.

Stage Green isn't stupid. A true stage green is against injustice. Cherry picking some weird ones who go after everyone is the same as cherry picking some obnoxious illogical feminist and then using it to smear all feminists and feminism Demonization of Stage Green is stupid because they are about progressive. If you are talking about people like Antifa who just need an excuse for violence, then these are not representations of Stage Green. Just because someone uses a progressive term to define themselves, they don't automatically represent that. This is like if a rapist said that he stands for women's rights. The values of a structure do not change whatsoever. The people who represent those values can either do so in the right way or the wrong way. And when they do it the wrong way, they are failed at representing that structure and should be exempt from such reference. Therefore I wouldn't call such people Stage Green and malign a progressive movement. The right however does this all the time to justify their mud slinging. They intentionally cherry pick and choose extreme examples to push their own corrupt agendas