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When will a man treat me right? Especially after I have given him love, respect and affection. He will only treat me right if he values my loyalty love and affection But if he takes me for granted then he won't value me. When will a man try to get along with me or try to be compatible with me? I have to understand this as a woman. Let's say I always agree with him when he says something. But when it's my choice he never agrees with me. That's a bad sign. This is like a doormat relationship, where only I'm supposed to agree with him. So when does a man want to get along with me or agree to me? When the man values me.. Only then he will put that effort. If he doesn't value me, despite me being attractive to him, he will always treat me like a doormat. I need to find a man who knows how to value me.

What kind of a man I should be looking for? Someone who is interested in keeping me happy meanwhile I'm interested in keeping him happy. We both keep each other happy. It shouldn't be one way. A man who understands the limitations of a relationship. A man who is not a pervert A man who is not a creep A man who treats his girlfriend right A man who is not a user or player A man who is not hyper-critical or abusive or controlling. Or overly judgemental or has huge cognitive dissonance. A man who doesn't manipulate or gaslight. A man who is just simple and nice A man who is loyal and trustworthy A man who I can marry

The poverty of love

The Necessity of valuing someone

@Mikael89 that's because his ignorant ass doesn't want to wear a mask even if he is around people with covid.

That's the way to go.

Green screen To me the green screen serves as a distraction, the mindfulness beautiful distraction from brutal reality. Another imagination in my mind is a bunk bed Always remember that whatever this world will admire and appreciate will never be the best thing.

More topics Green screen Life is super easy The girl rejects you. But you have rejected her in your mind already. Jow a woman feels around a man..

Lot of new agey spirituality on this thread, slippery slippery slope that one. Word salad

@nahtanoj sometimes I use money as a reward. So a certain amount of cash is placed in a box and this gets accumulated over time like a piggy bank system then this becomes my reward. Seeing it grow makes me happy.. This money is put back into the bank at the end of the year. Other rewards I use is placing chocolates in a jar and then when I have completed goals, eating them.

Topics in this journal The Understanding and the Ego How the Ego ruins everything Difference between a healthy ego and an unhealthy ego. Why being a decent person in this world is so difficult? Why we must support good leaders and hate bad leaders? Life is not rocket science, it's super easy. We make it complicated Be nice and be with nice. Narcissism and the conscience Is a man trying to be compatible? Passing the exam of life - a 20% score. The middle ages When judgment is thrown at good people

I want to be an advocate for women's rights in the future. Especially for women who have suffered like my mother I also want to write a book and title it as "Bright Brilliant Beautiful" and make it a collection of stories of bravery shown by women in abject circumstances and how they were always Bright Brilliant Beautiful despite all that society and life put them through. One such example is this woman who is a single mother and fighting to create a better future for herself and her baby. Such women give me hope and strength. I want to document the journeys of such women and ask them what changes they would want in society to create a safer and better existence for women, what changes could have improved their lives.

Understanding empathy Understanding her side rather than dismissing it in your mind The nice creepy guy If you want a woman to love you, love her back Trust building Integrating the Feminine side Positive bias and negative bias - when praise is not really praise.. When you don't come from a healthy place of compassion. Intention more important than action

@Keyhole Honey, please take good care of yourself. You are loved. Sending you all my positivity and blessings your way. You deserve so much more. You are an angel.

I also want to start a channel like David Pakman. It's such a passion for me.

I can suggest Tao of Love.

That's what happens to egotistical people. They go down and they take others down with them as well. Their Ego works very well in convincing many people that they are right. In the end, reality comes in like a rock and hits them in the face But the people who stupidly believed them also go down with them. Sneaky Ego's Karma.

What you're going through is self rejection. So you try to accept things that happened and accept that this is who you are, not reject yourself. After accepting yourself, you will be able to love yourself more. Liberate yourself from that inner rejection that came from past trauma Think that you're free. You are free from whatever happened. Invest in being proud of yourself. Encourage yourself.. The main motto is to empower yourself. And remember that even if you are struggling, that struggle is not bad, it also has a value, the value of labor. It's like you wear your scars with pride.

I'm sorry for what you have been through. Have you tried therapy and counseling? Talking to a therapist every day will help you forget it faster and heal better. It will overcome the trauma. The other things you can do is work on your self esteem and try to stay happy most of the time. This will distract you from negative memory. Self love is important here Do not punish yourself because you're not at fault. By thinking bad about yourself, you're punishing yourself. Focus on the future. And try to create more love in your life. Love heals everything.

@Forestluv he might even say to his followers that the coronavirus was a democratic hoax, he will be like "look at me, I'm doing so well, I'm doing better than anyone, I told you it was a hoax and nobody believed me. Trust me, it was a hoax. I knew it. Nobody knew better than me. I always know better. Trust me. We win bigly."

@Forestluv he will say that Covid is not a big deal and he will celebrate his success with a huge Trumpister party and then mock those who couldn't survive and call them weak. He will shove his recovery into everyone's faces as a huge victory. He might even ask for another Nobel Peace Prize. But he will look down on those who didn't survive.. Because in his eyes, they are Losers and suckers lol.... The biggest narcissistic bully chest beater in history.

Here you don't understand the difference between values and intentions. Values and actions are guided by intentions also. They are not blank values. They are associated with intent. You're trying to separate.. For example, if I donate money to a good organization that helps poor people, I'm having the value of "donating" or "charity" but this value is also associated with good intentions because the organization is helping people. Now if I donate money to a criminal mafia organization that is blackmailing or killing people, I'm still "donating" money but the intention behind my donation is bad because I'm supporting an evil organization. Similarly, if I'm loyal to my boyfriend who is a good person, my quality is loyalty and my intention behind this quality is also good. But if I'm loyal to a man who is a bad person, let's say he is exploiting children, then my quality of loyalty still exists but my intentions are evil because I'm supporting evil. Obviously since he is somebody I know, I should also know all the bad things he is doing. After knowing all that, if I still try to be with him and show my loyalty, then I'm being complicit and evil That's why me and Melania are not same in any way. She is loyal to a bad man. I'm loyal to a good man. Here the difference is in intention and not action. You can use a knife to cut vegetables in the kitchen. Or you can use a knife to cut someone's finger. Now the knife is the same. The action is also similar, the act of cutting. But the intention is completely different. It's not the action that we focus on, but the result of such an action. Supporting a bad person is giving more power to the bad person. Of course such behavior is not coming from good intentions.

You don't get my point. Loyalty is to a good person, not to an evil person. Honoring a teacher from school and honoring a mafia gang leader are not the same thing. If I honor my boyfriend, I also honor his qualities because he is a good guy. If he was a criminal, I would leave him immediately. That's what good women and men do.

@Forestluv I'm just trying to imagine what sort of social distancing scenario will exist between Trump and Biden now? Will they be 100 feet away from each other in the next debate? Maybe a Skype debate ? In the next debate, Biden will say "shut up man, don't send your virus to me! "