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The balance of masculine and feminine. To create a balance, both should take qualities of each other in measured doses. That's where the flaws of both get neutralized. In order to balance the flaws of the Feminine and reduce their impact, she needs a dose of the masculine to complement her. In order to balance the flaws of the Masculine and reduce their impact, he needs a dose of the Feminine to complement him. What does she have Intuitive Counter productive (lack of seld preservation) Excessive opening of the heart chakra (opening up too much) Closing of the Mind Chakra What does she need Counterintuitive Productive (self preservation) Opening of the mind chakra Leveling the heart chakra What does he have Counterintuitive Productive (self preservation) Closing of the heart chakra - he has closed the heart chakra Opening of the mind chakra - his mind chakra is very open What does he need Intuitive Counter productive (letting of the self preservation desire in certain instances) Generosity Opening of the heart chakra Leveling the mind chakra

The Feminine always takes up jobs like nursing, coaching, cooking, making, distributing, caring, etc because of her higher capacity for empathy. The masculine always takes up jobs like sports, fighting, competition, wealth creation, power, critic because it serves the masculine with self-preservation through productive behavior and gives greatest capacity for Counterintuitive behavior. The Counterintuitive behavior is important to the masculine because he assumes that this will help his self preservation. So he goes to the extreme to maintain this Counterintuitive behavior.. This is very detrimental to the masculine because he does himself more harm by constantly denying the Intuit. He is denying his deeper wisdom just to protect himself. But deeper wisdom is truth. He tries to deny what is true. He goes against his own intuition and ends up taking ridiculous decisions, regrets later and ends up frustrated.. He builds up a massive ego in the process, an ego only built for the purpose of self preservation.. A very good example of a masculine who is totally Counterintuitive in a dangerous way and productive and lacking feminine integration is Donald Trump. He is massively masculine. But he is massively Counterintuitive. And therefore he ends up making massive mistakes and errors in what he thinks is going to be productive, but it ends up being Fatal. This is the a great example of masculine gone wrong and out of control.. This is a dangerous masculine. A predatory masculine and an unwise masculine. This masculine has no feminine in it and over time has turned venomous.. What about a dangerous feminine. A feminine which is deep is looking for spreading empathy. She wants to embrace kindness But wisdom escapes her judgement because her judgment is clouded by layers of deep trust, faith, kindness and empathy. Her energy is floating and beautiful yet dangerously lacking in logic and wisdom. She has acquired a natural wisdom through her empathy but hardcore ground wisdom is missing. Counterintuitive strategic wisdom is missing. She only knows that doing good will lead to good... Which is a higher wisdom but not lower wisdom. She can hug a terrorist and give him a kiss.. This will backfire miserably. Because in her pursuit of higher wisdom, the deep feminine forgot the lower wisdom. The pragmatic wisdom. This is a dangerous feminine. Although she is full of love, her foolishness can lead to her death. It will not cause self preservation but self destruction. She can also the destruction of others She will bring a snake into her house as a pet. A terrorist or gangster as a husband. Give the snake a lot of love, meanwhile when she is away, the snake eats her child. Her foolishness can destroy her family. After sympathizing with a gangster or rapist, she has brought hell for her children. This is a dangerous feminine . A foolish feminine and an unwise feminine. This feminine although loving has no masculine in it and over time has turned foolishly dangerous ..

Satyam Shivam Sundaram

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I'm level 9 soul.

Why does it always have to be like this. Like why. I have met people who have been rude obnoxious freaks because they love to act like that because they think they're too good and others deserve to be treated badly and they have had a privileged growth, no trauma. It isn't always this way. Some people are just sociopathic and arrogant. Also saying that this behavior has a mark of trauma is a blatant disrespect to people like me who actually suffer trauma but never went out and drank and hurt other people. This is the narrative I'm so sick of. This narrative of defending bad behavior or finding sympathy for it. It's almost like saying a pedophile is a pedo because of child abuse. It's an insult to real people. I don't need to have a drop of pity or empathy for people who are acting badly. I need to man up in front of them. They are not important. There are only very few people who act bad because of trauma, and that gets generalized so much, it really creates empathy around bad behavior which it should not. It is akin to Gaslighting the good person for feeling bad or reacting in self defense, asking that person to forgive and take all their shit. No no. They don't deserve it. If someone is being a rogue, show them the mirror. No need for ultra justifications and rationalizations. This is the spiritual psycho-babble on the forum I'm slowly getting sick of. Act out of love, act out of love, bullshit.

How and why

When they say what they say it doesn't mean it's out of 100% certainty. Not everything has to come from a place of certainty. People can make conjectures and have half baked opinions. These opinions can even change over time. It's a fluid state. It's called thinking. And thinking is never certain.

I'm just trying to focus on cultivating a healthy orange. Although I was super orange when I was a teen, I did great at school and college, but I sort of went in a direction that I started to demonize it, but now I can see it's not all bad, maybe my cultural environment made it bad because they don't know how to navigate it without toxicity, but now I know it can be great to have a dose of healthy Orange, just I don't want to hang around the toxic Orange type because they are plenty and don't want to absorb their energy or have their energy rub on me. But I'm sick of Green.. It's not bad to be green but it makes me a bit irrational sometimes..

It's just people having some childish misunderstandings They have some biases that they can't get past through.

@wakeup okay tell me what toxic behaviors are you talking about?

@modmyth exactly.

@wakeup What I mean there is really no GURU. We create our own gurus. But when we create gurus out of people, we keep them on a pedestal and start having unrealistic expectations out of them. This is a our fault. Our own. When we have unrealistic expectations, we're of course met with disappointment because no human can be a guru. Every human is bound to make mistakes and prone to faults and failures. Drop the word guru and you'll be able to accept a person for who they are.

@wakeup the problem lies with you. There is no GURU. I repeat it There is no GURU When you understand this truth, you'll understand Leo Gura.

@SirVladimir I don't want to try something like that. It fucks up with the brain. I Just want natural.

@Martin123 depends on how the Taurus sees his environment They can be eccentric. They can easily show extreme and opposite behaviors. One day they will be very sweet. Next day they are closed off. Tauruses are very unpredictable as a zodiac. All tauruses are eccentric in their own ways.

@Martin123 Taurus can go to great lengths in people pleasing. But they can also do the opposite . Remember they are a bit weird. Yet entertaining

Leo is cocky just to appear edgy that's all. It's his way of spinning things. He doesn't want to feel left out. He wants to seek attention and stir the pot. He likes to have some fun and this is his idea of fun. He is an introvert. Sometimes an introvert can appear arrogant even when they actually are not. They put on that arrogant mask as a way of self defiance. It's a tease. A loving tease. It comes across as an act of offense but deep down he is simply trying to break ice. It's like when people play pranks on strangers.. Leo likes to play a little with people, this is his way. He doesn't want to be boring or too straight forward because then he will appear cold But he wants to keep it warm and not cold. So he tries to spice it up a bit by provocation. It's like a teenager boy trying to be a bit provoking to a girl just to annoy her but later be her friend Sometimes his teasing gets misconstrued as arrogance. Remember he always uses the emoji .... That's his tease. He doesn't wish He is just a humble YouTuber who loves all and wishes absolutely the best for everyone. He is also authentic, just a bit of an introvert that can cause or create a ton of misunderstanding. He has strong opinions, but then who doesn't? He is not trying to be fake like so many other Youtubers. Leo is a Taurus. I had a Taurus boyfriend ex. I understand how Tauruses are. They can be a bit odd. They will do the opposite of what is expected So if you expect a Taurus to give you a bouquet of flowers, he might hand you a box of nails and then giggle at you. The Taurus somehow assumes that he was just being funny while others feel annoyed. Also Tauruses are extremely frugal and pragmatic. They are too rational and practical about everything A lot of people don't like to hear harsh practical things. It can come off as condescending. But the Taurus is only trying to be as truthful to the person as possible. Taurus does not believe in flowery language. They see it as deception. So people get annoyed by their non-floweriness. A Taurus never tries to please people because he sees it as fake and unnecessary, he would rather be upfront even if it might appear a little bitter and harsh The Taurus is okay with the harsh tone because he wants to remind his friends that this is reality A lot of Leo's behavior is easily explained by his Taurus nature. Beneath all that, Leo is an authentic helpful genuine person just trying to help. Tauruses are generally misunderstood a lot.

@modmyth thank you for your kind words. It wasn't a breakup, just a temporary fight with my bf that got me really upset. But I have been through many breakups before so I know how it feels. Your words are very beautiful. I wish all the healing and happiness to you.

The Feminine always takes up jobs like nursing, coaching, cooking, making, distributing, caring, etc because of her higher capacity for empathy. The masculine always takes up jobs like sports, fighting, competition, wealth creation, power, critic because it serves the masculine with self-preservation through productive behavior and gives greatest capacity for Counterintuitive behavior. In such positions, the man has to maximum resistance through fight, combat, competition and do everything opposite of trusting. Such jobs help men to be as Counterintuitive as possible, because here he has to use maximum judgement and manipulation of his own instincts. It makes him feel protected. He has to directly go against his natural instinct or behavior of humanity or saving but go straight for the kill. In such jobs he maximizes his Chances of survival by working out all the details. He enters into a deal with his business rivals, not trusting them and being fully skeptical of consequences as well as managing his way through the whole situation with tact. He sleeps with one eye open and is always ready to think the worst that can happen. He wants to question his own instincts because he doesn't want his instincts to fail him of self preservation so he is careful and as logical as possible. He always acts Counterintuitive. He does the opposite of what's expected. He tries to test the waters. He gets overly sarcastic because he doesn't want to trust immediately. He would rather act awkward and save himself than act simple and lose himself. He holds his affection back because he doesn't want to be robbed. He is unwilling to trust easily. He is doubtful at all times and therefore restless and full of dissonance. He can't feel peace and so he gets very needy. He gets needy because his inner state does not allow for love but only survival. His inner state is full of emptiness because of extreme Insecurity. Because of his Insecurity, he just doesn't want to trust his own feelings. So if his heart tells him that this is the right Job or career for him, he is still plagued by suspicion. He feels suspicious that his heart will mislead him. And cause his demise. So he goes against his own heart and follows his mind. If a man is approached with a kind gesture or a kiss on his cheek, he will most likely think why it happened rather than accepting it..If somene is trying to pick a fight with him, he will let go or even be friendly with this person to end the truce

I like nature music. It helps me to chill out. Those long nature recorded sounds on YouTube.

What are the problems that both feminine and the masculine face The Feminine goes mad and chaotic. Or she is suppressed. She is too passive and fragile. She becomes vulnerable because of a lack of self preservation. In a way self preservation was never taught to her because she never had to do the hunting and gathering. And she was always expected to trust because trusting was her main source of survival. She learned to trust her instincts. But her maternal feelings make her susceptible to gullibility. She cares more about her airy fairy dreams and happiness and growth rather than self preservation. Her empathy range is higher than that of a man and she is quick to forgive. She is also sensitive, making it difficult for her to maintain a self preservation agenda

Yes it is.

Ahh, now you're being a Saint!!

How can the masculine and the Feminine merge. A ground for compatibility is needed Also both masculine and feminine cannot survive independently. They need each other. One needs the other to be whole One without the other is imbalanced. The female will suffer huge problems and sicknesses if she doesn't integrate the masculine The male will suffer huge problems and sicknesses if he doesn't integrate the Feminine The woman needs to lean into the masculine The man needs to lean into the Feminine Both correct each other and create a balanced flow. The Feminine needs a bit of self preservation and productive behavior and control of her intuitive nature. She needs Stage Orange pragmatism, Stage Orange Wisdom and rationality and logic. She needs healthy skepticism and judgement. She needs Counterintuitive behavior on certain occasions to compensate for her intuitive behavior. The masculine needs a bit of intuitive behavior on certain occasions to compensate for his Counterintuitive behavior. The masculine needs to reduce his skeptic dissonance. The Feminine needs to grow some skepticism.