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@Leo Gura Member @DrewNows sent me this private email and wanted you to know this. I'm sorry Leo! I feel like I deserve another chance on the forum, I promise to show more compassion, openness and humility. I wish to show more respect for other perspectives on the forum, sol choose to give this respect as well if you allow my participation. Happy Halloween, blue moon in Taurus, May everyone handle this wild energy with care. Posting this on behalf of member @DrewNows

Stock markets usually do well under democrats Stocks are going higher today because Wall Street is predicting a Biden win. Biden is already leading by many early votes. Early votes count big.

There is a certain truth to what Arc is saying here. That abundance mindset can be sometimes dangerous. I tried to do some shadow work in the last few days because I was constantly having thoughts of Joseph and the abusive relationship I had with him. And I kept asking myself, why I attracted such people in my life. And when I asked the same question on the forum, often people told me that it was my low self esteem. I agree that I do suffer from low self esteem. But it's not I was actively looking for approval in a relationship, I wasn't deliberately humiliating myself in any way. I think the bigger problem was not low self esteem. I tried to do a bit of self analysis in the past few days And I what I recollected is that every time a person offended me or they hurt me or if they violated my boundaries, I instantly forgave them. I just let them do what they wanted. I did not punish them.. And I tried to trace back where such tendencies in me were coming from. And I saw that I was very much like my Dad(who passed away years ago). My dad was a very generous and helpful kind forgiving calm man. And often his kindness would be ermataken for granted or be conflate with weakness by his friends and acquaintances..He had a very abundant mindset. He used to be very generous, like there was nothing to fear, nothing to be insecure about, if anyone did something wrong, he would instantly forgive them, he had this big big heart and he believed in being this charitable big hearted person. He believed in being abundant in terms of showing love, affection, kindness and forgiveness. This often caused people to break his boundaries because he never punished anyone. I always looked up to him as a child and somehow I had internalized his qualities because to me he was a hero. Over time as I grew up, I was also very helpful, kind, generous (I helped many people financially, often to my own detriment), loving, big hearted type of person, I never thought that one should hold back love, I always believed in being completely non judgmental and generous and helpful and kind and never be short on showing love. But I believed that being this person meant that I was hoping to make this world a better place and curing people's sufferings in a small manner. However every time I was kind to someone, I instantly met with Backstabbing and betrayal. It used to leave me very hurt. I used to build these wonderful relationships with the men in my life only to realize in the last minute that they were just playing with my heart and using me to their advantage. It would hurt a lot. Because it had turned into a toxic cycle, the amount of love that I was showing to them, they weren't showing the same love in return, or not even a fraction of it. It was me who was generally the sufferer in the relationship, absorbing the shock and tension and hurt/pain in the relationship meanwhile the other person would simply walk away like nothing happened. Because they were not emotionally invested, they were not generous or loving like me, they were simply feeding on me. Now if this is due to the causation of human nature or if this is because kind people tend to attract narcissists or if this is because even good people tend to act narcissistic around kind people and begin to take them for granted or that this world is a horribly cruel parasitic place. I don't know which one is the cause. So when I processed all these feelings over the last few days where I began to realize how my abundant nature was hurting my survival by making me feel very powerful, fearless and very optimistic to the point that I never let any Insecurity become my defense mechanism. I was never skeptical in a relationship. I never thought or believed that another person could hurt me, that I should be ready to protect myself from such hurt. It never occurred to me, because abundance mindset meant that I could just sit relaxed without being skeptical about the red flags in the relationship. It meant letting go, it meant never taking anything seriously but having this huge heart and simply forgiving everything. Now I see the point. That Insecurity and scarcity also have their own value in terms of survival. That if you are insecure about something you're more likely to take steps to protect yourself from the interpretations of that Insecurity For example if you are unsecure about money, you are more likely to save money. If you are insecure about relationships, you are more likely to be careful about what sort of people you let into your life. So in some manner the fear arising out of Insecurity becomes the basis for protecting oneself and self defense and survival. So now I see that both abundance and scarcity are necessary for life

What I have learned through life, living my life up to now, that sometimes abundance mindset can be dangerous. All my life I was a very abundant type of human being.

Killing the womb

Some people, they just bring this huge negative ball of energy in your life.

Ingredients of Life Positivity Growth Protection charity selfishness negativity higher wisdom optimism Abundance fear nihilism Love strength liberalism higher truth survival opportunity intellect weakness selflessness logic /rationality Maturity scarcity emotions Counterintuitive idealism threat conservativism Victimhood resilience Empowerment Security empathy Intuitive Skepticism Insecurity

nihilism optimism selflessness selfishness. weakness strength empathy survival. charity survival threat opportunity gains and losses, pros and cons. abundance scarcity higher wisdom higher truth fear optimism logic, rationality idealism emotions intellect. positivity negativity liberalism conservativism.

spokes of a wheel. The wheel of life. All ingredients should run with cohesion and in tandem and complete balance and in harmony with each other.

Ingredients of Life Positivity Growth Protection Abundance Love Maturity Wisdom

Private Discord Server Abuse Escape - Log Out Remember those words in that order. Problem Solved.

Ohio should not go red this time. That's what I'm wishing.

@Ananta lol please noooooooooo. Maybe this time it should be wrong.

What about Ohio, Pennsylvania and Michigan? Trump has been rallying hard in Pennsylvania.

Joseph was a narcissistic pig /asshole. And narcissists justify everything in their playbook. In their eyes they are never wrong.

How? I think it's a tight race. What happens if Trump wins most of the remaining states?

A) a feeling of Insecurity and victimhood and weakness or misery is also essential for survival. It's a defense mechanism. B) philosophical dissection language is very beautiful and non hurtful and creates understanding.. It should also be filled with satire and comedy over the most serious issues in life C) a certain cold wall filled with ice is necessary to create this space between the inner emotional self and outside surroundings. Deflection, satire and comedy can often be used to avoid a trigger and as a defense mechanism to cope with potential emotional triggers and avoid being impacted by them. You're trying to preserve your emotional state and not let it completely break down. D) remember that when a man is passive aggressive even in the slightest, just drop that person.. E) when a man breaks even your most basic boundaries, he is no good.. Breaking boundaries can be a sign of bipolar/narcissistic behavior F) if you can satire and make fun of the most serious things in life, then you have achieved great maturity. G) Some narcissistic persons also have bipolar disease and they combine that and they can be absolutely abusive, example Trump. I can call it a narcissistic - bipolar - abusive - syndrome - persons. NBASP people. Examples of such people are (that I have observed till now in my life) 1 Trump 2 My mom 3 my ex boyfriend Joseph

About liberal and right wing positions. I have always been a supporter of liberalism. But then again, there are certain things that I sometimes find myself in agreement on with conservatives. So I think the best position is somewhere to the Left of Center. This is also applicable in every day life. a fine balance between nihilism and optimism A balance between selflessness and selfishness. A balance between weakness and strength A balance between empathy and survival. A balance between charity and survival A balance between threat and opportunity A balance between gains and losses, pros and cons. A balance between abundance and scarcity A balance between higher wisdom and higher truth A balance between fear and optimism A balance between logic, rationality and idealism A balance between emotions and intellect. Balance between positivity and negativity A balance between liberalism and conservativism. Left of Center.

What I want a woman to know is that what she needs to do is focus on pure raw survival. That's the only way you succeed. One way to deal with a man who wants to approach you in a relationship is to keep your shit tests ready on call. And even a slight indication of passive aggression from the male and you should instantly drop him.

Haha yep.

Like I said before, a woman should be like a broadcaster instead of trying hard to win approval. If there is any form of aggression coming from a man, whether it is active or passive, she should immediately stop responding to it. That's the best way to beat male aggression. Because this aggression will never allow her to express how she feels.. Notice how in such societies a woman's expression is actively defeated, blocked and met with intense aggression. Men in such societies don't want a woman expressing herself. Because that's a threat. An expose of what men do to actively inhibit a woman's survival. These are micro aggressions towards a woman, a warning given to her that she can't express herself and if she did, she will face dire consequences which means labeling and ostracization. What I mean by broadcasting is just leave the message. The message is then gradually picked on and circulated and there is a chance for it to make itself into a progressive movement. But don't shoot the one who is trying to contradict this message. Because that's only a distraction to the expression of the message itself. It's a self defeating exercise. Let the message be out there. Opposition will be very strong but so will be the popularity of such a message. In short what I'm trying to say is that a woman shouldn't waste her time in trying to prove herself right, because even if she was right, the society would not want to believe her. So it's only a waste of time trying to prove oneself right. Instead of that, just put the message there so that it receives adequate light. Adequate focus. This way the message is passed on to those who really care to understand. In trying to prove herself right, a woman is only wasting her time. As a woman, if you are dealing with sexism at your workplace, the best way to deal with it is to make some noise. Get attention. Speak up. Don't submit to the bs. Be diffident. Be relentless. But remember that even those men who appear like they are supporting you, aren't actually your supporters, they are your detractors as well, the only difference is that they are going to use very subtle silent passive aggressive skills up put you down and defeat you. In a sexist workplace, no man is your friend, no matter how friendly he appears, there is always some ulterior motive in his mind as well. So don't trust any dude trying to please you because he too wants at come after you in the end.. The men who are directly sexist are wolves. The men who don't appear to be sexist are wolves in sheep's clothing. If you trust a man too much in a sexist environment, you might end up losing your job. So protect yourself as a woman at all costs. Remember that the men who are nice and sweet to you are also driven by the same ulterior motives. They are all in the same bucket. So there is no real sense of joy in dealing with sexist men. They are always going to be that way one way or another whether they act the part or not. If you are going to be around such men, the betrayal rate is going to be very high. You will constantly face backstabbing and slandering going on behind your back. No friend is a friend. Even a friend is an enemy. Thinking that someone is an enemy is actually essential for pure survival. Thinking that someone is a friend is actually going to be harmful because it hurts when the person who you trust betrays you in the end.. Whereas when you think that someone is an enemy, you give them no chance to hurt you. As a woman, it's important for you to keep building walls around you, as many walls as you can. Building these walls is an essential defense and survival mechanism against passive aggression from males. These walls ensure that only the ones who are respectful get to barge in. What this means is that as a woman you need to be carrying a huge heap of shit tests with you. Every man has to be tested rigorously before he enters your life. No man should be allowed in your life even in the slightest because he can be the next worst enemy, the next exploiter! Be smart about survival. Most patriarchal societies are going to guilt you and make you feel bad for looking after your survival as a woman, make you look selfish or mean or manipulative or cunning or Jezebel Incarnate, but don't care about it. Learn that this is Gaslighting by men. When men attack your character, even if it is subtle, it's Gaslighting. Learn to break this mold. Learn to not care about judgement. Because over time, as truth comes out, their judgement will not withstand the natural forces of karma and it will melt like frost trickling down under the sun. This is what is also seen historically in how women evolved in different ways and how different progressive movements were constantly stampeded by sexist chauvinistic patriarchal societies. If you study the history of witches and Witchcraft, you'll learn that millions of witches were burned at the stake for their open minded opinions and bravery. Witches wanted to know the truth. In a way they were spiritual seekers of their time (and they still are), but men in those times saw their intelligence as a threat to their oppressive patriarchal regimes, so they wanted them shut down, they wanted them dead and gone and disappeared. It was a very blatant form of attack on female freedom of expression.

It's not necessary that you as a woman have to win all the time. Don't do that. Arguing endlessly is useless. Often men in a patriarchal society will try to do exactly that. They will want to argue with her, prove her wrong even on flippant matters, this is a form of subtle and constant gaslighting from men that is hard to detect and women are made to fall in the trap where somehow they are supposed to prove themselves right all the time in every debate to stand the test or be dismissed. This is a clever strategy devised by men because they know that nobody wins every debate all the time, and this is a clever strategy used to defeat even the most powerful women leaders. Because who is perfect?? But somehow men in a patriarchal society set extremely high bars for women so that most women fall off and are just not able to pass it. This is a subconscious way in which men defeat women. In some cases men will use active forms of sexism to defeat women. It's like Frontline offense. In other cases, it's more subtle forms of sexism that men use that are harder for women to detect but even then the objective of men in such societies remain the same - take the woman down.

Women should be like broadcasters. They should only broadcast how they feel about everything without worrying about the consequences like social stigma or branding. Because the patriarchal part of the society is always going to brand and label a woman no matter what. Even if she tried her best to be the best person that she can be, people will find some dirt on her. It's just the nature of a patriarchal society that somehow a woman just cannot be considered better. One thing that a woman can do is not give two shits about male validation and approval.. Often times the way women are raised, they are made to believe that they only have value as long as all men approve them. Subconsciously most women internalize this and are not able to break out of it. This is dangerous to women overall because she is actively defeating her own purpose in trying to impress a society that doesn't care much about her interests. A woman should always put her stuff out there. At least she is heard that way. If all women did this, society, especially women can evolve at a much faster rate. The problem is that most women are just too scared to express themselves openly. They have all this hidden trauma coming from relationships that they are never able to throw out in the open. They are scared of being judged or even ostracized. And this fear is very real because that's what a patriarchal society does to a woman who is being a strong opponent, an outspoken voice, instead of understanding her wounds, they challenge her.

@zeroISinfinity he went to bed.