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Is that real?

I agree with @Khr. Stop contact with her so that it's easier to forget.

@MrBON yea I know that sucks. I guess Covid has really had a bad impact on people.

@MrBON I think you should practice the power of letting go. I don't wish to demean or degrade this person because she is who you fell in love with but unfortunately she fell for someone else. But that's her right, she can be with whoever she wants to be with. However her choice has left you feeling bad and that's completely natural. Anyone in your place would feel the same way. I believe what you say about her that she was this amazing person who you met and you felt like it was 1 in million. But you need to have this radical acceptance that sometimes things in life don't work out our way and we have to learn the truth the harder way. You could wish her good luck in life and slowly try to forget her by not thinking too much about her because if you keep thinking about her, it will keep hurting you and you will create a hurt cycle. Don't do that.. If she deserves love, you deserve love as well, please work on your self esteem. Often times we give so much importance to others that we forget ourselves. I think something similar is happening here. You have made her the apple of your eye but this apple is hurting you now. So keep the apple down and move on. Think that there are more wonderful things in life and this person is not the only source of happiness. Find acceptance and peace and find someone who doesn't reject you but accepts you for who you are and you'll much happier with that person. Hope this helps.

You should really upload a video. It would be fun to watch that.

Yep

Haha coincidently I was watching the video "how to deal with toxic people."

Haha.

I get your point. But I'm speaking about the specific context here where these particular trend of multi colored hair women who keep blowing petty things out of proportion and put people in unnecessary trouble like bans or loss of jobs just because these color hair women were so so offended. To me they represent butt hurt egotistical toxic Mean Green. And I don't want such women to be sole representation of Green because that takes away the attention from the realistic Green people who actually want good things to happen in the world

@electroBeam thank you so much.

Please that's not green. That's toxic green. Why can't people differentiate between healthy and toxic green! People with such colored hair seriously bring a bad name to the true green people who want real change in the world and not give people a hard time over petty overblown issues

Awarenes is important

@abrakamowse @Thewritersunion you guys are cracking me up lol, let's call him colorless now.

@Michael569 sounds good. Thanks a ton.

@Michael569 is that a daily dose?

Historically and evolution wise, women have been primed to think that confidence means success. Any guy who is confident is considered to be a source of comfort, protection, survival, good boyfriend vibes, good husband vibes and good daddy vibes. This has been entrenched in a woman's psyche since centuries. Because in ancient times during war, confident men seized opportunities for better survival, defeated opponents, rescued women in distress and provided comfort, restored law and order and brought resources from far lands and built communities. To a woman this is a sign of success. A man who has such supreme confidence in his abilities is a great sign of safety, security and progress. That's why women feel free while interacting with generous, affectionate, kind, big hearted guys because it gives out the vibe "hey woman I'm here for you", the confidence in a man is very reassuring to the fragile chaotic gentle nature of a woman. Over time this trait got registered as an attractive trait in women's psyche. Whenever women saw a bold confident man, there was an instant chemical attraction fueled by evolutionary influences. That's how confidence came to regarded as sexy because to a woman its a good news, a great potential mate Now the brain is primed to respond to impulses without much conscious thinking. So it's hard to convince a brain to dissect someone's confidence level. Some guys are confident but it's fake. It's a show. It does not mean they are going to be good providers or lovers. This can be a false sign. It's a mimicry. But whatever is happening unconsciously cannot be prevented. Eventually the woman realizes that his confidence is false and that diffuses the attraction she had for him. Nevertheless she is always going to be inevitably attracted to a confident man. Now whether he is truly confident or if it's just a farce is up to her to test.

@Life My current vit D blood level is 16 ng/ml.

@tsuki My answer is going to be a bit naked. I fell in love with a bad boy. The reason is because the edgy confidence is a turn on. This is true. Not that I want an asshole. But a bit of confidence and macho behavior is sexy to me. But the problem is that it's not a full package. Most guys with such traits turn out to be assholes. So eventually I gave up. Because the relationship doesn't work long time. So I decided to look for good guys even if they are not attractive. I've crossed/passed the stage of falling for fuck boys and bad boys. I have reached the maturity where I am no longer attracted to such men. I'm now attracted to good men aka nice boys.

I just finished making some tea. It looks really milky. I guess I should have added more tea leaves. Anyway. It tasted really good. Fresh feeling. I like a lot of milk in my tea and coffee.

Hey I have a huge Vitamin D deficiency and I have been having this deficiency for years now. So I take 1000 units of vit D on any day sometimes occasionally. Is it safe to take 10,000 IU in one shot. Like that number looks scary to me. So I never took those kinda doses. Just want to know if it's safe My mom took 60,000 IU once in 2 weeks but I told her not to. She still did. What do you recommend? Recently my blood test showed my level as below 20.

So I didn't have any spoon in the kitchen and the only spoon I had broke yesterday. Looking to buy some kitchen utensils. But I don't know what to call all these silly spoons. One is called jhara or skimmer or frying spoon. Looks like this. My mom uses this one. I'm yet to use this. It's rounded and it's called jhara. The other is called Turner Some other is called Spatula. The only Spatula I knew was the one that I used in college in chemistry lab. Now there is also a slotted Spatula and a solid one. Don't know which one to buy So I got a pair of tongs to lift a Naan. Ting tong lololol. A basting brush A slotted turner My mom uses this type of turner. They call it dosa palta or Roti Naan palta Solid flipper turner. I use this a lot. I'm planning to buy a wooden set but not decided yet. Butter spoon or spreader. This is called a karchi or ladle, soup ladle Good for lifting chunks This one is better for transferring curry. I don't have one. My mom uses these They are called rice spoons. Wooden rice porridge spoon is usually this shape. Mixing spoons I can use this as a stirrer. Serving spoon or ladle This looks funny. It's called spoonula lol. A pasta fork So finally ...... Phew. After a lot of searching for hours I settled on this one and decided to buy this black spoon set that has all the spoons so I don't have buy them separately. It was 64% off so good for me. Budget price. Looks good. The color doesn't matter to me.

I think I always understood women more intuitively. It was always my endeavor to understand womanhood and do something for women at some point in my life. Whether in a big or small way.

@Danioover9000 you've been bullshitting around me for a really long time. You're being too harsh with me and too self righteous. I don't agree with you at all. And I don't have time to read your long essays on my character. Enough with your bullshit!! Maybe @Leo Gura can respond better to you. (I don't have the energy to respond to this guy. I seriously give up.)

@modmyth thank you. Awesome.