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@Red-White-Light so tell me what are Connor's intentions lol?

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@Red-White-Light even if you thought that he was doing some Zen devilry, he seems to be a good guy with good intentions and so he would learn something out of his own Zen devilry. So no worries. I'd be more worried about his psychological health than the Zen devilry stuff.

Lol what's the problem if he is creating a cult. Who isn't by the way? Maybe he and his followers are enjoying the cult. How do we know that everything that he is doing is exactly bad? We cannot simply make conclusions on automatic and associative assumptions! Guilty by Association lol.

Let him be a Zen devil....

This looks cool. I don't know why it reminds me of a modern day Meme though. Omg the Meme appears (I just saw)

@Mannyb nobody is talking about changing nature. My point is that it's not all healthy as it seems. I completely understand the hypergamy point, where a woman is automatically attracted to genetic qualities that are best for her children/progeny, yet this is not completely true in every case, it overall looks like that, but one cannot blindly trust this process and so women have to put in conscious efforts in deciding what male they select, in this process they might even want to marry a beta even if they don't feel a strong attraction to him, simply because the beta is in alignment with their values in a relationship. And the beta could be healthier than the alpha she was previously attracted to. That's why sexual attraction can also be unconscious just like anything else, it's not a holy grail.

@MrBON the dating market is very skewed against most women Most women don't look like Victoria Secret Angels to have 100s of men falling at their feet. If a girl is shy and rarely goes anywhere, most men wouldn't know her and she will never be approached by a man because she doesn't even exist out there. If the girl is dressed in boring clothes, nobody will notice her at a party and most guys will not even look at her. If the girl is not funny or does not have a good attitude and speaks rude, most men will talk a few times and leave. So the number of men who approach a woman will depend on how much she is out there, also how she maintains herself, if she doesn't look good then her chances of getting a guy are very negligible.. With porn and modeling, the requirements of beauty have become completely unnatural. Because most women don't have the body of a porn star. So it's getting difficult for women in general to get the attention of men. Most men will only be attracted to the most beautiful women who have the best bodies. However such women are a select percentage of the crowd. Rest of the women don't match these standards. So the men who approach them are very few. These few men can approach literally 100s of girls. But the women have to choose from a very small group of men that approach them. So most women don't have a choice but to sit and wait for the right man, who by the way never arrives, and she is ultimately left to choose out of a small number of men who show interest in her. A man does not have to wait, he can immediately approach the next girl. The problem with waiting for a man is that her age is passing by, as she gets older, her attraction appeal further drops because most younger men wouldn't want her because of age so now she has to settle for older men and if she gets too old, she is basically out of the dating market.. Whereas age is not such a big factor for men because men can still look attractive even if they're aged and their value does not depend on age, also society does not see any problems with an older man dating a younger woman, whereas most men see a problem with dating older women, they don't consider an older woman attractive. However such judgement is not placed on a man's age. So essentially the dating market is a bit skewed against women and is highly in favor of men. So to say that women only have to exist is very wrong. If you're talking about the small number of hot women, well, even they have to work on their personality or else they will get dumped and they have to keep rejecting a lot of men who approach them because most men approach them only for their hot body, so they have to carefully look for the genuine guy. Being a woman, hot or not, is not as easy as you're making it out to be. Women have their own issues because of which they feel discouraged from dating.

That's an illusion and a Delusion. Sexual attraction is very unconscious. Sexual attraction is the number one reason why people fall into toxic relationships and create dysfunctional families, because they fall in love out of pure attraction, don't use their brains, fall for anyone they are attracted to and make poor choices. Attraction is never conscious. At its base level attraction is like pure animal instinct and when you are attracted to someone with that basic instinct,, it's not always the best partner. Also logical attraction is rare and comes after a lot of consciousness practice where you train yourself to be attracted to the right people, but not many can manage something like this. It's like training yourself to like organic foods, but ice cream doesn't need any training, you're automatically unconsciously attracted to it and so is the case for junk foods, similarly sexual attraction doesn't happen in the mind, it happens in the brain. And then most young girls end up falling for a bad boy who probably has had a jail record and is dangerous for her kids and herself but her body is still attracted to his looks and style and audacity. It's only conscious practice that makes her get attracted to better dudes with good careers and sound behavior. Even then if the bad boy improves his career and behavior and general conditions and has the same value to offer as the good guy, and now if she told to make the choice between the good guy and the bad boy, she will still pick the bad guy, in fact she'll be glad to choose him. It's like if you're given the choice between organic and junk food, but now the junk food is not unhealthy, it's properties have been changed to make it healthy, you'll instantly select the junk food because your brain loves it, the only reason your brain was being trained to like organic food is because you consciously know that junk food needs to be avoided since it's bad, if it weren't unhealthy you'd actually eat it more. That's how sexual attraction works. At its fundamental level dating and sexual attraction work on dopamine receptions just like video gaming and TV, we're attracted to that which stimulates our brain whether it's unhealthy or not, and in most cases, the things that help with dopamine are generally unhealthy for life but we do it anyway, because we need that dopamine, similarly in dating and sexual attraction, a certain body type or particular personality type stimulates the sexual organs more than other personality types. For example someone who is romantic, carefree, confident is able to emotionally and sexually stimulate whereas someone who is very boring and passive is simply unable to emotionally and sexually stimulate. There's a reason why both men and women like flirty and funny people because it releases endorphins and helps sexual release. Whereas a person who is too strict or angry cannot produce such hormones in the other person. However the person who is flirty and funny could have genetic disorders not healthy to have children with. Whereas the boring man/woman could be absolutely healthy in their body and mental health, hence they could be very healthy for making families. Therefore pure sexual attraction is unconscious and is simply based on brain stimulation by a particular pattern just like sugary sweets create the feeling of hunger or craving, certain bodies/behaviors create the feeling of wanting company/sex. So the whole idea that sexual attraction is healthy is rubbish. Conscious attraction can be considered healthy, but it will need training of the mind to raise consciousness to a level where you begin to like a certain person perceived as healthy, but this is largely like a development process through learning and experience and is not the same as your mental blueprint when you're going through puberty, essentially it's a learning process by which you realize what you really want and slowly being attracted to it, which comes from maturity, but the brain in puberty without any maturity, in its most natural instinctive state, without any learning, does not attract consciously, rather it attracts anything that generates the hormones needed for arousal. This is the reason why younger girls in puberty are more likely to attract immature bad guys who mistreat them or are unhealthy in behavior whereas matured women attract more conscious partners after developing and learning to attract such partners.

Actually @Gesundheit you're right. Attraction is biological. But even biological can be an illusion (if we go deep into it) The mind can eventually be trained to like anything.

Yea actually the trick I told you is called lemon teking. You can read more about it on here. https://doubleblindmag.com/how-to-lemon-tek-a-complete-guide-for-mushroom-people/ Also this guy shows how to do lemon tekking for fresh mushrooms. Cool technique

.. You're already having nausea and pain with 4g and lemon juice makes the effect more intense!! With lemon juice and 4gm, You'll be dippy dippy dopey doooo. You sure you want such a strong effect lol?

Make Attraction Go Away. next campaign slogan.

Law of Attraction eh!

I'm going to make a comprehensive list of. Hm

I have to make coconut curry. I need to add tomatoes, chilli powder and curry leaves and saute in oil. And then add salt. Next add all chopped veggies Veggies chopped Make Kol Dal with oil and turmeric Coconut curry paste Add vinegar in soup or curry Sauce

My pan is very sticky. And it gets really rough.

@egoeimai thank you

We're moving towards a modern better future where everyone should feel accepted, loved, respected and welcomed..

Let's not insult people's appearances. Everyone looks good. Such discriminatory terms only add more harm to dating, love and relationships. Everyone deserves love and happiness and appreciation no matter how they look. Both men and women It's one thing to say that you're attracted to attractive people and another thing to compare people's appearances and make one look better and denigrate the other It only reinforces age old stereotypes. We're moving towards a modern better future where everyone should feel accepted, loved, respected and welcomed..

@seeking_brilliance here you govv.

We actually already have a thread titled Location of Actualized.org followers where everyone writes their location or country.

Focus on positive people

Psychedelics that I generally prefer. Mm Changa Ayahuasca Peyote /mescaline /San Pedro Concoctions mixtures brews.