Preety_India

I know right. And I don't get how it's justified.

Omigod.

Because they resent women since they don't get them or they get dumped by women and they need to find a way to shift blame and feel better about themselves, it's an ego trip, by shifting blame, they have removed the responsibility of changing their behavior, they can simply blame and then justify being who they are and not have to deal with their own behaviors. It's an ego deflection move. In their minds, it will never be their fault, always someone else's fault that they don't have a woman. It also justifies the deprived feeling of not having a woman.

You're an amazing woman. I'm sorry if someone gave you a hard time, they absolutely deserve not having an amazing person like you. You're better than those who try to drag you down. You are Empowered when you leave bad things, bad situations and bad people. I'm glad you're moving toward peace.

@neutralempty I'm laughing and happy tbh. Feels like a relief actually.

@soos_mite_ah Manipulative men kinda remind me of this case of con job. You gotta watch it full to soak it in, just see the level of manipulation the woman did in this case, the extent to which manipulation and trickery goes..

The problem with predatory men is that they stay predatory. They never change because they are Incapable of self reflection. Kinda reminds me of gold digger women. They go around stealing the guy's money, end up in jail, but when they are out of jail, they start looking another guy to con and steal from. They just think they are too smart for society even if they were caught in their lies.

@soos_mite_ah exactly. I kinda laugh at them. I got no mercy for those who deceive others. They gotta pay for what they do.

@soos_mite_ah only one advice for such men - clean up the act. But I don't think that they care to change, in which case they deserve the suffering and resentment. Then I say - Let suffering be thy lesson.

That's good advice but manipulative guys are like bank robbers. They think others are fools and they themselves are too smart, they think they are winning. They only win sex, and it works because that's all they want. It's a dangerous predator prey relationship. You can't reason with a manipulator and have a sweet talk with them because they think they are better than others. They have grand delusions about their sense of self. They will never admit that they have flaws much less introspect or fix those flaws. But they get surprised when shit hits the fan and all their manipulation gets exposed and the girl promptly dumps them. They're never ready for the finale. Well, what they sow is what they get. Then they go around carrying resentment. But they never want to look in the mirror. One good recipe for ending up alone all life and in old age is to keep playing mind games and accomplish nothing. I watch a lot of these men who are like well into their 50s and still trying their games, and i think to myself, they're so miserable, having played women all their lives, they have a long list of women who dumped them and how they play victim and tell the next woman how all those women were bad women and how it absolutely wasn't their fault. I laugh at their misery.. They are so deluded, they never see past themselves. They will face consequences of their actions for the rest of their lives. Life is a mirror. What you become is shown in it..

Manipulative men also don't show that they're manipulative. That's why they are manipulative.

The key to reality is the mind, but where's the hole?

She prefers honesty but she also prefers a man who honestly loves her. I've seen men make this dumb analogy that if they were honest about their feelings, then she would leave, so why be honest, then women act like they prefer honesty yet they get pissed off or lose interest if the guy is honest, like what!?!???.... Yes she loves honesty and that doesn't mean that she has to settle for a guy who is honestly disliking her. This is the male equivalent of a guy telling a woman that he likes honest women and women who don't lie and then the woman proceeds to tell him that she likes him only for his money, and he then tells her he is not into her and her reply is something like "why don't you like me now, I'm being honest?" Just imagine if a woman said that. That's how ridiculous the whole honesty argument sounds. Yea sure, be honest, appreciated, but if you're honestly admitting that you're an asshole, then why are you so surprised that she is not okay with being with an asshole, it's time for her to cut her losses and move on from you, shouldn't she deserve a better man than some dishonest douche. I mean honesty is not just with speech, it's also about honesty and sincerity of intent. So only being honest in speech as a copout doesn't cut it. You do the wrong, then have the honesty to pay for it. Of course your honesty is respected and hats off for that, but wrong is wrong and if you stole money, then you do the time for it, if you manipulated someone, then be ready to face consequences as well. If you don't want the consequences, then don't do the wrong thing. Life is hard, tough titty. If you get something the right ways then good. If you can't get something, yes there is frustration, but accept it. And if you still want it by all the wrong means, then be ready to accept consequences.

It's time to focus on my gifts

I don't just get how these men don't get this very simple thing If you want an authentic relationship with a woman, start with being authentic. If you are manipulative with a woman and win her, odds are you are also going to lose her. How you get them is how you lose them. Seems about right. Basically when you think manipulation is your key skill, it comes down to abusing women, that is all.

Green does a lot of good. To be honest.

That's because of education, technology and people moving to cities with clean water, housing and in general people making better choices for living. However the quality of financial situation is rapidly declining because of capitalism. My parents could easily afford a house. The younger generation can't. Back in the day, what they had, kids can't have these days. People are getting poorer. I see it with my colleagues. Their parents could afford a decent education for kids. Whereas they struggle to make ends meet. Most young people are afraid to start families because of financial reasons. Financially, things are getting tough. And now the pandemic brought a new low. Capitalism is definitely doing a lot of harm to the financial state of the world.

@DocWatts a lot of black votes are turned down, is it true?

Lead by example. Try to make the world a better place one day at a time. That's how you change the world, it begins with you. However, always remember that you can only do what you can do. Don't assume that the world will change and become how you want it to be. That's fallacy. You can't change how people think but you can lead by example and they can follow your example.

Then don't date women. As though men aren't manipulative. All my relationships, I had men manipulate me to fall in love with them and use and throw as needed. Manipulation is on both sides whether it's male or female. Don't make it sound like men are all angels and saints and women are manipulative. Reality is far from all the women hating "women are evil" nonsense fed by Red Pill Garbage. If women were so manipulative then we wouldn't have an 8 billion population. It takes a shit ton to birth and raise a child. Very easy to blame a woman. Very hard to understand her. All these "women are manipulative" tropes are archaic.

Two words I was searching for Spiritual maturity Gifts

@Recursoinominado what is ONS?

They're basically sabotaging an entire political party. It seems like they've too much internal interference in all the affairs. They are like termites burrowing holes in the furniture.

Random disconnected ideas - karma and dharma - -living like a sage - -virtues are gifts - - resources are gifts - - gifts of heaven like peace and love - - be like a river. A gift that always keeps giving. Always flowing. Fountain metaphor Eternal spirit that always keeps helping and giving.. Even after death of body - selflessness - brotherhood like Christ said. - money is evil - bring people together - help people. Make them feel belonged. - not let them fall - humble simple graceful - no winning or losing. No winner and loser -no competition - everyone should be happy - collectivist mindset - creating beauty and happiness -to love each other - to be a loyal friend - to always keep giving - polite and gentle - be small yet powerful - focus on the art or message not the artist - don't work for money, work for passion - live as a messenger of God - this life is a gift - Everyday is Christmas. Everyday is giving - the more you give the more you receive -walk in faith -don't walk in scarcity -if you are rich and can't give, you're living in negativity, how are you rich -living in the glory of God. Living in his image. - spreading God's message everywhere. Where you tell everyone to help each other - if you could change only one life - lofty goals -only one word - Spirituality - Spirituality is like a marriage -anything that destroys house or marriage is evil -liberate people from the need to compete, winning, losing -help people, don't judge them or challenge them when they are not able to face their problems - live like a bird, money free - be a vagabond, a sage. -live the life of a sage

Happiness and prosperity are important