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The inner child is still not healed from abandonment and manifests itself in ugly ways and throws tantrums. So when you get needy, pay attention to your inner child, it's crying for help. Don't neglect it again. It's your shadow. Feed it with self love so it doesn't cry again. There's a heaven and earth difference between needing something very badly and crying when not getting it and demanding something as though someone owes you something in a very arrogant entitled spoilt manner Often people confuse these two because both tendencies exhibit or manifest in similar ways. But both have extremely different causes and roots and symptoms. One is because of having neglected by parents and the other is the result of having been spoiled rotten to the point of severe entitlement by parents. Confusing I know.

Focus right now on Course Proficiency Catalogue 10 major branches Dark Tetrad Influences (4 subset) . Closure and wrap up for each situation . Brainstorming Room (the quirky girl) Accountability partner Words, sentences from the universe and affirmations Survival guide Tunnel water theory (finding the sweet spot)

Focus on the now.

@Abdelghafar you're welcome

How can mind and brain be same?

Try to create a bond without flirting or escalation. Just talk a lot, have conversations. Get the ball rolling. Once the person is put to ease and enjoys your company, make your moves and try with mild flirting to see the reaction and reception. If the person showed interest, then escalate.

For her to be that sexually comfortable with you, you will need to establish a bond? Did you establish a bond?

At least play safe in the initial phase. You can try a bit of flirting after you have gained her confidence. But you can't be flirty is she isn't ready for it. Try to be a good friend first Then check if she gives you attention and looks at you or sends you hints that she really likes you. If she likes you, you can start flirting. If she hasn't made up her mind and if you start flirting, she will see you as needy and not talk. The key is to keep a proper balance between boring and flirty. Don't be too boring after she has shown interest. Dont be too flirty before she has shown interest. Keep balance. Play safe.

You've mistaken what Leo says. Leo tells you to first look at the girl. See if she is interested and (whatever) and then get sexy with her. Not before building interest. You simply cannot walk up to a girl and start sexual without having studied her at first. Sometimes it could go horribly wrong you know.

Because in such situations the woman feels more sexually safe around the man. This is because they're talking to a crowd of men and women. They are not in an intimate conversation with one woman. If the crowd was totally empty and there was only one woman sitting there alone in a big hall and the comedian started sexual jokes, she would be visibly uncomfortable and get up and leave. That doesn't matter. That was long ago and she won't think much of it. She wants to know who you're today.

I was Daddy's little girl. He told me to be the strongest girl. I had the best Dad in the entire universe.

I'm a wounded lion. But I'm still a lion. Umm. A lioness. Lol.

It also depends on how threatened insecure men feel by a woman's intellect, strength and independence. And how easily they pin their Insecurity on feminism and get comfortable with themselves Ain't it?

Lol. You ruined everything. Why be sexual right away? You can't really be sexual in text, since you don't see their facial expressions. You have to be friends with a person. Get to know them. A lot of women don't take sexual cues or hints as a good sign. We as women are extremely sensitive to it because we've been sensitized to any sexual hints since a young age. A woman can sense a man's sexual energy right off the bat. I can sense in text if a man is "that type" even when he is not saying that sexual. That's what women among themselves think of it. We think of it as "that type" which basically means "a guy only looking for sex aka fuckboy" Such guys are extremely unattractive to most women. We have been honed at a young age to screen out any signs and signals of men who fall in the category of "that type" That's basically the first screening stage. Most women want to make sure right away that they are not dealing with "that type" either in the capacity of a friend or lover/love interest. So when we see a guy approaching in any manner, physical or text, especially if he is a stranger, all our senses are hyper corrected and tuned to immediately catch any signs of "that." Its like a huge red siren inside the head that keeps rotating when the guy is talking, and with the first hint, the siren lights up and starts sounding and we go BLOCK. it's an instant visceral reaction to anything that threatens our sexual security. The priorities of women's general needs are such Sexual safety Not an ax murdering type Basic needs like financial and home. Caring, love and affection Kind and sweet Entertaining and humorous Responsible, honest, and trustworthy and "can make it happen" The "right guy" crown Sexual safety is one of the biggest priorities for a woman and she will do a lot of hard checking to ensure that this part is not messed up.. She doesn't want to be taken advantage of, get pumped dumped, used for lay count,or raped, or be used as a sex toy etc. She doesn't want to lose that which she holds dear - that sliver of dignity that she carries with her all her life. That's the philosophy underneath a woman's strong reaction to anything that threatens her sliver of sexual safety. So she will have sex only and only when she realizes the guy is totally safe at least for the first and second item on the checklist. You've to be able to cross this barrier before she can even think about talking to you. Even if she doesn't block you, she will keep a watchful eye. Her eyes will be darting around like a scanner to keep collecting more clues in that direction and make the final call "this is it, I knew it, not this guy." So you have to keep in mind that while wanting to date a woman first create sexual safety for her.

MTG holds no candle to AOC. MTG will need to go through 100 reincarnations to come anywhere closer to the highness of AOC. MTG needs to be barred and banned from public service.

This needs to be highlighted. Good job.

@Keyhole I have no understanding of ego or super ego. I never looked into that. I might have to.

Got some breathing exercises for ya