Preety_India

Cats definitely make me extremely happy.

Guys can be so nice and lovely sometimes. Especially when they flirt with you. I wish I could grab my bf right now and just hug him to death. There are so many things that are so nice about men.

The kind of guys that I usually find extremely sexy Very skinny guys Bit tall Long face. Head full of lush hair Beautiful eyes Stern look. Sinister appearance I like men who have a sinister dark side to them. It complements my kiddishness. And I love overprotective guys. Who can be great friend and companion and then lover. Generally skinny guys remind me of someone like Michael Jackson. These types. Thin and sexy.

I've been watching some skeleton dances... Kinda funny.. But nice. Well done with the animation. This hula dance tho This one takes the cake. It's just awesome. Reminds me of Michael Jackson.

The other thing that makes me happy is dancing.

Food definitely makes me happy. And yea being in nature. Drinking juices too.

I like this.

What makes me happy? Let me see. My mind hasn't decided what I really like or what makes me happy. I just have random scattered thoughts. One thing that makes me really really happy is pure romance. I'm a romantic creature by birth. I'm a Pisces. What do you expect? Pisces are die hard romantics. They love gratuitous displays of romance and affection.

@Dancer I hope you don't mind that I copied your title lol. It was unintentional.

@Dancer thank you.

The club isn't the best place to find a lover So the bar is where I go Me and my friends at the table doing shots Drinking fast and then we talk slow Come over and start up a conversation with just me And trust me I'll give it a chance now Take my hand, stop, put Van the Man on the jukebox And then we start to dance, and now I'm singing like Girl, you know I want your love Your love was handmade for somebody like me Come on now, follow my lead I may be crazy, don't mind me Say, boy, let's not talk too much Grab on my waist and put that body on me Come on now, follow my lead Come, come on now, follow my lead I'm in love with the shape of you We push and pull like a magnet do Although my heart is falling too I'm in love with your body And last night you were in

@Raphael real life is somewhat similar. They take cues from the movies. Not exactly singing songs but my ex Indian bf would write love letters and love poems. And we would chase around trees in a garden by the beach. It's kinda flowery, cute and romantic. I like it. Guys put a lot of effort in wooing the girls. The guy needs to be very chatty and talkative. Shy guys rarely get a chance.

@Lyubov

I think the happiest day in my life when I first fell in love with a boy. My first boyfriend. I was head over heels in love. It felt like bubbles and butterflies in my tummy. I couldn't stop thinking about him. He was everything I wanted. And I turned into a lovesick puppy. I love this peppy romantic music

@vinc3nc I honestly feel this is your opinion and not reality. If I ever had the greatest growth in my life, it directly stemmed from my bitter experiences in my relationships with the men I had in my life. But those same bitter moments and experiences made me a stronger, wholesome, molded person today. I know much better now than I knew back then which is only a few years ago. I could have easily wrote your post myself by simply switching the gender. Yes, I have wasted nearly 6 years of my precious youth in men that weren't worth my time. I now relegate myself wholly to the subject of self development and improving different areas of my life mainly spirituality, consciousness, health, mental health, emotional health, intellectual faculties etc. But in no way does this mean that people engaged in relationships aren't having a fruitful experience. Let's face it. If our relationships were wholesome, beautiful and successful, then we tend to grow together and learn quicker through transference, not to mention how relationships motivate us to be better people in terms of grooming, fitness, health, finances and psychology. Relationships aren't the end all and be all, however I'd like to draw a strong line here, because messages can be easily misleading, before jumping to paint relationships in a negative light, I would also to say that relationships tend to drain us in a bad way mostly and precisely because those certain relationships are toxic to begin with, it's the toxic relationships that steal our energies, and most relationships are toxic, so in some ways you are right about a lot of things, but if you separated the word toxic from the word relationship, you've a very different picture, since a healthy relationship is not going to drain you but rather lift you up in life, so while determining how relationships impact your life, you also need to give a look at the quality of the relationship you've been in, maybe it's not the relationship by itself that's dragging your life energy but the quality of it that is really the culprit. Also I don't think this is a woman thing because it takes two to tango, so it's a gender neutral thing and I'm pretty sure women think the same way you do, it's just that they prefer not to be too local about it, it can make them look bad, but what I'm trying to say that this a shared experience and both men and women feel that the relationship didn't fulfill them rather drained them and they were much better off single than being in one. For example you say that chasing girls is pointless, I'd say saying yes to men and falling in love with them is pointless if it's not going to be a wholesome experience for me down the line, when a relationship fails you gotta ask yourself what you did that might have contributed to its failure, I'm not trying to say that it's you who caused the failure, it could be the woman,but learning to reflect on the failures of a relationship is also a great learning lesson in life because such failures directly point to facets of our personality that need significant improvement. Relationship is a risky adventure and it comes with its pros and cons as anything else in life. Having a relationship is not a bad idea, having a bad relationship is definitely a bad idea but even if it's not a good relationship you still get to learn valuable lessons from your mistakes, although it's not always worth sacrificing your time for, it isn't necessarily a bad thing because it teaches you a lot. I agree that the social conditioning in regard to relationships is quite strong and needs to be broken, nobody is supposed to be made to feel weird simply because they chose a different path. That's definitely needs its own discussion platform. If you're using a relationship as a distraction in life, it won't be a rewarding experience, but if you are in a good relationship and you are using it for your personal growth, to build a better life and family, nothing could be more rewarding.

@Heart of Space I tend to get vibes from my environment. Like I usually know beforehand if something bad is going to happen. Then that time I don't go out. Later I find out that some tragic event happened and I ended up avoiding it because of my intuition. Also I get Premonitions about my family members.

Thank you for your feedback.

Deepak Chopra explains beautifully the experience of reality and talks in depth about self actualization.

I have psychic powers.

I hope these frustrations are overcome smoothly and you come out of them stronger and better and happier than before. You absolutely deserve all the best things.

I noticed this in my communication pattern that I tend to express a lot and receive very little. I need to be more receptive. I'm usually resistant to reception because it involves hard work and I like to be lazy so I tend to do the easy shit. So if someone posts a video, it's like a pain in the ass to watch the whole video and I tend to skip it. However this means I don't receive what I need to. All I do is just be a loud mouth. That's not helpful

Also try to reduce spacing and wrap up quick. If I'm on the forum, I only want to answer important questions. I'm also going to rate how my forum participation goes and then reward myself for a good interaction. Reward points like 3 or 8 etc. For a good one, above 20. Below means mediocre. Below 5 means okayish or not good. Since much of my learning happens here more than anywhere. This helps improve my communication skills.

My forum approach needs to change drastically. Instead of always trying to answer a question I need to see what I can gain from a post and make notes.

Activism is extremely important to bringing social change The people who actually need to look inwards and look at themselves are the ones who are opposed to it because there's no solid reason why positive social change should not happen. If the activism is about something frivolous and it adds to more chaos in the society, that's where it is unhealthy green and orange should resist it. But if orange is resisting any healthy form of activism, then it's just an indicator of green shadow. Example of real activism - fighting against environmental damage. Fighting for justice for victims Example of frivolous activism - where a woman fashion designer wears a T shirt that says "the future is female" stuff like that or they want some celebrity banned because they said something racist or sexist many many years ago.