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My response.

Btw I've met tons of guys who hit on me that were so called "Nice" but creepy. Men aren't aware of this phenomenon. I call it the "Nice but creepy" guys. All nice guys who appear nice aren't necessarily nice. The creepy side begins to show after 2-3 conversations. Like 2 years ago a guy in America who was simply being friendly and protective of me. Extremely protective. Gave me his number in case I needed any help because I was being bullied by a bunch. I relied on him. I didn't talk to him for 6 months. I had almost forgotten him. One day he sent me a message that he liked me and wanted to marry me. I kinda changed the subject. After that he got very sexual in a very weird way. I immediately blocked him. That's where I learned that some guys who act nice and are generally called nice have a hidden creepy side that suddenly comes up after the girl has trusted the guy for long.

This thread in particular has many good responses that match my insights. Teal Swan why women like assholes why women aren't attracted to nice guys 2 hours ago, Leo Gura said: @Lyubov Yeah, but girls do love themselves a proper asshole. I noticed young women will go through a phase where they will date a few asshole/manipulative guys and then either a) repeat this a million times and become more and more neurotic b) learn from it and start choosing better partners. I've also seen guys including myself who were assholes and got laid because of it but upon self reflection realized that is not the person I want to be and grow from it. A lot of people go through these phases when they are young. It's getting sort of annoying how the word asshole is constantly used when this question is brought up. When I think of an asshole I think of a guy that is downright disrespectful, abusive, shaming and a liar. Naive girls that get walked over will fall for these guys sometimes. Just because you are outgoing, self confident, a little edgy and not a people pleaser doesn't mean you're an asshole. There are more distinctions to be made when it comes to masculine character though over physical beauty I would say. Women get better at smelling out healthy masculinity over toxic. The asshole who was having some luck is masculine for sure but it's sort of a neurotic version of it. Masculine anything will always be attractive to women but the more they are able to tell what kind a man is (if they are wise enough to learn) they will gravitate away from those they know are toxic for the sake of their heart, unless they are trapped in that cycle of associating abuse with romance. 1 hour ago, Hardkill said: That's why in all seriousness, I believe that women truly want a man who is more like a true hero or a savior. Someone who neither a "nice guy" or a bad guy, but is a good man who is able to lead and protect his woman (or women), his children, and everyone within his community who depend on him. Someone who is an inspirational ally to good and a nightmarish danger to evil. Lyubov wrote "asshole" and "nice guy" are just sort of catch all caricature phrases used mainly by the masses that haven't contemplated the dynamics as deeply so they are a little helpful when talking generally but aren't always clear representations. The nice guy will act sweet and like a total suck up and pathetic push over and then throw a fit when he doesn't get what he desires because to him he was "being nice" so he deserves it. The asshole will come off a little stage red. Do whatever to get what he wants without showing weakness and this includes manipulating and abusing. He will lead but his means of leading is toxic like a dictator or through creating some sort of wound cycle the girl has. The asshole will get some romance/sex because he has the general qualities down for masculine/feminine attraction but it will often times be with women with low self esteem and that are naive. There are plenty of women out there like this though so the asshole can stay an asshole if he so desires to or until his girl wises up and breaks his heart in return. Edited just now by Lyubov Hardkill's response. That's why in all seriousness, I believe that women truly want a man who is more like a true hero or a savior. Someone who neither a "nice guy" or a bad guy, but is a good man who is able to lead and protect his woman (or women), his children, and everyone within his community who depend on him. Someone who is an inspirational ally to good and a nightmarish danger to evil.

Participated on the forum a little bit (trying to control my urge to participate) and then I'm glad I stumbled on a few good responses. These ones were really good and reflect my mentality. It's getting sort of annoying how the word asshole is constantly used when this question is brought up. When I think of an asshole I think of a guy that is downright disrespectful, abusive, shaming and a liar. Naive girls that get walked over will fall for these guys sometimes. Just because you are outgoing, self confident, a little edgy and not a people pleaser doesn't mean you're an asshole.

I think the word asshole doesn't do justice. It's not a correct representation from my point of view. For example I am attracted to dominant males but I'm not attracted to assholes. Just yesterday I rejected a guy who was being very demanding, domineering and a perfect asshole. Because domination means he can carry his own stuff, he can do his own thing and it also means someone responsible like a patriarch for the family.. Like a man who leads you.. But asshole in my mind is a guy who is downright disrespectful, has no regard for boundaries, acts stupid, toxic, no humility, abusive, uncaring, irresponsible. These qualities represent a toxic dominating male, not the healthy dominating male. So this assumption that women look for something toxic is wrong unless the woman is not finding anything wrong with the man mistreating her, which means she herself is toxic. I dated guys in the past who turned out to be assholes but I didn't carry a meter machine to detect that. They were quite pleasant in the beginning. But as time went, they became quite aggressive and uncaring and then downright abusive. So a lot of the time, a woman is simply confused because these men appear very pleasant and polite and thoughtful in the beginning and then the mask begins to fall off. It's their dating strategy to appear protective to win a woman, they hide their true selves and are very manipulative.. And the other distinction is about calling someone an asshole simply by appearance..a guy being punky and edgy, having strong biceps and a self absorbed should not automatically mean that he is an asshole. I went through a phase where I didn't know men very well and I didn't bother to screen hard enough because I was naive and I had no idea that you have to screen, I thought people simply fall in love, I dated these asshole manipulative guys out of pure fantasy and naivete. But as soon as I saw how abusive they were, that's where I became aware of the word "game" and the Predatory nature of some men, I became more aware of how manipulative men mask emotions and intent, that's where I gradually began to learn about red flags and gained the maturity to avoid men who were like that. Most women who fall for such men do not do it out of random attraction (unless they are very low conscious and are completely fine with abuse) but they fall for such men because they are in the learning phase, they don't know better, they are simply oblivious and unaware of abusive or toxic dynamics. As soon as they learn more about relationships or begin to research more on abuse, they gain the maturity and confidence to drop such relationships from their lives and get better at detecting red flags. Then they start choosing better partners This in no way means that women like or choose assholes. No. They are simply going through a phase in life (especially when they are starting out) and they usually grow out of it after some harsh reality checks. It's just a phase. A woman will eventually break up with an asshole once she realizes how it's impacting her. A lot of people go through these phases when they are young. And the distinction between a lying, shaming, gaslighting, manipulative, abusive guy (who should be appropriately called an asshole) and an outgoing, edgy, punky, self confident, a bit arrogant is important here. Guys who are arrogant and self confident or a bit obnoxious aren't necessarily assholes. They simply give out vice but they could be good at heart, helpful and kind. They simply have a certain cocky style which could be making them feel better about themselves. A woman (at least myself in this regard) is looking for a productive, confident, protective, someone who is neither lame (the nice guy types because they can't protect my future children from getting raped, so I don't want their monk nature) nor the bad guy prototype (abusive, disrespectful, yes asshole) but a man who is both strong, protective and also a respectful golden heart, who is able to lead and protect his woman (me), his children, and everyone else around him who look up to him. Who is protective of those who are good. And stands up against bullies and makes bad people go away. So yes women like good men. Men mistake a woman's need for strength and protection to automatically mean "asshole" behavior. A man against bad men/evil things is not an asshole but a fighter. In essence a woman wants a Benevolent fighter.

@MuadDib pain will always exist in some form or another. But it's the hero's journey that counts. I went through countless moments of emotional pain. But I always emerge out on the other side, where I look away from pain, I do complain a heck about it, but I also look at the side of love to have the inspiration to carry on.. Love heals. Time heals. Life is limited only in body, but not in spirit. There are many more lives that the little soul has to live. Living in Benevolent love helps the soul to process pain and move forward through all the bullshit of life.

Sexuality exists on a spectrum?

A Benevolent God and a Karmic God.

Everything is a mini universe. Your body is also a mini universe.

A constructive mind will create something liberating and will allow an outlet for liberation. A destructive mind will create a path to slavery. A good system is something that will liberate you from hell and a bad system is something that will keep you trapped in eternal hell.

Angel of protection Angel of healing Angel of guidance and motivation.

The soulmate energy and the anti hero energy.

White shirt looks good on you Leo.

Lmao thats Krishna and Radha in Hindu mythology. There's nothing feminine about the relationship. He is wearing flowers because he is surrounded by girls. He is the most masculine figure. He went on to destroy an evil king as per the myth. He is never portrayed as feminine. Jewelry and flowers were common attire for men in ancient Hinduism. But it's not supposed to mean feminine. You will need a woman who is compatible and happy with your feminine side. Although that's rare Which means you have to work harder than others to get a mate.

When are you running for President?

I will need to condense these. ☘️Love +intelligence +goodness = God Consciousness ☘️ Soulmate relationship and duality. Yin and yang forces. Masculine and feminine. ☘️ Energy - driver or driving force. It's a force of transparence. ☘️ Spirit. The spirit is always restless until it finds the soulmate. ☘️ Equilibrium versus conflict ☘️ To create equilibrium you need harmony between the soulmates. ☘️ The main principle is cause and effect... Karma principle. ☘️ Authentic expression and communication. ☘️ Awareness of Consciousness ☘️ Works and Processes(some karma) ☘️ Marriage has a spiritual significance. ☘️ Productive and Destructive forces (good and the devil) ☘️ There is a force, a protective force in the universe and I'll call it PF. Or Nmaat .. Opposite Of Maat, like Kali ☘️ Time is a major component ☘️ There is abundance in the universe . You knock the door and it's given ☘️ Mind over matter ? The universe has a conscience and a moral compass. ? The universe definitely has an order. ☘️ Life force is necessary. Without it you would die. ☘️ There is synchronicity. ? Everything that happens is a reflection of karma ☘️ The other component of the universe is the static component and that is the Physical nature of things. Your body. Trees, mountains. Your chemicals, hormones,homes, buildings, sculptures. It is as it is. For example mortality. You can change energy but you can't change this constant. You can only change the variable parts. ☘️ Robust framework, system, structure. This can be created with will power. Creating a fixed peaceful functioning system requires strict Stage Blue values that never change or erode. SSS ☘️ Eternal unity between different components. ☘️ ☘️ ☘️

I'm thinking about the important components of the universe. One component is chemistry. The other component is God And Love And Energy Structure and Time The other component is Maat or divine intelligence and goodness. Next is a soulmate relationship. Duality Spirit Consciousness

The other thing that Blends with energy is structure.

With energy you have to consider 3 things. One is the nature of this energy. And the other is its application. And the third thing is to see how freely it flows. Energy should have a balanced flow.. The way you blend and move these energies to become a more wholesome you and create a wholesome experience in different circumstances is the art of life.

Confront her. Let her know. Don't hang around her much. Simply avoid and do your own thing.