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Yea women get attracted to assholes like Donald Trump? But is Donald Trump attractive? For a woman like me, he is repulsive. I want high consciousness. I can change the rules of the game called life. It's all in your hands. Baby you gotta understand.

Bingo. You're supposed to teach something higher. Everyone knows what survival is.. We dont watch your videos to learn that. We come to you for high consciousness. Not survival shit. Bingo.

Swiper, No Swiping

Nope.

Well you just said that you want me to be happy. Seems like you do care for my happiness deep down.

Indeed. I love a man with a spine.

Sure sure. Do you wanna know why I'm so happy? Top secret. Because I left an asshole. Hehe. And this whole forum helped me in leaving that asshole. Leaving an asshole feels like enlightenment!!!!! It's the greatest feeling of joy ever.

Hahaha. I'm not trying to control anything. Simply saying what I think doesn't work with me as a woman. And other women are agreeing too. Of course I can't control men. But I can definitely control what man comes into my life. So all the men can go find women who like assholes. But what I've learned is that an asshole hurts my survival value the most more than any other man. I can dominate a man or I can be submissive to a man. Both ways I win. The only man who blocks my survival is the asshole. And ive learned how to avoid that. Other women eventually learn it too. Women are definitely getting wiser at the detriment of assholes. And that is a blessing my dear.

Nah, what society thinks. Your projections on how women should be are so silly and teenagey. I allow a man to be a man in a relationship because it helps my survival value too. Can you allow a woman to be woman? Maybe it's against your survival.

Then get on board with it or be left out.

Hahaha the biggest irony is that society always keeps changing People would have never been vegan in olden days. People were racist and enslaved other humans in old times. Hahaha, would be a pleasant surprise to you when you get older and society becomes what you don't want it to be.

My relationship is great because I finally found a gentleman and precisely the reason I left an asshole for. I make posts like that because each of one the other posts remind me of my exes. Of course my love life wasn't good when I was with assholes. But that got fixed by a gentleman

It doesn't. And it won't. You can't have a good relationship by denying a woman her womanhood. If you have desires, she has desires too. What I get from your posts is that you think women should be a certain way but that's not going to happen. You think that you will be arrogant in a relationship and she will put up with you?

I can tell you that you will never have successful relationships in life with that attitude. You've already denied a good relationship coming your way.

That's because these women are using you. Not every woman is like that. Maybe you are dating unhealthy ones. I never told my boyfriend to stop doing what he did. But he is still a gentleman. I don't like the idea of control in a relationship, be it from whatever side. I like my own space and I give him his own space. Date healthy people, whether men or women, is the moral of the story.

A gentleman doesn't need to bend over backwards to be a gentleman. I have never dated a guy who bent over backwards for me. Why would I want that? I'm looking for a man, not some lame duck. You are conflating two things. You think that being polite is slavery. People are polite and kind without having to bend to anyone. I can be talking to a polite guy right now and I would more than admire that he is confident in who he is. Politeness is a humble quality. You don't have to be a people pleaser to be polite. You conflate two things.

Well its good that he grew it. I can tell you that I was attracted to an asshole, but not because he was an asshole, yes he was dominant, but let me tell you that it's only a phase, I grew out of it, it's fed by teenage novels and movies and primal instincts, but it's hardly anything, it only happens because boundaries are weak and knowledge is shallow, but when a woman outgrows it, she can easily smell it and get repulsed by it. If today I've to meet an asshole in a club, I will simply laugh at him and look away. He won't be worth my time. Men take a little thing and spin a yarn ball out of it. Our innate femininity doesn't want an asshole and that's why we leave them, it's only nomadic survival that made women desire that. But we aren't living in nomadic times anymore. Nomadic times saluted wars. But look how people are against wars now. With feminism, a lot of things are changing because women aren't depending on a man for survival anymore. Emasculation of men is already happening. Tables are turning. More educated women are choosing a gentleman. Naive toxic women still settle for the abusive guy. I did that too. But like I said it's just a phase. Sooner or later a woman drops that guy and moves on. If you only want to increase lay count, then you would be obsessed with wanting to be like an asshole. But if you want a healthy long term working relationship with a healthy emotionally grown woman, then this strategy won't work. Choice is yours. Btw I've never seen a man simply sleeping with multiple women really happy. He is forever searching. Most men who are happy are happy because they have stability in life relationships wise.

Women need to raise their consciousness. And stop dating assholes. This whole thing that attraction is biological is nuts.. Thinking can change biology just like mind reset can remove years of genetic anxiety. Anything is possible. So all the assholes can sink into oblivion. We don't need them. Women want good men. Survival is not our fault. And with more women getting stronger and independent, they are more likely to choose good polite men. See it for yourself. So many of my successful women colleagues are married to nice men.. The trend is shifting. Assholes won't stand a chance. Talk about conscious dating. Women are not dumb creatures as everyone is trying to automatically assume. Women are moving in their own direction of consciousness. At one point domestic violence was a part of a relationship with no laws or ways for women to speak about it. Today women don't put up with such men. They move on to a better man. Women have a good future and times are changing. So all this "women like assholes" crap will come to an end one day Some men just need a reason to act like assholes and then justify it.. YouTube is already banning such pickup channels. Red pill psychology will only last so long. At some point women are going to be fed up with all this abuse. More women are opening up about emotional abuse. We are going to put an end to this menace. You don't get to blame everything on women. Women aren't married to assholes. They are married to gentlemen. If they were married to assholes they would have been dead. Wake up.

And women don't have emotions? Are women your objects?

It's because of an entitled mindset. Not because of frustration. Men can get sex with prostitutes or they have porn. Stop justifying violence.

You aren't advocating it. But you're justifying it, which is called enabling. Change your mindset. It's going in the direction of dangerous territory. You're giving leverage to behavior of criminals. Pickup means attracting women and establishing a connection which is mutually satisfying. Pickup is not man dominating a woman and justifying killing her if she rejects. Your rejection is not a woman's fault. It's your lack and her right. If you didn't match her requirements and fantasies, she is not obligated to give you shit. If you can't attract a woman, you can always complain about it, you could want some pity fuck, you could express frustration. But frustration should never be channeled into crime. If a man is that frustrated enough to kill, then he needs to stop being a brat and grow up and learn to deal with reality

Andrew Cuomo is a kind of guy who can swiftly get himself out of trouble..

This is dangerous mentality. You don't have the right to hurt others just because your needs are not met. The only reason where killing someone is justified is for self defense/abuse/kidnap.

That's your projection and bias Men get rejected all around the world. But they don't go on killing women. It's called cultural values. In a culture where men are taught that they are above women and any woman who is trying to stand up is attacked the way you're attacking me, it's difficult for men to see women as humans and do whatever savagery they want to do with them. Nobody stops you from pickup other than you yourself. But don't use the rejection in pickup as a justification for the murder of a woman. By doing that, women are only going to be more fearful of men and reject men even more.. If you don't understand women, why bother to love them. A woman needs safety as the first condition in a relationship. When she doesn't feel safe she won't date. Increasing crimes against women make them feel unsafe and your attitude of defending criminals also makes them unsafe. With such attitude you only make the problem worse not better.. Women in western countries feel relatively safer as compared to women in India. I don't even feel safe walking on the road by my house. But never felt like that in America. Huge difference. Don't tell me about western culture and apply the same bullshit logic to a patriarchal system of India where women are treated worse than slaves Your mentality fits right into the terrible Indian dynamic.. If there is no safety or respect for women, forget dating and pickup. I don't wish to end up dead or raped.