Preety_India

Yea I've learned to not trust men the way I used to. That's how I grew up. Will I date a homeless man again with nothing to offer? Yes I will. Why not. I don't like social rules about money or anything else. I make my own rules. If a guy loves me, that's all I need. But the difficulty lies in knowing whether he is faking it or really being sincere in his love. This part is the harder part. I do believe a man can love a woman forever and there are men like that and they are few but they are there. Most men however go for shallow relationships where they manipulate cheat and lie.

This is all creating unnecessary assumptions out of whatever I say. I never said I want to be an alpha woman. I don't even know what that means.. I'm just me, purely me. I believe in being authentic. I do things for myself. I don't care about social judgement. I try my best to live by my own code..

Great advice.

I never said that it's not fine. I've said many times it's completely fine for women who do it for men. But I don't do it for that reason. So generalization is a bad thing. I like my face better with makeup. I don't care if men look at me or not.. Every woman has her own preference. If men like looks it's ok. But I don't care about it. I want a man who appreciates me for me, for my personality. That's why I don't focus on looks. Because I don't want my looks to attract him. It's my preference.

@Aquarius I am being honest. I don't need a man to be a woman. I don't get it. I don't have anything against women who do things for men.. I'm not demonizing them. I am simply saying that I do things for myself, for my own status as a woman. Don't see anything wrong with it I don't let society dictate how I want to be. Zero is making it sound like if i do makeup it meant for men, when it's not. Just telling my honest truth.

Not at all. But I don't do it for that reason.. I do makeup for myself. Zero is trying to imply that all women do makeup to impress men. But that's not true.. I am not doing anything for men (not that there is anything wrong with that but I don't do it for that reason). He doesn't realize that everything is not for men. Again. There is a need for it. I have the need for my feminine expression because I'm a female whether a male is present around me or not. My womanhood is not affected by his presence or absence. I'll still do makeup whether you find necessary or not.

I wear it because I want to feel good about myself. My self worth, my self esteem. My status. My identity. My beauty. Me me me me me me me... Did you still not get it ?? How is it manipulation when i do it myself? If no man éxisted on this planet, I'd still do makeup. Because it's my face and how I want myself to look whether someone looks at me or not

Only when they want it. Their whole life does not revolve around a vagina. Women are good at control and composure. They don't need nofap and nowap.. Lol

When I do makeup, I'm not even thinking about a man. I hardly bother to look a man in the eye. I want to look good for myself.. So I feel better about me. I want to look nice. It's all about me.. Call me self centered. Call me selfish. But it's not for men. Men instinctively think it's for them. Just like a man going to gym for a fit body, he isn't doing it for women, but to look good and keep himself fit. You think everything in male female terms. Especially too much bent on the masculine side. Everyone's got their own reason to survive and live. Who cares if a man likes something or not? Why even care about that? I can show Tons and tons of single women. They are quite happy.. In fact they love the independent free life. Not every woman is aiming to be a wife or mother.

Spare me the trouble. I could care less. Loads of women who don't give a shit tbh.

How?

For a long time I really liked bad boys. But these days not so much. Yet somewhat. There might be something protective about them? However this could be an illusion created by movies and media and pop culture.. They have put the bad boy on a pedestal hehe.

Cough. Not sure. Im not the type of girl who likes a guy because every woman likes him. I have a sense of ego and pride. So I want a man for myself.. If every girl likes him, I'll consider him general property. Nope. Those men don't attract me at all. Not at all. So with the first criteria he is already out Next. he's not Mr. Exciting, Sorry I want exciting. But I can compromise but also not Mr. I'll Abuse you good. Mr. I'll Be Your Servant). Not a servant but someone who listens and agrees is good for my health. Listening to someone is not slavery. Let's hypothetically say that said guy is loyal and stay with you for the rest of your life. Loyalty is number 1 thing for me. So yes that's desirable.

@Aquarius I don't get these people on here. She is actually very beautiful. If I were a man I'd die for her. Plus she is elegant and eloquent.

Good men can be confident too. Confidence is not a negative trait For example I'd say Elon Musk is confident. Or someone like Michael Phelps are good examples..

A tad judgmental I say!!

@Aquarius Yea criticism of Teal Swans work is one thing but attacking her or deeming her worthless because of her age or appearance is truly disturbing and extremely shallow in my opinion.

Hey, a valuable respectful man would take her. Someone of high quality. . Anyway it's not about someone taking TEAL Swan. It's about Teal taking someone.

I'd choose Damon over Stefan. Of course in the real world I'd choose Stefan.. But since this is the journal and I'm exploring my sexual fantasy world, I would pick Damon. Whats so special about bad boys? Are they good at sex? They lay down their rules. Sexy They have sexy looks They are not afraid. They are confident.

What makes a bad boy so attractive?

Then why do you think a woman should stay with a man who does whatever he wants? If you can't let her do what she wants, why should she let you do what you want? Notice how quickly you feel threatened by the idea that your woman will do what she wants.. The same thought runs through a woman's mind. Men who say they will do whatever they want, does it mean that they will cheat on their girlfriend and she is supposed to be okay with it? Such statements create insecurity.

@Heaven hmm. There is absolutely nothing shallow about confidence. People who have it know it. People who don't crave it.

Would you be okay if your girl did whatever she wanted?

A real woman does whatever the f she wants. Agree? No?