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He looked like one. Acted like one. Had been to jail for little things.. He was into drugs and his friends were from local gangs and hooligans.

Why aren't you eligible to be President? You're an American citizen and you are quite old enough to apply as well.

Everyone likes real tits. Nobody likes a fake pair or tits unless they are phony themselves Wow, what a shocker.

And there are millions like me? What about them? We are all one at the end of the day. When someone says they have cancer, millions have it too. By singling me out, you're also singling those who represent me or those who I represent You can't simply reject a whole part of the world. Everyone is a piece of this giant pie.

My ultimate point is this. Being honest helps all parties involved. Less pain and less hurt for everyone. I will be honest about what I want in a man and he will be honest about what he wants in a woman. Less heartbreak in the world this way. Ultimately inauthenticity leads to more pain in the long run. I'm talking about Game B.

Well the point is you can't get too far in life with all the selfish biases and gaming and strategy. Attraction will happen but I doubt a fulfilling relationship can come out of that because what you totally forget and step aside that no relationship in this world only works on 100% attraction.. There is much more to it so if you only fixate on attraction, you're stuck in a circle. Attraction is just 1 dimension. If you get it figured out, you shouldn't stay stuck with it but go to the next level of connection, consciousness and intimacy. To be honest, this is exactly what I want the man to do. When I see a man liking me for my beauty, I don't see an emotional connection there. But I still want him to be honest so that I can reject him instantly. So if he is not honest about getting laid with me, it's a waste of my time because I figure it out 6 months later that that's what he wanted with me. And I don't want that. Getting laid is easy but getting a true connection is difficult. I shouldn't need to be manipulated for a man to satisfy his needs. In some ways its unethical. But I get your point that survival itself is selfish and manipulative.

That's my exact point. No matter what the other person does, say what you want. For example if I suddenly decide to dress unsexily, that's how I feel powerful, because It means I don't give a fuck if he rejects me or not. For example, in one of my relationships, I deliberately cut my hair really short and showed it to my boyfriend who was really pissed off because he liked long hair on me. But I wanted to make a statement that I wanted to live by my own code. That's my way of showing female confidence. We argued for a week just over my haircut but my bratty self wouldn't give up. What I mean here is be authentic no matter what. That's what authenticity means. No fear of consequences or judgement. Men need to practice confidence and authenticity. It will make them attractive. If you stood next to me harping on whatever obnoxious things you wanted, I would actually admire your authenticity and confidence to pull off that. Because that makes you look different from the 99%. The final result was that my boyfriend started respecting me more after the statement haircut, because he could see that I didn't give a fuck what he thought. It made him admire me more over time. He saw me as unconquerable. Authenticity and confidence comes with a price but it looks way better than being a sleazy and manipulative hustler. And there are prizes. If you showed that kind of honesty, you end up meeting the best.

You've taken me completely out of context. What I said was about attraction and how the other party perceives it.. If I said that I only want to date men of particular body features it's like objectification because I'm not talking about emotional aspects at all. Of course you are allowed to be attracted to what you are attracted to but then why not say it to women. Why say the opposite? The post was about being honest no matter what the other gender thinks. The thing that triggered me is the part where Leo said women misrepresent what they want and men don't. This is not true. It's the exact opposite. It's men who hide what they want and call me sexist if I point it out.. And women are totally honest about what they want. But men don't want to listen when she says it. Because it does not fit their Agenda. I'll glady take it if you like a big pair of tits but be vocal about it if you are going to be in a relationship. Don't practice fake pick up lines. The man should tell me that he likes me for my tits.

Who is the best self help author in your opinion?

@Leo Gura needs to listen to this..

Glad that you're at least coming to the dating section. How is it going?

@universe yep agree. They are all a part of confidence

I see. A lot of eastern European are Jewish I guess.

Why should women care about what men want? Are women approaching men? I think caring what someone wants should come from the party doing the approaching. Why shouldn't men be called sexist for wanting it? Isn't it totally gross to only want a pair of nice tits? Doesn't it reduce a woman to pieces of meat? Which meat is better? It's like if I started a thread on penis length and a dick measuring contest? Would men be in such splendour and awe if they were reduced only to penis size and nothing else? Well there is a fundamental difference between. One is related to sexual pleasure and the other is related to emotions Emotional desires have a high consciousness value in comparison to carnal desires. Wanting to fuck is not the same as crying over the death of a dog. By what authority though? Are you a woman? Why would you decide what women get attracted to when you are not even a woman? Do you feel like a woman? How would you know what's in her mind and heart exactly if every time she confuses you? If she always confuses you, then how are you sure? Oh really. I never had a man approach me and say "hey nice pair of tits"... Why is that? Why is he misrepresenting what he truly wants? Men pay thousands of dollars to dating coaches to teach them how to stimulate a woman emotionally and how to manipulate them into believing that they are loved. Otherwise it's pretty simply fot the so called honesty in men, instead of trying to emotionally stimulate a woman, they should simply say they like the pair of tits. Ahm. That doesn't happen. How honest is that? Men are totally dishonest about what they want. They maintain an entire relationship on this dishonesty causing women emotional suffering. Next time tell men to be totally open about what they want instead of using fancy pickup lines taught by dating coaches and hunters. Women constantly tell men what they want. Constantly. You know what the response from men is? The most beautiful response is "don't listen to women" Try listening sometimes Nah. It's men's attraction that is not only gross for a woman but most men only earn a woman by dishonesty and manipulation which pua circles are full of Teach men to listen to women rather than telling them that women don't know anything Men know 200% what women want. They simply deny it and impose their selfish desires on us without even caring to fulfil our desires in return. Since as per you, men do not misrepresent what they want, next time you walk up to a girl, tell her that you only like pair of tits and only wanted to get laid. And please do let us know how your honest conversations went. Haha No man ever landed a woman by being honest. That's why men always and always misrepresent what they want because deep down they know that they will be turned down for it. Courage and honesty lies in speaking the truth without the fear of consequences or validation. If men fear the consequences of their honesty and that causes them to lie, they are neither honest nor courageous.

Living in India is a huge struggle. Living in a Third world country period is a huge struggle. I don't know how to do it. Growing up I had no idea that I was born in a third world country. But here I am. This journal will document my struggle of survival in a third world country if I might even survive to see myself struggling. Because frankly I've just given up.

@Hardkill are you European?.

@Forestluv tell that to Leo.

Note to self Recently there's been an uptick in my misbehavior towards men.. Not a good sign. Badie girl stop. Stop flirting with men. Men are strange. When you are too good, they want to force you to like them. When you actually begin to like them like a drunk girl, they begin to distance themselves. Oops. Men wil be men. I think I'm better off with my creative imaginations of what I want a man to do.. Men in my fantasies are damn brilliant and never act cold. That's a good thing I want a man who can lift me up and place me on a hard floor and then look into my eyes and give me a deep kiss.

@Hardkill how do you know so much? You seem to know a lot more. I've a suggestion. You become a dating coach.. There will be peace in the world.

@Hardkill how do you know so much about women when you rarely talk to them? Whats the secret? You seem to know women. Do you mind read or what? Your name should have been killhard instead of hard kill.

Bro, you figured it out. Must have been a woman in the past birth. Preach bro preach.

After trial bro. Énd stage. After all the juice is squeezed by a long list of assholes, finally the remainder stays with a beta.. But main thing already given to asshole. What's the point of beta afterwards.

Pro tip to assholes - if you wanna be an asshole anyway, try being a good asshole instead of the badie one. Like a wanna be badass. That might be safer for the woman.

@LastThursday even though whatever you think about your age, you got beautiful cute cutie pie eyes. My high school crush used to look like you a bit. You remind me of him. You got glass in your eyes. Are you like British?

Right. They are more complementary to the vulnerable side of women..