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Game B One step forward in dating.

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@Dunnel hey dude don't do it. I pray whatever it is gets better. Saying Hello to you from the other side of the planet. Big warm hugs to you... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Made this for you. Hope you have a great day.

Me too.

Preference cannot be mixed with emotional maturity, yes you are right.. But our emotional bond is the strongest I ever had so far in any of my relationships. I see him as very emotionally mature because he understands everything I feel. I understand everything he feels. There's rarely an opportunity for misunderstanding in communication or emotional levels and I appreciate that about him a lot. He appreciates my emotional maturity with him and we don't fight the way I used to fight with my other previous boyfriends. I like this relationship more than any. And it's mutual admiration.

Continued I disagree. For some people sex is not that important. I've had a few flings where men wanted to have my company and weren't regularly sexual with me. I'm currently in a relationship that I'll call stage Green relationship with a guy. He told me that he doesn't put a lot of emphasis on sex but emotional connection. You can call it whatever label you want, I simply choose to call it game B. You can call it Stage Green dating if Game B is not exact. The title doesn't matter. Me and my boyfriend rarely have sex but we enjoy each other's company to the max. He has a low sex drive. I do have a high sex drive but I control it because I love him We find a terrific connection between the two of us. We always get along and our emotional connection is the best I ever had. I really crave for him and he wants me too. So it's not like it doesn't exist. It does. Why it works? Because we both are super emotional people. .. emotional Connection is the reason Being high conscious does not remove the need for partnership. I don't think that even if I reach stage Turquoise I wouldn't want a partner. I certainly would. .. The amount will vary. The point was, If you're not having sex at all on a semi regular basis ( whatever you both agreed you need) than problems will occur. When partners never have sex or super fucking rarly have sex and both are in their reproduction prime and there is no communication about it, problems will occur. Sex is also a basic need that doesn't disappear, unless you're fucking buddha. ... It all depends on what the needs of both are and if it's communicated or not. My point is that Sexual intimacy is important in a romantic relationship. The important question however is how much is enough for both to be happy and that's were communication comes in so that both are satisfied on that compartment of the relationship. If it is not satisfied for both people than the relationship will not be as good as it could be and sometimes even lead to bigger problems that the two should deal with if they want to develop the most conscious relationship possible. For most people regular sex is an important need, that must be meet in order for the relationship to feel good. If one or both partners have another preference, than that's becuase of preference - not becuase the level of conciousness or emotional maturity. ... Preference cannot be mixed with emotional maturity, yes you are right.. But our emotional bond is the strongest I ever had so far in any of my relationships. I see him as very emotionally mature because he understands everything I feel. I understand everything he feels. There's rarely an opportunity for misunderstanding in communication or emotional levels and I appreciate that about him a lot. He appreciates my emotional maturity with him and we don't fight the way I used to fight with my other previous boyfriends. I like this relationship more than any. And it's mutual admiration.

Yes I believe it's true

Not when they have low sex drive. How much sex they want depends on their preference.

I'm extremely happy and content that I pioneered such a revolutionary discussion. It's like spirituality.

@JonasVE12 I'll leave it to OP to decide this.

@Peter Miklis emotional Connection is the reason Being high conscious does not remove the need for partnership. I don't think that even if I reach stage Turquoise I wouldn't want a partner. I certainly would.

I disagree. For some people sex is not that important. I've had a few flings where men wanted to have my company and weren't regularly sexual with me. I'm currently in a relationship that I'll call stage Green relationship with a guy. He told me that he doesn't put a lot of emphasis on sex but emotional connection. You can call it whatever label you want, I simply choose to call it game B. You can call it Stage Green dating if Game B is not exact. The title doesn't matter. Me and my boyfriend rarely have sex but we enjoy each other's company to the max. He has a low sex drive. I do have a high sex drive but I control it because I love him We find a terrific connection between the two of us. We always get along and our emotional connection is the best I ever had. I really crave for him and he wants me too. So it's not like it doesn't exist. It does. Why it works? Because we both are super emotional people.

Entry Taken from here Game B Dating Anyone up for it? Wanna discuss? Lets discuss how you want Game B dating to look like? Boys and girls here, chip in your views on how you want it for your gender. I still don't have a fixed vision for this, just loose thoughts around this. This can be the next generation high consciousness dating.. Tell me how you want it look. Game A people can overlook this thread because it won't apply to you if you don't want Game B To give you a context on this. Game B involves life long bonding, or at least long term, less attraction related stuff, more about emotions Stage Green dating strategies and Hotspots, developing intimacy and connection, hippie love, defying social norms on regular dating, building strong relationships and partnerships, overcoming hurdles, choosing alternative unconventional partners (for example you might be straight and choose a gay partner or someone who is not in your social status zone (like beneath you socially or financially). Basically this is unconventional dating game and not your regular club hookup/rsd /pua/regular physical attraction. Ready for Game B? We are here to discuss strategies and methods and concepts. So please don't derail the thread by debating about Game A and then trying to pit it against Game B. This is not a competition of who wins, A or B. It's just an alternative style of dating. So please be respectful of that. Both have slight differences in perspectives Don't enmesh this thread with Game A.. You got lots of pickup threads for your regular dating discussions. Well, considering that B Game has never been practised in entire history of humanity, it's pretty hard to visualise what it would look like. I guess it would be more 50/50 type of relationship, with less polarity and less emphasis on sex? And with more emphasis on higher conciousness values? Idk. it is practised. It's similar to stage Green dating.. It's not just not talked about very often in regular circles because it's not conventional It's like gay people don't exist. They do. It's just that they don't come out very often in front of straight people. They keep to themselves Similarly unconventional dating is very rarely discussed. Indian marriages focus a lot on game B. I might get told by my parents to marry a guy who is sort of boring in bed. But I would still marry him because of wanting to fulfill family responsibilities and obligations. Over time even if I'm not sexy to him or he is not sexy or attractive to me, I might still develop intimacy for him through communication and living together. My grandparents had that. Even some Jewish communities have this style of dating where they pick a random partner and make their marriage work. There is no dating involved, they don't even know each other Some Muslim families also have this. In my country there are variant patterns of dating. To defy social norms, we have what we call love marriages which is not similar to pickup but a lot similar to 18th century courtship dating. This where both are introduced and find a way to get along and eventually fall in love and marry. This style is either outdated or not practiced conventionally in the Western world. But you still have examples of unconventional dating in Western couples where they might not enjoy sexual chemistry but are still together by a shared goal. There is less emphasis on attraction and sex and more on emotional connections. For example falling in love with a cancer patient. Maybe they are in hospital and sex is rare or not available for medical reasons, but they are together because they share common things and love each other. Game B that Leo talks about is basicially tourquise ( or maybe yellow) daiting. Tourquise people basically doesn't exsist so it's kind of useless to debate how to create such relationships... Especially if we ourselves is not even there yet. That said, how to do green/yellow dating is an interesting discussion. I believe the most important thing for such relationships is understanding the other person and working on the problems that both have collectively and individually. Understanding and listing to the other partner is crucial, otherwise the misunderstanding will grow and come out In ugly ways. Otherwise, it will be hard to reach the deepest forms of intimacy and the relationship will fail sooner or later. Furthermore, I believe continuing having regular sex throughout the relationship is important and also counterintuitively having an dynamic where both parties are allowed autonomy, space and alone time. I see. There is still an interesting paradox linked with this type of dating, which Leo mentioned: if you are so concious that you don't need anything anymore, why would you be in a relationship? What would be the reason? Being forced into monogamy is one thing, but choosing partner even if you don't need anything is kind of tricky. What would be the higher conciousness values?

@SS10 I asked first. Realized later but I am not sure about him so I left it there. And also offered apology in case I was wrong. All together.

And people here were calling this guy gay. ROFL. Listen. He did it. He did it mama

Good job. You are not gay. I knew it. Don't listen to others here. Congrats on the job. Well done. Happy for you

Indian marriages focus a lot on game B. I might get told by my parents to marry a guy who is sort of boring in bed. But I would still marry him because of wanting to fulfill family responsibilities and obligations. Over time even if I'm not sexy to him or he is not sexy or attractive to me, I might still develop intimacy for him through communication and living together. My grandparents had that. Even some Jewish communities have this style of dating where they pick a random partner and make their marriage work. There is no dating involved, they don't even know each other Some Muslim families also have this. In my country there are variant patterns of dating. To defy social norms, we have what we call love marriages which is not similar to pickup but a lot similar to 18th century courtship dating. This where both are introduced and find a way to get along and eventually fall in love and marry. This style is either outdated or not practiced conventionally in the Western world. But you still have examples of unconventional dating in Western couples where they might not enjoy sexual chemistry but are still together by a shared goal. There is less emphasis on attraction and sex and more on emotional connections. For example falling in love with a cancer patient. Maybe they are in hospital and sex is rare or not available for medical reasons, but they are together because they share common things and love each other.

@Peter Miklis it is practised. It's similar to stage Green dating.. It's not just not talked about very often in regular circles because it's not conventional It's like gay people don't exist. They do. It's just that they don't come out very often in front of straight people. They keep to themselves Similarly unconventional dating is very rarely discussed.

@Michael569 Please remove the following troll. Link of his thread posted. @Natasha @Forestluv Thanks for removing the troll.

@Leo Gura then why you said you aren't eligible? Oops maybe you don't want to disclose it. Sorry about that. I don't infringe on others privacy. Sorry for the question.

We are here to discuss strategies and methods and concepts. So please don't derail the thread by debating about Game A and then trying to pit it against Game B. This is not a competition of who wins, A or B. It's just an alternative style of dating. So please be respectful of that. Both have slight differences in perspectives Don't enmesh this thread with Game A.. You got lots of pickup threads for your regular dating discussions.

Ahh Gotcha.. Trumpists lol..

Lmao what??? Trump = bad boy?? Since when. He is a stereotypical nice guy with a ton of skeletons in his closet. How is he honest and authentic? I can't believe you think that he is authentic. He is the last person on my list of authentic people. And Clinton too.. Trump is the good kid, the golden child who didn't rebel but exactly what his parents wanted, made money, grew his business, made his Daddy proud, like typical nice guys, bought popularity to his family. He did exactly what nice guys always do. Ditto. He married a nice woman, she raised his children, he maintained the persona of a nice man in the media, cheated behind his wife's back when she had three kids with him, gave her a large alimony and then bickered about it later, cheated on his second wife who he had gotten by cheating on the first one, was an emotional abuser throughout the relationship (read about Marla Maples) and then immediately dumped her (she cheated on him but he would always justify his own cheating) and later married Melania and cheated on her while she was pregnant with Baron, their first child, cheated throughout the year with playboy bunny (watch her interview on CNN) and made that woman feel special by manipulating her (she even thought he will make her wife but he discarded her like trash after all the manipulation was done and all the pleasure had) and then continued to maintain this facade that he loves Melania truly, also cheated on her with Stormy Daniels and a host of other women. Trump is the slickest smartest nice guy and probably the best ever example of the manipulative fake fake nice guy. He is a textbook nice guy that's why he won over America because Americans are too gullible to buy into his nice guy image. He doesn't wear tattoos or gang signs. He holds the Bible. Nice guy right??? He holds the Bible meanwhile saying "grab them by the pussy".... Typical nice guy who says one thing but means another. Trump is a total con artist hypocrite and his whole life was based on the golden boy nice guy image that he milked to get what he wanted, wealth and fame and success and women, many women heartbroken by his mind games and lies, many investors cheated and defrauded by his egregious claims and fancy generous nice guy persona. He is very sweet in relationships. He doesn't say hurtful things, like typical nice guys. But he hurts them behind their backs by his actions that don't match his words. Trump is the nice guy with the success, with the mansion with the status, the huge family, the opulence and no love or trust. The Golden Cage I was talking about in my post, big house but no heart. Trump did not come from a gangland or hood. He came from wealth, silver spoon in his mouth, rotten golden child of the family who perfected the craft of fooling millions. He cannot handle truth because he is fake as hell. He takes a few half truths and then he uses them to look honest in front of people. That's a nice guy act that you fell for. Clinton is also dishonest but she is openly dishonest, everyone can see that she is lying, but Trump is good at masking his lies. He has a cult leader personality. Cult leaders are your stereotypical nice guys. In fact they are your golden guys, because nobody thinks they can go wrong. Watch episodes by Mary Trump on YouTube and read her book. She exposes the real Trump. That's what I meant by skeletons. Nice guys always have skeletons in their closet that only few people know who are close to them. Trump is the kind of guy who will whisper to you "you're the most beautiful girl, the best girl, nobody like you, I love so much and I will never hurt you" and next night he is saying the same thing to another girl in the bed and you come to know about it when you see him at a party with her and you get the shock of your life. That's typical nice guy behavior. You want that? You want a man who is sweet, nice and polite to you and then stabs you in the back on the way out?? Because that's what nice guys do Bad boys come from trauma environments and poverty. They struggle to survive because they don't know how to fool people. They don't have fake degrees like Trump or rich parents. They do wrong things like robbing and stealing to survive. But they don't lie about it. They tell the truth about whatever wrong things they do. They are just desperate for survival because the world is designed to help the rich become richer and the poor people become poorer So Bad boys do whatever they can to survive like selling drugs. They become part of gangs because that is their only protection in poverty. Law enforcement favor the rich over the poor. They will not put Donald Trump in jail because he is mega rich but they Will beat up and throw a poor man for selling 10 grams of Marijuana. You don't realize the depth of my post. It focuses on being an honest man and why honesty needs to be rewarded by women If you place Trump alongside a bad boy hooligan, most women will choose to marry Trump instead of the bad boy because they prefer the wealth and status of Trump over his heart. That's why Melania Trump never divorced Trump even if he cheated on her million times. Because she can't afford to lose the power that comes with it. Same goes for Hilary Clinton. She didn't divorce Bill even if he publicly cheated on her because well - he was the President haha, she can't divorce what she ultimately wanted - dirty power These are all fake people. That's why they are politicians. Don't regard them highly. Lots of bad boys stuck in desperation who have the potential to lead Better lives by leaving bad habits and if they are given opportunities.

@Origins can you be a bit blunt and a bit specific?, I'm not good with metaphorical and figurative language Just wanted a clearer elaborate explanation of your point.

@Hulia my parents didn't like my friendship with him. So I had to cut it He always reminded me of this song by Chris Brown. I mean Chris Brown has the reputation of a troublemaker because he constantly went to jail and beat up his gf. He wasn't the beater type though. I mean there are bad boys who are seemingly nice and won't cross lines. And they can be respectful. It's only a few habits that make them look bad.. A bad boy who is honest, confident and truthful and genuine/sincere has a higher place in developing high consciousness along the way because he is started out authentically.. A nice guy will always hide behind a lie, put on a show like Donald Trump, never face his inner demons, his spiritual growth will be fake and a show off, will be a great cult leader material but he is not Authentic in his growth, so he will never actually grow, just fake it, fake fake fake fake..