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To be frank I'm so weird sexually. Haha.

Oh wow J Lo rocks. They took a nice shot of her butt. Nice butt though.

Nice Hindi song

Love this.

This Indian singer is so cool. Totally into this.. Chris brown stuff Beetch you weren't loyal to any of the women in your life and you have the nerve to question your girlfriend's loyalty. Typical asshole. And my favorite Enrique

Alot of good points where made, but i think this part needs to be addressed. The spiritual sex domain is amazing, do not settle for low quality sex If he really values emotional connection then he values high quality sex. It needs to be made clear to him that what hes doing is a mistake and it does not match your needs. Set rules to have sex minimum once a week and make sure he knows exactly what you want in bed and that he needs to perform, no laziness. Growing into green relationships like you have is great, now time to explore all aspects of it, the spiritual sex domain in next, its alot of fun and will accelerate development. Maybe make a separate thread about it, alot of people here are knowledgeable on the subject. Edited 48 minutes ago by integral

Imagine if your child never fought back or talked back at you. You might wonder if they have Stockholm Syndrome.

@Jacob Morres sorry no gender wars here.. And remember it always takes two people to be in an argument. It's unfair to put all the blame squarely on one person. Easy to blame me for everything I assume.

Totally totally agree. I wish women were given more space on this forum. Then we could be more open about what we want. It feels like a woman's perspective is constantly heckled at.

@LastThursday you never know too much about Reproduction.. Jesus was a Virgin birth for instance A baby could be floating in a basket somewhere like Moses. Who knows where it came from, if it even came from a womb or by the magic of the universe.

Yea will definitely look forward to tantra with him.

Actually @Gesundheit is right about it. It's how your brain is trained It's the kind of porn you watch. If you were fed Japanese porn everyday you will suddenly start getting attracted to Japanese women. But that's what the brain was fed with. Years of evolutionary processing and mating has trained and wired the brain to like big tits.. But this wiring can be replaced although it's hardened with time. But it can be changed. You can be induced to like or dislike anything in this world by simply feeding your brain and autosuggestion.. My brain has been trained to only find tall guys attractive. This is culture conditioning because everywhere I see a couple with a tall man and short girl. But If I'm constantly bombarded with a culture that assumes that shorter men are sexy, one day I will get used to it and start liking it. The example is in front of your eyes. In the 1920s people used to think that a big butt is socially unacceptable or gross. Girls with big butt very easily considered ugly. But see today at the trend. Girls like Kim Kardashian are famous for their large butt. The culture has shifted to like large butts. So now women want to have large butts because now that has become more attractive. The same thing goes for black dudes In 1920s a black dude would be considered unattractive because of racist theory surrounding black people. Today black dudes are one of the most sought after in the attraction game. Look at how many models of any race want to fuck a black dude. Kim Kardashian married a black dude. Would have been impossible in the 1920s. Attraction is a brain game, like porn and video game. It is inherently meaningless. You can be attracted to anything once you get culturally and socially trained for it. There are no set rules. You can also unwind or lose your current attraction. How? Through trauma and experience. For example If you always dated a woman with big tits but every time she cheated on you and you got hurt, eventually you will stop looking at girls with big tits because all those girls will remind you of your ex girlfriends. You might even begin to hate big tits out of a reflex. Then you will turn your attention to small tits in the hopes of looking for luck there. The human brain is subject to continuous change. This includes anything including dating. If you didn't like Japanese food but you were force fed Japanese diet for years in a prison, you will start liking Japanese food. And stop complaining about it. In essence the human brain gets used to any survival thing present in the environment and starts accepting what is given to it.

I don't wish to make an enemy out of survival. Just stating that alternatives also exist and can be explored by those interested.

In truth there is happiness and in happiness there is truth.

If you were already stage yellow, you wouldn't have a problem in processing Green.. People go to stage yellow only after successfully integrating and processing Green. Green is already fused and included in Yellow. Growth is not something you just bypass.

Yep absolutely. That's why I used the term unconventional.

Yes I believe this.

But it's not conventional. The point is that it can be anything. Also situations where the attraction is not quite strong but the couple is happy for many different reasons. For example I don't find my current boyfriend very attractive. I'm not attracted to him. But I like the fact that we both meditate and learn together. It keeps us bonded our shared goals of spirituality.

@integral hey thank you so much. I didn't know those videos even existed. Thank you for adding to this thread. If you have more Resources, then I would be very very glad if you shared them on this thread. Very little information is available on this subject.. So i would really appreciate.

@Dunnel thank you dear.

26 minutes ago, RendHeaven said: Ok so basically, "let's ignore the man's survival and talk about the woman's survival." I guess that's only fair after all the man-bias in the past few days/weeks/months/years lol I think the whole idea of it is to never focus on survival to begin with. It's an unconventional dating pattern where any kind of combination is possible, any kind of relationship dynamic possible outside of the regular dating norm based on attraction. So it neither fulfills the man's survival agenda nor the woman's.. Because couples who are into these types ditch the whole survival thing and want a relationship exclusively for connection and intimacy outside of attraction, or simply partnership/companionship. For example a couple that don't find the other attractive in the standard sense, but love hanging out and doing drugs or meditation together. It's how they bond and both could be incredibly boring in standard dating terms but they love each other's company because there is something that binds them together for example a common activity or emotion... I might offer you another scenario to ponder on. Lets say a young woman visits a psychologist who is 75 years old. At first there is nothing attractive about him to her because he is out of her league in terms of attraction. But they grow closer everyday since he helps her heal. She eventually loves spending more time with him and they begin to explore common interests. In the regular dating game he would get rejected by such a woman very fast. But here unusual circumstances have isolated and brought them together. Now she is still not sexually attracted to him. But they decide to have sex. It's kinda average quality sex. But she is happy with the nature of the relationship because both have learned to tame down expectations in need for mutual company. Over time their connection only grows stronger and lasts longer. The key criteria here is that both have found happiness with each other in unusual ways and they fulfill each other through emotional ways rather than physical. Of course their relationship can easily take any turn, they could get more sexual over time and might even develop attraction for each other after spending a lot of time together. The brain can develop in different directions. I might not like coffee today but I might start liking coffee tomorrow. I've myself observed this. I had a long time attraction to more healthier body building types of males. I had zero attraction for skinny men. And now after exploring my own sexuality in great depth, I have suddenly sparkled a huge attraction for skinny males. I think sexuality, attraction, emotionality, relationship, connection is not a one stop destination but a constant fluid state of flux or flow. Today I might be heterosexual. Tomorrow I might be bisexual. Today I might like tall guys. Tomorrow I might like short guys. With game B Dating, I want be open minded and explore all sorts of possibilities for relationships and dating and I don't want to restrict dating and attraction to one pattern. There was a time in human history when people said that a relationship can only exist between a man and a woman. Anything else was considered impossible or unhealthy. Today a man can be in a relationship with another man. They can kiss each other. So the point I want to drive forward is that anything is possible outside the conventional norms. It doesn't always has to be the regular dating style. It could be anything that the couple want for each other as long as they are happy together. I call it Stage Green Dating or Game B.

I think the whole idea of it is to never focus on survival to begin with. It's an unconventional dating pattern where any kind of combination is possible, any kind of relationship dynamic possible outside of the regular dating norm based on attraction. So it neither fulfills the man's survival agenda nor the woman's.. Because couples who are into these types ditch the whole survival thing and want a relationship exclusively for connection and intimacy outside of attraction, or simply partnership/companionship. For example a couple that don't find the other attractive in the standard sense, but love hanging out and doing drugs or meditation together. It's how they bond and both could be incredibly boring in standard dating terms but they love each other's company because there is something that binds them together for example a common activity or emotion... I might offer you another scenario to ponder on. Lets say a young woman visits a psychologist who is 75 years old. At first there is nothing attractive about him to her because he is out of her league in terms of attraction. But they grow closer everyday since he helps her heal. She eventually loves spending more time with him and they begin to explore common interests. In the regular dating game he would get rejected by such a woman very fast. But here unusual circumstances have isolated and brought them together. Now she is still not sexually attracted to him. But they decide to have sex. It's kinda average quality sex. But she is happy with the nature of the relationship because both have learned to tame down expectations in need for mutual company. Over time their connection only grows stronger and lasts longer. The key criteria here is that both have found happiness with each other in unusual ways and they fulfill each other through emotional ways rather than physical. Of course their relationship can easily take any turn, they could get more sexual over time and might even develop attraction for each other after spending a lot of time together. The brain can develop in different directions. I might not like coffee today but I might start liking coffee tomorrow. I've myself observed this. I had a long time attraction to more healthier body building types of males. I had zero attraction for skinny men. And now after exploring my own sexuality in great depth, I have suddenly sparkled a huge attraction for skinny males. I think sexuality, attraction, emotionality, relationship, connection is not a one stop destination but a constant fluid state of flux or flow. Today I might be heterosexual. Tomorrow I might be bisexual. Today I might like tall guys. Tomorrow I might like short guys. With game B Dating, I want be open minded and explore all sorts of possibilities for relationships and dating and I don't want to restrict dating and attraction to one pattern. There was a time in human history when people said that a relationship can only exist between a man and a woman. Anything else was considered impossible or unhealthy. Today a man can be in a relationship with another man. They can kiss each other. So the point I want to drive forward is that anything is possible outside the conventional norms. It doesn't always has to be the regular dating style. It could be anything that the couple want for each other as long as they are happy together. I call it Stage Green Dating or Game B.

From now on I will focus exclusively on bad boys for my erotica book. It suits my fantasy better. Not in real life. In real life I've a boyfriend. In real life I don't want anything except him. But all of this fantasy writing is material for my erotica book.

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