Preety_India

My brain is just not feeling right. I'm making lots of typos. I am just so depressed over this whole thing Every time I deal with people, I get treated like shit, even when I'm gentle with them The heck is wrong I'm so done with people in general. It's too selfish. People are way more selfish than my estimate. I always tend to underestimate how bad people can get. I always automatically assume best intentions

Is there a counter intuitive way to deal with this?

Learn to differentiate between normal mechanisms and coping mechanisms.

I also feel like I should do some sort of reverse rewarding. Where I should pamper myself a bit and get around doing stuff and do things that I like or enjoy and allow that to reward myself especially when situations are challenging, tiresome and bad. This sounds counterintuitive though. Because we generally reward ourselves when we achieve something. But this time you need to reward yourself when you are suffering or feeling abandoned or distressed This is a way of teaching the Devil a lesson and giving the Devil a big FUCK YOU.

I'm a hyper sensitive person. I just want to relax, feel happy about myself, listen to some music and forget the situation that happened yesterday. I'm taking comfort in music currently. Done dealing with dick heads

Realize that people are brutal. Don't assume best intentions right away. Once a person starts acting badly, don't give them too much leverage. Don't excuse their behavior. Just block them straight up. Preety_India Topic Starter Preety_India Member 16,712 posts Posted just now · Try to elevate your own importance. You are here to live in this world and help genuine people and not be a doormat to fake people. Focus on "zero drama, zero headache" positive people who know how to handle conflicts, have maturity and know how to deal with disagreements. Make it like a business contract and don't put up with shitty behavior by drawing firm boundaries and letting them know that you would block them if they did that kind of shit.

Try to elevate your own importance. You are here to live in this world and help genuine people and not be a doormat to fake people. Focus on "zero drama, zero headache" positive people who know how to handle conflicts, have maturity and know how to deal with disagreements. Make it like a business contract and don't put up with shitty behavior by drawing firm boundaries and letting them know that you would block them if they did that kind of shit.

Is this a coincidence that I try to block 2 people the same day and both turn out to be similar. Be with people who don't give you a headache.

Nobody will treat me fairly. I feel betrayed.

@Loba I don't wish to talk to you. Never mention me again. I'm putting you on ignore.

Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

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Just remember this. Nobody is ever going to be treating me nicely . That's all.