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Committment is inherent in love otherwise its a non committal casual relationship. Call a spade a spade!

I was going to talk about Social media craze Getting Likes on social media and how much I hate it Validation generation...... Toxic!! Why I hate social media? Benefits of Social media technology. Gives access to remote people and far away distant cultures. Great for cultural Absorption. Narcissism and social media Whats up with followers and following? Does it really matter? Why social media sucks? I'm do not fit in social media culture

Remember. Don't double text.

I find this very very informative when it comes to texting etiquette. Should pin this. I'm a 22 year old female, I was exchanging a few messages back and forth with this guy. the convo was going very well and flirty and sexual and then this morning I saw he read my message about 2 hours ago and hasn't respond? should I double text or just leave it? what's more attractive Elevated Just leave it. Let him come to you. Maybe he's busy, or there could be a multitude of other reasons. Double texting him will just make you look like you want him more than he wants you. If he still hasn't text you back in a couple days, maybe consider giving him a text like a meme or something like that. Something that just offers value, "here check out this cool thing," rather than, "hi...please talk to me..." If he still doesn't reply at that point, just move on. egoeimai No, don't text again. Some people don't deserve your attention. intotheblack No don’t text him again. datamonster @iceprincess relax not a big deal kras On 28/03/2021 at 1:21 AM, Elevated said: Just leave it. Let him come to you. Maybe he's busy, or there could be a multitude of other reasons. Double texting him will just make you look like you want him more than he wants you. If he still hasn't text you back in a couple days, maybe consider giving him a text like a meme or something like that. Something that just offers value, "here check out this cool thing," rather than, "hi...please talk to me..." If he still doesn't reply at that point, just move on. To act like nothing has happend is stupid. He has seen his messages and didnt reply. That is disrespectful Elevated @kras Maybe he's busy, maybe he got distracted and forgot. It's only been 2 hours. I think it's extremely unreasonable to assume that someone should text you back immediately no matter what. People have lives that do not revolve around answering every text. Username Write if you have something worth writing. Pushing someone to react isn't attractive. It doesn't matter what you do as long as your are not needy / unconscious at the moment. Arcangelo He's got game. You are in the presence of a player. Look at the emotional buttons he has already pushed on you. Enough to make a thread about it. He will reply in 4-5 hours. Emerald As someone who is not a phone person, maybe it's the same for him. Just wait for him to text back. If he hasn't in a few days, maybe send a follow-up message. RareGodzilla @iceprincess I often look at a message and don't respond because I'm distracted by whatever. It doesn't even have that much to do with interest. ---------------------------------------- I'll go with a combination of the above responses ? No, don't text him back, he doesn't deserve your attention if he cannot respond to it ? He could be busy. Benefit of the doubt, but nobody is too busy . ? 2 hours is a short time. I have sometimes waited for 2-3 days. Because sometimes life can be so full. You never know. Try to get to know their lifestyle. ?Some people are overwhelmed by texting. They find it tiring to keep responding. They feel like keeping the other person on hold for some time till they feel sorted out in their head. ?Distraction in social media age is so common and the common culprit behind lack of responsiveness. You can still wait. Doesn't necessarily mean he lost interest. ? Maybe texting is not that great for him. Maybe he gets bored with it. Texting is work. ?Like the user said above, he already seems to have great emotional control on you. It's not even started yet. You sure you want this level of influence. Could lead to unhealthy attachments quickly. ? This - - > Write if you have something worth writing. Pushing someone to react isn't attractive. Don't send a trivial text. Will make you feel cheaper in his eyes. Send something worth writing and worth reading. Men are kinda objective creatures. They get miffed if they see something that doesn't provide value or doesn't resonate. They don't want read airy fairy stuff Don't send impulsive text messages. ? Maybe he forgot? It's only 2 hours. Time is too limited to come to any conclusion. Unreasonable to think that he should text right back ? Has he done this too many times before? This could be probably their habit. I was like this with my second ex. Too lazy to text. Too late to respond. Bad habit. ? Relax, maybe it's not a big thing. Does he show interest in other ways? In what ways? ?If it's 24 hours and if he doesn't text back,then send some random emoji just as a reminder that someone is waiting ? Use a code word for both. I used the code word "hmm" to express my displeasure if I didn't receive a text back. He would use the same code word if he didn't receive a reply from me. ?Set mutually agreed upon rules and timings of communication beforehand regarding texting and responding. This clears up many potential doubts and frustrations.

Aww thank you guy.

Do you find sex bogus? I find sex without commitment bogus.

I'll go with a combination of the above responses ? No, don't text him back, he doesn't deserve your attention if he cannot respond to it ? He could be busy. Benefit of the doubt, but nobody is too busy . ? 2 hours is a short time. I have sometimes waited for 2-3 days. Because sometimes life can be so full. You never know. Try to get to know their lifestyle. ?Some people are overwhelmed by texting. They find it tiring to keep responding. They feel like keeping the other person on hold for some time till they feel sorted out in their head. ?Distraction in social media age is so common and the common culprit behind lack of responsiveness. You can still wait. Doesn't necessarily mean he lost interest. ? Maybe texting is not that great for him. Maybe he gets bored with it. Texting is work. ?Like the user said above, he already seems to have great emotional control on you. It's not even started yet. You sure you want this level of influence. Could lead to unhealthy attachments quickly. ? This - - > Write if you have something worth writing. Pushing someone to react isn't attractive. Don't send a trivial text. Will make you feel cheaper in his eyes. Send something worth writing and worth reading. Men are kinda objective creatures. They get miffed if they see something that doesn't provide value or doesn't resonate. They don't want read airy fairy stuff Don't send impulsive text messages. ? Maybe he forgot? It's only 2 hours. Time is too limited to come to any conclusion. Unreasonable to think that he should text right back ? Has he done this too many times before? This could be probably their habit. I was like this with my second ex. Too lazy to text. Too late to respond. Bad habit. ? Relax, maybe it's not a big thing. Does he show interest in other ways? In what ways? ?If it's 24 hours and if he doesn't text back,then send some random emoji just as a reminder that someone is waiting ? Use a code word for both. I used the code word "hmm" to express my displeasure if I didn't receive a text back. He would use the same code word if he didn't receive a reply from me. ?Set mutually agreed upon rules and timings of communication beforehand regarding texting and responding. This clears up many potential doubts and frustrations.

Since I'm a weak woman, I have a submissive nature, meek personality, shy introverted I always need a father figure or bad boy disciplinarian strong man to handle me. He will have to be tough with me in order for me to snap out of my laziness and weakness.

I usually get attracted to the hero leader knight in shining Armour Viking Caveman type of men and their Dom energy. My ex boyfriend Joseph was a Norwegian. He had that Viking type of energy. Very attractive to me. But I don't want asshole

I need stage Red guy with a golden heart at stage Green That is He energy and vibe should be stage Red. But his heart should be stage Green (aka bad boy with a golden heart)

My matches (test kit) for potential partner ? Mentality match ? Romantic match ? Sexual match ? Physical match ? Age match ? Attitude match ? Stage Red Qualities ? Vibe Match or Energy Match ? Dom Personality /Father Figure type ? Zodiac sexual attraction ? Zodiac compatibility ? Character match ?Heart and intent match ?Respect match ?Maturity, mental age match ?Intellectual match ? Chemistry match ? Life purpose match.(not necessary)

How should I find a compatible boyfriend/partner and what should I look for in him? ? Mentality match ? Romantic match ? Sexual match ? Physical match ? Age match ? Attitude match ? Stage Red Qualities ? Vibe Match or Energy Match ? Dom Personality /Father Figure type ? Zodiac sexual attraction ? Zodiac compatibility ? Character match ?Heart and intent match ?Respect match ?Maturity, mental age match ?Intellectual match ? Life purpose match.(not necessary)

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My mom is an extrovert. She cannot be alone in her own world. She needs to do everything like a group activity. We are as opposite of each other as we can be. Polar opposites. She would constantly interfere with my stuff and activities. I used to spend hours and hours doing my studies, doing my hobbies, doing my own stuff, almost in my own world, in my own head She used to ask me "dont you get tired of being alone? Don't you like to mix with people? Won't you like some friends?" And I would reply - I like doing things alone. I enjoy my own company. I don't like to be around people because it's tiring. But I feel better when I'm alone. And she would feel very confused that I was okay and happy being alone.

My Psychological profile ? Anxiety ? Depression ? Melancholia ? High introversion ? Nightmares ? Loneliness ? Hyper sensitive personality HSP ? Cluster B personality symptoms ? Borderline disorder tendencies ? Codependency ? Fragility ? Submissive behaviours ? Hyper curious, hyper vigilant ? Avoidant behavior ? Empath ? Vulnerability ? Brain disabilities ? Weird sexual fetishes ? Extreme attachments ? INTP, sub INFP personality ?Enneagram type 2 behavior ? Hyper emotional behavior ? Nervous personality ? Emotional distress syndrome ? Comfort eating ? Past history of epilepsy ? Balancing issues, prone to accidents ? Brain disorder ? Eating disorders ? Strong intuition ? Mentally disturbed very often ? Inner child related trauma ? Problems in dealing with people ? Constant suicidal ideation ? Lack of emotional control ? Inability to trust people ?

So I have a cluster of symptoms that become a part of this psychological disorder These symptoms are shared between and across the whole board of psychological conditions.. Psychological profile of my condition ? Anxiety ? Depression ? Melancholia ? High introversion ? Nightmares ? Loneliness ? Hyper sensitive personality HSP ? Cluster B personality symptoms ? Borderline disorder tendencies ? Codependency ? Fragility ? Submissive behaviours ? Hyper curious, hyper vigilant ? Avoidant behavior ? Empath ? Vulnerability ? Brain disabilities ? Weird sexual fetishes ? Extreme attachments ? INTP, sub INFP personality ?Enneagram type 2 behavior ? Hyper emotional behavior ? Nervous personality ? Emotional distress syndrome ? Comfort eating ? Past history of epilepsy ? Balancing issues, prone to accidents ? Brain disorder ? Eating disorders ? Strong intuition ? Mentally disturbed very often ? Inner child related trauma

I will have to label myself as a psychological disorder that needs healing. I will call my case PD 9 That is psychological disorder number 9 Since l have a set of different psychological conditions that contribute to my problems. This is my self diagnosis assessment.

Where do I go from here? I need to start with being positive.. One step at a time.

I wanted to write a poem to kinda say a big fuck you to those who were toxic to me in the past. My poem called Toxic Hearts Toxic hearts You've a toxic heart. You didn't mean shit You were who you were You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil But your heart is black You hurt, but don't realize But play victim, when it's your turn A hypocrite with no great value to offer Pigs of survival, dogs of meanness But your mask screams sensousness You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil You don't want drama, yet you're the reason why it happens You are the reason why hearts break, brains lose, bodies collapse You're the road to insanity, key to injury You don't care, but only pretend to, poison is better than you, because poison is real The devil looks at you with pity Because you suck at his job, You make the Devil look a Saint You create a monster out of a Saint You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil My words are not clean, but my words are true My heart is true, your heart is a ruse You are the night, I'm sunshine You're fake, I'm real You are a block of wood, I'm spirit You lack wisdom, I'm sleeping in pearls You think you know better, but time knows better than you You can outwit me, you can't outwit yourself You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil You got sparkly angel wings, I have nothing to boast My heart is simple and it's coarse I don't know the high language, you know a thing or two You break me down, build me up, then break me down Whats the deal, you act like a clown You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil Toxic hearts are no fun, they come and go and ruin every one You climb the moral high horse, clutch your pearls I don't have such luxuries nor the swirls You beat me at my game, but look around, everything is the same! You have a black heart, and a pink mask I have a pink heart, and a black mask You are the sky, I'm the rain I'm the golden egg, you're the vain What you do is nothing new, it's the same ship and the same old crew You boast of such goodies, while I sit empty and in pain When my tears will be ready, it will rain You taught me a thing or two, of manipulation and garbage Look before you leap, goes the adage You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil Toxic hearts are no fun, they ruin every one What do you know of heaven and earth You spout rubbish and believe your own dirt You turn it around on me, when you are the culprit I speak true, you're full of shit You make me a Saint when I'm a sinner Every Sinner is better, even if you're the Winner Toxic hearts are no fun, they ruin every one You know how to play games, you know how to roll the dice When I'm funny, you're warm, when I'm needy, you're cold as ice Fair weather friend lover is all you will ever be, Selfishness is your religion, what you want is all you will see When you don't need me, you recklessly abandon me When nobody needs you, you come to me Toxic hearts are no fun, they ruin every one You drain my energy, you drain my soul Have some pity on my sorry self, you stupid asshole Give me some love, oh wait, you have none I kept craving, you thought we were done You have nothing to give, really nothing to give You could care less, even if I couldn't live You are not the Snake, you are not evil, you are not the Devil Toxic hearts are no fun, they ruin every one

Why extroverts don't understand introverts. My mom had difficulty in understanding my introverted nature. There are many things here. I actually experienced the entire gamut of introverted emotions. Im an INTP. My introversion as a child was very high. Over time there was some reduction in my introverted behavior. And a huge credit goes to my ex Joseph. The only thing I can credit him for is working with my introversion in a slow patient manner. Although he was abusive later on, he was quite patient with my introversion Introverts are very hard to deal with. Because they close up so much. They are difficult to Crack open. They don't open up. As a result, they get misunderstood a lot. I am very much misunderstood by most people because I don't open up. At least not easily. I like to work with myself. I always used to as a child I enjoy solitude rather than working with people. I am quiet,reserved and usually keep to myself. On the forum I feel a bit free but as you can see I talk to very few people on a personal level. I rarely attend social events and I don't feel bad about it because I don't miss it. I also feel exhausted and drained around people. I tend to thrive more when I'm peaceful by my own self. My loneliness is because I have been introvert for too long. So sometimes I feel bored with myself. Also I lost a relationship where I was very close to a person.. (Joseph) Usually I never feel lonely. But being alone all my life is also not a good idea. So I decided that I should make friends and try to reduce my introversion. I remember as a child, my sibling would sit with me and ask me questions and I would not answer. I would not be able to answer. I wasn't avoiding the questions or feeling fear. There was no fear It's just that there was no way of opening up. It didn't feel like it I was just too reticent, too reserved I used to spend hours with myself and I used to enjoy that. Even in my classroom, I used to enjoy not talking to anyone. Others saw it as a problem. But at the time I never saw it as a problem. To me, being with myself was my whole world. I used to feel very happy being busy all alone by myself My mom is an extrovert. She cannot be alone in her own world. She needs to do everything like a group activity. We are as opposite of each other as we can be. Polar opposites. She would constantly interfere with my stuff and activities. I used to spend hours and hours doing my studies, doing my hobbies, doing my own stuff, almost in my own world, in my own head She used to ask me "dont you get tired of being alone? Don't you like to mix with people? Won't you like some friends?" And I would reply -

Journaling is a good way of dealing with introversion.

Dad, I miss you. RIP. You're gone but never forgotten.. Will fill this space later.

I'm kinda tired right now so I will write later. It's too much for me because I get very emotional while writing all this. I go out of control emotionally. It gets intense and heavy.

On top of all the disabling beautiful things I was born with (like it wasn't enough that I was born with these debilitating problems), then I was born with congenital issues, brain disorder, born premature, I was born in the 8th month of HER pregnancy, AND I was born horribly underweight and immediately sent to the intensive care unit. My doctors warned my mother that I was born weak and would need extra care and support. I hate that WOMAN. Because she gave birth to me in extreme carelessness and poverty and resented my not so ideal birth. She resented me for being born with defects and disabilities PATHETIC NARCISSISTIC ABUSIVE BITCH MOTHER FROM HELL. She bullied me relentlessly all my childhood. If I ever achieved something, she was never proud of it. Because for a horrible NARCISSIST BITCH WOMAN I JUST WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH NO MATTER WHAT. *SHADES OF MY EX JOSEPH. HE WAS EXACTLY LIKE HER, WORD TO WORD. HE WOULD BULLY ME JUST LIKE HER. BUT THANKS JOSEPH, BECAUSE OF YOU I UNDERSTOOD MY MOTHER A LITTLE BETTER. PSYCHOS WHO TRIED RUINING MY LIFE BUT NO MORE. BECAUSE I LEARNED TO FUCKING STAND UP.