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I just don't get this dude.

@tatsumaru I already made it clear to you. You just don't get it. So I withdraw from the discussion. No point.

@tatsumaru it's not discipline.its a desire. It is not a rigid thing the way you are trying to make it People talk about commitment because they have the desire to be with the person. They further solidify the bond by legalising it It is you who is getting it all mixed up You are mixing marriage with commitment. People marry and can still cheat. Committment is lost at that point.

I will always love you and I will always remember you

. I just love this It's so powerful.

@tatsumaru if by commitment you mean marriage, then you are wrong in your definition of commitment. That's called legalization of a bond. You maybe not be committed to a woman yet you may still be married to them.. Commitment is not an official thing. It's your mind 's readiness to stay committed to that person, that is wanting that person for an indefinite period of time. A solidification of the bond but not legalization.. When you are not committed it means you could leave that person even the next minute, you could choose to be with whoever you want, and leave the relationship without mutual consent. Committment means you let the world know that you are with that person and don't plan to be with anyone else at least for the time being.

A commitment is not an agreement. A commitment is wanting to be with that person. It can be without an agreement. It's wanting to be with that person.

Your love helps me grow everyday. Your love is pure, Sublime and without blemish. You can love me fearlessly, like no one else can. You contain me within you. You let me flow into and around you. You cherish my strengths and understand my flaws. You're teaching me what love really means..

You are nice guy. You came into my life. I'm grateful You inspire me to be my best version everyday. We are here to love each other and inspire each other.

When I'm gone, maybe some people will remember me..

@integral that doesn't count as love in my book. But maybe in yours. I haven't loved any man without commitment. If a relationship doesn't work out, that's a different situation. But I never entered a relationship by saying there's no commitment.. Often times what we are trying to convince others as some divine non committal pure love is simply manipulation to get sex. The desire of true love is too strong to resist. It creates a strong passion to be with the lover at any cost. Not being able to commit is just a weakness, a cop out and justifying it is cop out as well. You don't simply love someone in a human way and let them go their way and continue loving them. As ethereal as this seems, it is not so. It is just plain emotional detachment and dis-affectation. When you truly love someone, the desire to spend every minute with that person is strong that love becomes a disease, a madness, a scourge, no thirst, no hunger matches this yearning for the lover and for love to reach culmination through commitment. A love that never reached this level of fervor, madness and burning passion is simply not love but a lust. A lust that fades and fizzles with the first night of sex. But the eyes don't want to believe that it's lust. So the mind believes that it must be love. True love is like burning passion, it's monogamous, cannot live without the lover and wishes the completion of love through long term commitment for life Sorry this is the only kind of love I can speak of from experience.

Your love helps me grow everyday. Your love is pure, Sublime and without blemish. You can love me fearlessly, like no one else can. You contain me within you. You let me flow into and around you. You cherish my strengths and understand my flaws. You're teaching me what love really means..

Although I will never be able to meet you. I will always remember your love.. I will miss you.. I will remember that you loved me and still love me. I won't forget you.

You are nice guy. You came into my life. I'm grateful You inspire me to be my best version everyday. We are here to love each other and inspire each other.

I will always love you and I will always remember you

@Striving for more drinking a lot of water helps with those symptoms.

Drink water?

Sometimes I find N Sync and Backstreet boys songs kinda weirdly romantic Even Five. Nice boy bands. They are all kinda sexual. Kinda passionate.

Sometimes when I think of a man in terms of desirability, I'm bit confused as to which man is better. A good boy or a bad boy? Of course, I don't want an abusive asshole. The first one - bad boy. But there is a strong innate attraction to a cocky, demanding, persuasive, persistent, tough dominant, especially a strong sexual attraction. (The second one) On the other hand, a guy who is protective, leader type, not demanding, but caring, generous, patient, loving is also equally attractive. Here the attraction towards this kind of a man is more of the love heart type of emotional (less sexual) attraction. Both types of attraction are equally tempting. One is sexually tempting and emotionally stimulating. The other is emotionally tempting and sexually stimulating, meaning there is area for creating strong sexual chemistry. Both are paradoxical attractions. One is good for falling pregnant. And the other is good for husband material. Of course both are going to be good with sex (I might be lying though since option 1 sounds more sexually enticing) But the first option only looks good sex wise. It doesn't create long term love feelings. The second option looks like it's set for life and very happy and satisfying long term. Decisions are split between the heart and the pussy.