Preety_India

Even if someone is bad to you, remember that seasons always change. Nothing is fixed Tomorrow It's a new season. Tomorrow you meet new people as seasons roll (im crying right now. It's like an emotional thing. ) Those new people can bring new hopes, new friendships Yes of course betrayals hurt. Like a person who you trusted for a long time and they were so cool and friendly with you. And now they suddenly turn their backs on you and cut you off or make you the scapegoat or use your stuff against you, judge, they wanted to hear every bit of your life and personal stuff and then use it against you by judging you, hurting you, shaming you. That shit hurts more than anything. That sort of humiliation of trust.

Made a mistake again. But my last mistake in this journal section I still need to work on my trust skills. I tend to trust too much. Which is a weakness. I always believe that people have best intentions which backfires. To be honest this whole game is like Russian Roulette. And there is too much social gaming which I really don't like

@Raptorsin7 I saw you on my profile a few minutes ago. I thought maybe you wanted to talk. That's why I left the comment. That's all. Won't leave anymore comments.

@Raptorsin7 don't be rude please.

You can have a collaboration with Evan Carmichael. Although I'm not sure if he holds podcast. But he is a good listener and not an ideologue https://youtube.com/c/Evancarmichael He is also your fan. He made on you Leo. Check out

Jay Shetty https://youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvg His channel is about mindfulness and related spirituality concepts. The Ascend Podcast https://youtube.com/channel/UCnxTH9iOEljn8NQuP3hxzAw New age spiritual concepts Niles Heckman https://youtube.com/c/NilesHeckman Spirituality subjects Rich Roll podcast https://youtube.com/c/Richroll General topics related to self development

One way to cultivate Dragon Energy is to avoid the following behaviors when someone is either intentionally or unintentionally not willing to put the effort in understanding you or show you humility and compassion or not being on your plane of empathy needs, not being gentle enough with you :- Do not guilt yourself. Do not feel put down or discouraged Do not feel like you're wrong or not good enough Do not fault yourself or shame yourself or feeling of lack/unworthiness Do not be excessively curious about the other person's actions Do not seek their validation Do not go looking for a workaround. (maybe I can fix by apologizing or coddling ) Realize this ??? It's not your place, ground, obligation to look for a fix here. You're not in the wrong. That person is LACKING and not you. They are unable or ill equipped to handle you, in terms of compassion, empathy, understanding and this is absolutely NOT YOUR FAULT.

He really helps me.

Now there is a vital difference, that is, between perspective and perspective in relation to something, which is nothing but context. One way of showing empathy, resonance, understanding, compassion to the other person is to not only express your perspective generally speaking, I mean in a general sense, whereby you might disagree, but also empathizing with their perspective by correlating it with their situation, that is holding their perspective in context and then showing compassion to this perspective in context. This is pure non judgmental attitude. The last thing that a PTSD victim wants is shaming and judgement and dismissal whether it be related to their symptoms like crying, cutting, rage, whining, or be it their coping mechanisms like watching excessive TV, comfort eating, obsessive behavior, addictions, needy behavior.

Since I was diagnosed with PTSD recently, ill be documenting my journey on surviving and healing from it. PTSD is like a long term wound. Hopefully I'll make out of it The psychiatrist told me I would do fine with therapy and no medication would be needed.

As a PTSD sufferer, you're going to navigate the world in Self protection mode Whereby you scrutinize every word and every sentence such that you don't fall for bait and you successfully navigate and survive through the situation and environment.

The kind of people and traits required to deal with PTSD victims Competency Eligibility Qualifications Experience Protocol Expertise

Prostitutes are better? Low blow. Why aren't these threads locked?

April 27 Healing

April 23, 2021 Wisdom

April 27 H

You put it very beautifully. I'll call them 3 main ingredients.

Don't talk much to anyone, especially in this journal section. Learn

I should learn how to cultivate myself on my own without all the social drama.

Lately there was a lot going on, on this forum and so I wanted to stay out of the drama for good. I decided not to talk to anyone but my introversion causes some loneliness so it's not healthy. But I'm used to being shy and silent. Like I spent a whole decade in school not talking to anyone. That's a lot. Like a long time without talking. It kinda stunted me socially. Back then I wasn't really aware that I was such an introvert. I thought everyone was this way. It's only in college that I became more aware that others are very social and I'm too introverted in comparison. In recent years I made deliberate effort to sort of come out of this shell I had created around myself. Thanks to my ex boyfriend Joseph who put massive effort in cutting down my introversion and helping me open up gradually little by little everyday. So I came this far in the social scope.

Looking at some random Indian girls with sarees made me feel better. Haha. Who knew.

Phew...... Feels like relief after releasing the Dragon Energy.

@Shin You can't deny and you can't deny and you can't deny.... That a couple of years ago you used to roam the forum looking like this.. The Doge Days. Then came the black box screen days lol. You used to post that black box screen everywhere in your posts.

I see feral energy as something offensive. Like someone who easily gets offended, acts preachy, acts moralistic and saintly, they just cant be selfish oh they are so good and without blemish, stupid puny little ass, crying holy, take your rubbish, I don't need it. If you're offended where offense doesn't exist, meanwhile you're the one interested in riling up shit, then sorry you lost credibility in my eyes, you're the direct antithesis of what you preach. Not to mention what a hypocrite you must be to have the balls to preach others on what's superior. You're not trying to spread peace nor are you a victim in any way. You're simply insecure and entitled egomaniac who gets too offended when things don't go their way. And nobody needs to put up with your useless wild energy because when the real storm hits, you're the one who will first run for cover and throw everyone under the bus. You're neither a savior nor a warrior. You are just a lazy slob who wanted some fake power by feeding on real power. You wanted to throw in the act of someone on a crusade to change the world. You ain't changing shit. You can't even change yourself,much less change the world. You're neither feminine nor masculine. You're nothing. Because being either feminine or masculine in the real essence, both are equally challenging . To be at war is a challenge. To love is also a challenge. So what should be done with puny asses like you? Such people need to be tossed out and locked up and their energy controlled from destroying things. They need a massive dose of masculinity and dragon energy to shut them up and be put in their place Sometimes I feel this is what needs to be done to SJWs who go out of control and run riot all over and simply create problems for fun. This also brings to my mind the Capitol riots, unnecessary drama, riling up nonsense with body paint and costumes. These people aren't inspiration as they assume themselves to be, they are pure trash. And trash belongs where it rightfully belongs. In Hindu mythology it is believed that a lot of trash will take over in Kaliyug days, that is final days there will be too much trash around, we're already witnessing the death of civilization and the rise of trash culture. No surprise. The end is here. Focus on the opposite. If someone is rioting for human rights that's understandable. But it would be better if they don't create much fuss I see such people as revolutionaries. Often the lines between revolutionary and rioter are blurred. Rioters, the useless ones who riot about trivial nonsense represent useless feral energy whereas revolutionaries represent Dragon energy. This is how I see it. It takes a lot to fight for civil rights, to stand your ground in face of danger and demonization, to be an activist, to be a revolutionary. To be at outright war, is stage Red Dragon energy You simply kill, no mercy. To be a warrior or crusader or activist is stage Green Dragon energy. I sometimes think that the whole Spiral Dynamics ladder needs to be upside down or downside up Because we have become so passive (like a Saint ) as a civilization that we might need special injections of Stage Red or else another Corona will take us down. The whole turn the other cheek doesn't work in real life. In real life we need policing just the way we need policing on this forum (at least something of this forum matches with real life ; sigh) With too much stage Kumbaya, we can't protect other species, let alone our own.