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@Leo Gura I think it's give affection in the physical sense. I have given plenty of affection to my cats. Physically. However I never touched them in such spots where they would get aroused Touching the cat in that manner would be giving it sexual affection. Do you think it's okay to do that? Do you think we as humans should give sexual affection to our animals? What is the difference between showing sexual affection through rubbing and bestiality?

I think much of my problems I face in this place actually stem from this particular section. It's the nature of this place that causes you to be on edge. It shouldn't have to be this way, it's ironic, but this is my lot here as my lot in any other place in my life, but I'm not negative or sulking, I can always find my ways around it. There are always effective ways of dealing with this.. This is nothing. I've had to deal with much more complex problems in my life This is too tiny in comparison. So much of the dissonance is arising from this section, not to mention the dating section as well, it doesn't surprise me since these very sections reflect elements of social media in some sense. So that makes sense why the most negative energies are attracted to these specific places or zones on this site. Just yesterday people were talking about being banned. It sucks.. Because this is supposed to be a friendly and open place. Where our conversations need to be beneficial. In this regard, I will divide conversations into 4 types One that are beneficial in terms of information exchange no game no drama Second in terms of emotional or supportive exchange no game no drama Third being completely devoid of any Information or emotion , neutral. Fourth being completely devoid of both information and emotion, and full of game and drama and negativity The other Kind of conversations I can think of Conflict based conversations - this is more like me versus you, or my opinion versus your opinion or me counter arguing your thought with my view or thought. It doesnt really help a situation because both parties are too busy convincing the other party about their own views, there can be a certain degree of competitiveness involved in such conversations, however I'm going to say that such conversations can still enrich each party's knowledge. Advice based conversations - this is where the whole conflict is completely sidelined in favor of a direct solution to the situation, giving an alternative remedy or solution to either solve the problem or reduce its impact.. Carefully observe all the conversations you're having all the time.

Only focus on Leo and work https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/10347-preety_india Main forum Table So some of the key styles I want to focus on when it comes (im telling you I'm much excited right now because I just figured out certain things about this forum and that is bringing me new hopes, I hope my hopes don't get shattered because I have worked too hard here ) to writing are those that express thoughts and ideas in more succinct ways. One is aesthetic writing The other would be contemplative writing Poetic writing Emotive writing Verbose and expansive as well as descriptive writing Point based writing(I do this a lot ) Thought provoking writing. Investigative writing Complex writing Elegant writing Loaded writing

Going to invest some time into this.

I know I keep hopping from one interest to another. Right now my focus is on writing which has always been my life long passion.. Writing can be many styles for me I like bringing emotion through writing. I'm going to be focusing on developing key styles especially with the stories I write. I have a long way to go with the way I write and express myself. At present I possess only rudimentary skills. I plan on improving and doing better. Although writing has been my greatest passion, it has also been my lack. It's you like drawing but you can't draw. And I want to hone this skill as much as possible. I might get there at some point I also want to get better at social skills, social policy and social mannerisms and social tact. I suck at it horribly because of my life long social anxiety and never being able to talk to anyone and always remaining shy and silent in the corner inhibited my social skills very badly.

I did not understand the question. Does the user mean pairing the animal pet with another pet as in breeding to allow them to have a sex life and babies or does it mean something along the lines of bestiality or giving the animal sexual pleasure by a human? I'm totally confused. I can't imagine the latter, the former is perfectly fine and would be simply breeding.

Now follow simple steps. Click on browser tab Click on forum Click on journal section Get your journals Now click on the most recent journal and open in New tab. Or open Arsenal journal in New tab. You'll see the header links Open main forum in New tab. Direct access to main forum without bypassing journal section. Open profile in new page Direct access to tabular browsing in header link

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You mean an animal partner or a human partner? Animal partner is fine. Human partner is bestiality.

Only focus on Leo and work https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/10347-preety_india/ Main forum Table Following changes and improvements need to be enforced in all my future entries, posts and journal styles, basically most of my work here. Scholastic improvements (treat this place like a classroom) Scholastic improvements also include - improvements in key areas like art, literature/writing, work related improvements, implementation and practice, skill enhancing, mastery, learning related improvements Discipline while making a journal entry Remember if the social factory is going on then other factories are kinda shut down Educational improvements - in terms of educating myself on areas of intellectual expansion, life skills, self actualization, Mastery, health, emotional intelligence and maturity, life purpose, cultural improvement (what kind of culture do I embody as a person, like a personal culture, this will include massive integration, mindset change, mentality change, focus change, consciousness change ) in terms of gathering and collecting self help material sorting through random self help material, and then streamlining relevant material to my own goals.. Implementation improvements - this means registering actual improvements in my life in relation to all the mapping, planning, gathering and integration of relevant information.

Following changes and improvements need to be enforced in all my future entries, posts and journal styles, basically most of my work here. Scholastic improvements (treat this place like a classroom) Scholastic improvements also include - improvements in key areas like art, literature/writing, work related improvements, implementation and practice, skill enhancing, mastery, learning related improvements Discipline while making a journal entry Remember if the social factory is going on then other factories are kinda shut down Educational improvements - in terms of educating myself on areas of intellectual expansion, life skills, self actualization, Mastery, health, emotional intelligence and maturity, life purpose, cultural improvement (what kind of culture do I embody as a person, like a personal culture, this will include massive integration, mindset change, mentality change, focus change, consciousness change ) in terms of gathering and collecting self help material sorting through random self help material, and then streamlining relevant material to my own goals.. Implementation improvements - this means registering actual improvements in my life in relation to all the mapping, planning, gathering and integration of relevant information.

I also wanted to add my customized tumblr style border that I created (so Leo is always in front of my eyes lol ) to each one of my journal entries at least most of them, I feel better when I look at Leo, calming effect. Might even keep him as a desktop wallpaper. So I created this beautiful border that I can use in my journal posts. The aesthetic appearance of my journals is important to me, I put a lot of hard work into it. ... So here is an excellent idea. I can keep this border. (where did I even discover this border first, maybe in one of my old journals while browsing, browsing my journals itself is a heavy task ) So what I can do is place this border or header on top followed by my link just underneath. That would be an excellent way of accessing my profile directly. Like this https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/10347-preety_india/ This is a good way to start a post and keep it aesthetic. Write main objective on top before every entry. Main objective is this (thank you Leo) Only focus on Leo and work This will be the objective. So this is how every new entry must look. Only focus on Leo and work https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/10347-preety_india/

Main thing to do is to keep the profile link open. Here is the link to my profile https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/10347-preety_india/ My navigation and browsing becomes much easier if I have all the links in place.

Ok I have tweaked around a bit with all the features on my profile and learned how to use bookmarks. That's an excellent option. Simply click on the bookmarks and then look through those for bookmarked entries. This saves time

Click on the messenger box and then open it in New tab to and it leads to profile page. See how you can use bookmarks

Ok the only way around this is to keep most people on ignore (those that you don't wish to talk to ) And the other thing is to follow this procedure First click on your routine browser Then open the tab for journals Then sort through the journals Once you have your journals, keep this tab as it is. Open the most recent journal that you logged in and click on the signature. And open it in a new tab Now you have 3 tabs. The main forum tab. The sorted journal tab. The recent journal tab. Keep a profile tab open so you can always access your profile and messenger. This can be done by entering the most recent journal and simply clicking the picture and opening it in a new tab. Once you're on your profile, you get easy access to messenger Also keep messenger tab open You'll need to keep a couple of tabs open This is the only solution.

https://www.actualized.org/forum/forum/16-self-actualization-journals/

The other solution is to increase your self awareness and the awareness of your environment. Be quick and agile..

So I'm especially going to be focusing on the solution part. Solutions to this journal section. Solutions on how to exist here without letting all the feral drama impact you. One solution is to only talk to people who you have a resonance with and never engage in arguments with the rest. The other is to be able to hide the people that you don't wish to interact with.

Much of the things that I see around in this forum is not just about the critical aspects of it but also about how to navigate through it all, how to achieve Zen without being impacted by it.

I swear this journal section gives me a headache every time I'm here with all the drama and social games playing out here. It's just utter nonsense. Why can't people just let others simply be themselves. What's so hard? What's the fun in attacking someone's self esteem? It's like stay away from these people except a very few that I resonate with. Technology can correct this. If there was an option to only see your journal, like I know there's a customization option. It's really hard here. Surviving in the journal section is harder than surviving in the forum, all drama queens/Kings here. This section attracts the worst, if people are so tuned into their own self development then they would care less about others, they try to create this sort of competition that is simply unnecessary.

only focus on Leo and work https://www.actualized.org/forum/profile/10347-preety_india/ Main forum Table One golden rule of Dragon Energy is to never inhibit your self expression even in the event of suppression or feral energies You express how you want to be. You win.

Masculinity in a sexual sense is not dependent on how nice or not nice you are. In sexual sense, masculinity is about raw power, the ability to be sexually appealing, without being forceful (because that's criminal ), to be able to exude a raw sexiness through domination, the man who seems like he can take charge of literally anything like a king is very attractive to the feminine, this doesn't mean that the man has to be a bad guy, he doesn't, he can be a good guy, yet be very daring and assertive, his fearlessness, his lioness-ess is very attractive, his ability plays a main role here, character takes back seat, obviously if he acts like an asshole the relationship will eventually end, however attraction is a brain thing, it's not decided by the heart so character will only be a factor in the long term, but at first sight or at least sexually, a man who has this raw power, the ability to totally control her desires, the ability to get her without consent, without actually violating her consent, that is without using physical force, yet being able to assert such power as though he owns her through intense eye contact (eye contact being an important part of this game ), fulminating her whole place with his masculinity, almost leaving his scent everywhere having that attitude "I'll have you no matter what, " without actually using force, but by using seductive mental tricks, inserting himself in her mind all the time, almost invading her mind space, making her feel fragile and helpless (a state he would even replicate in bed by intensely owning her femininity and forcing himself through her body, obviously after consent, and showing his full power in owning her sexually ) and making her feel wanted at the same time by showing constant interest in wanting her, pursuing her intensely and making her beg for his domination and making her feel special and owned without hurting her or abusing, but by showing how much he wants is very appealing to a woman. However nice guys don't do this. They are nice but they lack sexual charisma and relationship is not just value matching Act but also highly sexual and so sexual chemistry is going to be a huge factor in determining everything, the nice guy might be fitting for a woman who comes with a laundry list, but not for a woman seeking natural attraction minus laundry list. She is going to be attracted only to the highly masculine male, this is not her fault, just like it's not a man's fault if he is attracted to a round ass. Being nice doesn't give you brownie points in the sexual department. For example when I recently had a conversation with a guy, we had a long non sexual conversation followed by him saying that he first checks if the girl will smile and the next thing he will check is her ass and he said it in such a manner, that I instantly felt attraction, I had to hold myself back because I didn't want him sexually, plus I didn't want to lose the friendship or make it awkward so I kept silent, however that comment he made was a very leading on, like a turn on, men who don't do that get friend zoned, so it's a beautiful dance of sexual chemistry but to perform this dance you need to have the right "sexual emotions" or the right sexual framework because if her body is not feeling charged by whatever you're saying to her then she is not going to feel sexual and your chances are over, it's a matter of learning this dance, creating this intense sexual chemistry where you don't have to force but create such tension in her body that she is unable to resist even if her mind says no, her body says yes, make her cut through her bullshit resistance, this intense conflict that she cannot handle between her head and the body and she gives in to this submission to your incessant pressure on her sexuality, you don't assault her physically (physical is crime ) but you assault her mentally, gaining full reign of her senses like a magician and she is left with no refuge but to simply let her body be taken by you by giving into your advances and letting you lead on, she will give signs (not online, online it's difficult to read signs but in reality where she would feel vulnerable and would not resist your presence and your touch, this can be tested with a kiss, slightly touching her face to see if she resists, if she doesn't than she is more than willing for you and lead her to the ultimate conquer -sex.) she will give signs, lots of them, she won't move away when you're near, she will respond to the eye contact by wanting it more, she will not show aggression but obedience, she will try to get your attention by being around you, a potent sign that the game is working.. To be able to create such intense tension, you have to be very connected with your natural masculinity. Nice guys are passive and generally lack such overt masculinity. This is not to say that masculine are not nice or don't possess virtues, they may or may not, its just that they are gifted in this sexual department where they are able to exude raw sexual appeal and prowess. This sexual power does not stop only to attracting and creating chemistry. That is only the starting point. The next point is sex. He has to be good at sex, amazing lover in bed, where he can make her moan a lot, make her want more, make her beg, because he is able to smoothly control her sexuality there. In the bedroom he can't afford to be passive at all. He will need to show intense interest in pleasuring her, not in a servant kind of way, but in an owner master kind of way, where he totally dominates her desire, makes her feel sexual play by play, move by move, by giving her intense sexual affection and winning her body, her sexual brain, feeling her body with oxytocin for him. All of this is brain related. These hyper sexual masculine men in tune with their natural sexual power are not necessarily assholes or bad men, they are just more viable in the sexual romance department. Love is a matter of both brain and the heart. He can win her emotionally but that would later in the relationship that's where his nice guy behavior can be useful. Unfortunately attraction is designed in such a way that sex comes first, heart comes later, this is natural sexuality, rule of law, this cannot be erased, attraction cannot be denied or destroyed, just like you can't say no to yummy food, you can't have much of a sense of self control with such matters. Both women and men who want passion need to be sexually attractive in their own ways and often in most sexual styles, the man has to lead first and the female submits to his leading. Without sexual passion there is little interest. Being a nice guy might work long term in relationships but not with attraction. The nice guy should not stop being nice. But he can be more in touch with his inner masculine sexuality and develop it more so he feels naturally sexual and learns some romantic tricks to get her sexual attention The only rule is this. If you get her sexual attention, you get a chance for sex as well as relationship. If you can't get her sexual attention, then you get friendzoned. Very simple. You make the move. If you have taken her sexual interest or attention then you have marched ahead of all the friend zone material guys to the top of the list and secured your position sexually in her mind, now she can't forget you. If she is not deeply sexually attracted to you, that is you did not exhibit your masculinity perfectly or did not own her, and she is still in a relationship with you, this relationship then lacks magnetism and is very dry, if she finds a more domineering male with sexual passion, she will easily get attracted to him and cheat on you. So sexual attraction is a very important part, not the most pleasant part, but an important part in securing and maintaining relationships.

Decided to journal this part of me finally self-actualization-journals

Masculinity in a sexual sense is not dependent on how nice or not nice you are. In sexual sense, masculinity is about raw power, the ability to be sexually appealing, without being forceful (because that's criminal ), to be able to exude a raw sexiness through domination, the man who seems like he can take charge of literally anything like a king is very attractive to the feminine, this doesn't mean that the man has to be a bad guy, he doesn't, he can be a good guy, yet be very daring and assertive, his fearlessness, his lioness-ess is very attractive, his ability plays a main role here, character takes back seat, obviously if he acts like an asshole the relationship will eventually end, however attraction is a brain thing, it's not decided by the heart so character will only be a factor in the long term, but at first sight or at least sexually, a man who has this raw power, the ability to totally control her desires, the ability to get her without consent, without actually violating her consent, that is without using physical force, yet being able to assert such power as though he owns her through intense eye contact (eye contact being an important part of this game ), fulminating her whole place with his masculinity, almost leaving his scent everywhere having that attitude "I'll have you no matter what, " without actually using force, but by using seductive mental tricks, inserting himself in her mind all the time, almost invading her mind space, making her feel fragile and helpless (a state he would even replicate in bed by intensely owning her femininity and forcing himself through her body, obviously after consent, and showing his full power in owning her sexually ) and making her feel wanted at the same time by showing constant interest in wanting her, pursuing her intensely and making her beg for his domination and making her feel special and owned without hurting her or abusing, but by showing how much he wants is very appealing to a woman. However nice guys don't do this. They are nice but they lack sexual charisma and relationship is not just value matching Act but also highly sexual and so sexual chemistry is going to be a huge factor in determining everything, the nice guy might be fitting for a woman who comes with a laundry list, but not for a woman seeking natural attraction minus laundry list. She is going to be attracted only to the highly masculine male, this is not her fault, just like it's not a man's fault if he is attracted to a round ass. Being nice doesn't give you brownie points in the sexual department. For example when I recently had a conversation with a guy, we had a long non sexual conversation followed by him saying that he first checks if the girl will smile and the next thing he will check is her ass and he said it in such a manner, that I instantly felt attraction, I had to hold myself back because I didn't want him sexually, plus I didn't want to lose the friendship or make it awkward so I kept silent, however that comment he made was a very leading on, like a turn on, men who don't do that get friend zoned, so it's a beautiful dance of sexual chemistry but to perform this dance you need to have the right "sexual emotions" or the right sexual framework because if her body is not feeling charged by whatever you're saying to her then she is not going to feel sexual and your chances are over, it's a matter of learning this dance, creating this intense sexual chemistry where you don't have to force but create such tension in her body that she is unable to resist even if her mind says no, her body says yes, make her cut through her bullshit resistance, this intense conflict that she cannot handle between her head and the body and she gives in to this submission to your incessant pressure on her sexuality, you don't assault her physically (physical is crime ) but you assault her mentally, gaining full reign of her senses like a magician and she is left with no refuge but to simply let her body be taken by you by giving into your advances and letting you lead on, she will give signs (not online, online it's difficult to read signs but in reality where she would feel vulnerable and would not resist your presence and your touch, this can be tested with a kiss, slightly touching her face to see if she resists, if she doesn't than she is more than willing for you and lead her to the ultimate conquer -sex.) she will give signs, lots of them, she won't move away when you're near, she will respond to the eye contact by wanting it more, she will not show aggression but obedience, she will try to get your attention by being around you, a potent sign that the game is working.. To be able to create such intense tension, you have to be very connected with your natural masculinity. Nice guys are passive and generally lack such overt masculinity. This is not to say that masculine are not nice or don't possess virtues, they may or may not, its just that they are gifted in this sexual department where they are able to exude raw sexual appeal and prowess. This sexual power does not stop only to attracting and creating chemistry. That is only the starting point. The next point is sex. He has to be good at sex, amazing lover in bed, where he can make her moan a lot, make her want more, make her beg, because he is able to smoothly control her sexuality there. In the bedroom he can't afford to be passive at all. He will need to show intense interest in pleasuring her, not in a servant kind of way, but in an owner master kind of way, where he totally dominates her desire, makes her feel sexual play by play, move by move, by giving her intense sexual affection and winning her body, her sexual brain, feeling her body with oxytocin for him. All of this is brain related. These hyper sexual masculine men in tune with their natural sexual power are not necessarily assholes or bad men, they are just more viable in the sexual romance department. Love is a matter of both brain and the heart. He can win her emotionally but that would later in the relationship that's where his nice guy behavior can be useful. Unfortunately attraction is designed in such a way that sex comes first, heart comes later, this is natural sexuality, rule of law, this cannot be erased, attraction cannot be denied or destroyed, just like you can't say no to yummy food, you can't have much of a sense of self control with such matters. Both women and men who want passion need to be sexually attractive in their own ways and often in most sexual styles, the man has to lead first and the female submits to his leading. Without sexual passion there is little interest. Being a nice guy might work long term in relationships but not with attraction. The nice guy should not stop being nice. But he can be more in touch with his inner masculine sexuality and develop it more so he feels naturally sexual and learns some romantic tricks to get her sexual attention The only rule is this. If you get her sexual attention, you get a chance for sex as well as relationship. If you can't get her sexual attention, then you get friendzoned. Very simple. You make the move. If you have taken her sexual interest or attention then you have marched ahead of all the friend zone material guys to the top of the list and secured your position sexually in her mind, now she can't forget you. If she is not deeply sexually attracted to you, that is you did not exhibit your masculinity perfectly or did not own her, and she is still in a relationship with you, this relationship then lacks magnetism and is very dry, if she finds a more domineering male with sexual passion, she will easily get attracted to him and cheat on you. So sexual attraction is a very important part, not the most pleasant part, but an important part in securing and maintaining relationships.