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Another beautiful comeback. Again, why are you so insecure that you begrudge treating women a bit better? Whatever you say, it always comes back to that. It's just pettiness. If you were secure you would not mind if women were treated a bit better. Ironically you've weaponized "equality" as an extension of your insecurity and smallness. When a secure person gets overcharged 5 cents, he lets it go. When an insecure person gets overcharged 5 cents, he starts a crusade for "fairness".

Your comebacks are just awesome today. Me hurriedly taking notes.

Love this reply from Leo. i-resonate-a-lot-with-jordan-petersons-take-on-feminism-what-am-i-missing You have to build a steelman of feminism in your mind before you attempt to deconstruct it. What is the genuine good intent behind feminism? What is the spirit of feminism? That's what you should contemplate deeply and grasp. Once you grasp that, then you can do some deconstruction and critique of its excesses, keeping in mind that nearly all social movements have excesses. If you don't like the excesses of feminism how about the excesses of toxic masculinity and patriarchy? Don't just conveniently forget about those. Make a distinction between criticizing feminism from below vs from above. The kind of stuff JP does is from below. He has not integrated it properly and is therefore reacting against his own shadow on behalf of his fan base. Basically, notice when you are reacting to shit like an animal, and stop it. ..... Thank you for this answer. It helps me understand meta construction and deconstruction. This should be an important aspect of shadow work. It also means being more nuanced which I generally lack. Like you explained in content versus structure meta thinking video.

don't be around mentally unhealthy people.. cuz everything is just bait and switch for them even if they ask for forgiveness, their delusions, projections, mania, psychosis, (the stuff that they blame all their behaviors and problems on ) are never going to change unless they do serious therapy and drugs and Clean up their act. till then don't get swayed by their bullshit apologies. their apologies are never sincere. It's again another part of their passive aggressive game. it's another bait.

Sorry to hear about that. Hope he gets better.

Although loneliness has always been a friend of mine I'm leavin' my life in your hands People say I'm crazy and that I am blind Risking it all in a glance And how you got me blind is still a mystery I can't get you out of my head Don't care what is written in your history As long as you're here with me I don't care who you are Where you're from What you did As long as you love me Who you are Where you're from Don't care what you did As long as you love me Every little thing that you have said and done Feels like it's deep within me Doesn't really matter if you're on the run It seems like we're meant to be I don't care who you are (who you are) Where you're from (where you're from) What you did As long as you love me (I don't know) Who you are (who you are) Where…

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Yesterday was a productive day but I was tired at the end of the day that I ended up sleeping over my desk. Woke up in pain because of that. Nevertheless, the above techniques worked for me. One theme or sentence that was running through my head early morning when I woke up was this 'i allow contentment, closure, fulfillment and satisfaction to flow back to me. " This sentence made a huge difference. Notice how when people attack you or are passive aggressive with you, they are trying to dissipate your central every, your internal locus is constantly being disturbed from its position.. Hold yourself together when people do this and keep calm. Keep repeating to yourself that you're content and you have closure, cut off the reactivity and remember your inner peace is more important, and if someone doesn't accept you, it's on them and not on you. You're not responsible for their lack of affection towards you. In every moment, you need to move towards empowerment. Only that is real love. (in my world there is very little encouragement, so I need to encourage myself )

Lots of love and hugs from this little teddy bear. Hope you do well and get over your blues. Alcohol won't help it. Please get some rest and I know homelessness can be rough, I've been there. The only thing you need now is comfort, good food and love. I hope your situation improves and you walk toward sunshine. Cheers. Keep up. Rooting for you

Do a lot of writing. Writing helps with releasing inner emotions and most difficult emotions..

Western culture.

Yea. Ancient India was a whole different ball game. Ain't no Buddha going to be born in today's india. India today (unfortunately ) is very different, much cheaper and shallower than ancient india. We are rapidly losing the roots, almost lost.

I'm still sitting and thinking of aaaak. Will add more here. I feel like I'm not getting sufficient visions about aaaak.

Scrubbing scrubbing and scrubbing. Scrubbing forever. When I look in the mirror, I still see a Devil.

Sadhus are more local and less popular, nonetheless can be just as wise as monks, rishis, munis, gurus etc. Any person who takes up a Hindu spiritual practice is a sadhu. But that doesn't mean they can't be exceptionally gifted, just that they don't have a huge reach because they are mostly local. It's like the most common denomination. For spirituality, I don't think you need education or reach. You have to be a true seeker, a gifted wise person. That in my mind is enough of a qualification. In India there is politics. Spirituality is deeply connected with politics just as religion is connected with politics in America. This makes things more ego based than purpose based. Some gurus are more popular than others because of political affiliation and not because they are true seekers. I would call them spiritual famewhores, especially the ones who are extremely preachy and act like "know it all. " I can't stand them. I would want someone who is more elegant and simple. Yogananda is definitely high on that list.

@Growly it's the most practical advice I could offer. I don't do any drugs. So I can't advice you on that. Sorry. ?

Thank you for this answer. It helps me understand meta construction and deconstruction. This should be an important aspect of shadow work. It also means being more nuanced which I generally lack. Like you explained in content versus structure meta thinking video.

Remove biases Grow yourself Self love Be gentle Do not have self limiting beliefs or worldviews Be open to possibilities Bury the past and carve out a future

If there is corruption in my heart, aaaak tells me to speak the truth. To not manipulate. He tells me to come with a clear heart. This is a pure masculine God He cares for nothing but the truth

@Karmadhi only when they feel that way. Lots of girls also in the mood for casual sex. You leave them out. Depends so much on the mood of the female. What if she is looking for sexual experimentation?

Aaaak gives me a sense of protection. It's a tribal God but this tribalism is helping me understand certain truths

@Karmadhi but what if that's all she wants. Some women don't care if the guy is going to be committed. At least she is getting his physical intimacy. Why would she have issues if that is what she is looking for. For example, I'm just looking for casual sex. As long as a man is sexually interested in me, I don't need his bullshit rules, I just want him then I'd be glad that he is interested in me

in aaaak, I see the male version of Kali

@SamC True feminism is giving women wings to feel free, strength to be strong and values to be their best self.