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I'm learning more in this department which means I need to have a stage orange mindset.

If everyone decided to change all at once, the society would collapse, this is understandable. Yes. Significant changes and openings to relativity might destroy families or the whole structure. Change is desirable obviously and we do pay a price eventually, however it all works out for the better. Like you said you need to appreciate the rate of change. Conservatives are not very tolerant of change and that's not because they are bad people. Majority of people around the world don't have the luxury to sit and think lofty ideas about the relativity of identity. But do you sometimes think that change being a permanent state, no matter how slow, is also a bit of a danger, because there are things that are worth preserving. Things we cannot simply experiment with or else we end up paying huge costs. I see it this way. Change is desirable. But only to a certain extent. Such an extent or boundary needs to be determined to have a perfect curve of growth without going off the deeper end. This means there has to be a resting point or a mid point on this curve where conservation or preservation would make more sense than to continue with making more and more changes. Leo you talk about infinity. Infinity does look good in theory. And as you say we should appreciate the rate of change. But I don't think it's so much about the lofty ideas about the relativity of identity, or the experience of liberation when you're freed from these identities, it's more about how much change should we really allow room for. Because at a certain point the death of civilization or the collapse of society might become inevitable whether this change is sudden or extremely slow. When a sudden change happens it's a shock. However even slow changes over time can radically alter a social image or structure and this is equally dangerous, only that it gives more time before the eventual collapse. I think you're wrong if you believe that change should be permanent in terms of relativity. Why don't you think of a mid point,( of course this is very arbitrary) where change becomes less desirable and equilibrium is achieved? This is in regard to the gender social construct video.

Leo you've been a blessing. You have helped me so much. I couldn't have done this without you. I hope and pray that you recover from your issues. You're an absolute blessing in my tough times Thank you so much

Leo please save me lol.

Since March 1, my forum interaction has reduced by 80%. Great. I don't feel the need to constantly interact with people anymore. Now I can be at peace. Also topics don't attract my attention as much. Now how I interact in the forum is absolutely vital.. I want to interact with the cream of the forum not with the crap of the forum. So I'll pay attention to who I talk to. How I talk. What I talk. If it is even essential. Essential to my work? Ill maintain a daily log of my forum interactions. If there are any notes on what to avoid, I'll include that. If there is something beneficial I'll make a note here to keep an eye on those users and those posts or threads. Keep a log on how you do things here. Don't be swayed by bs threads. this person is good at playing victim.. Everytime they are held accountable for their behavior, they go around telling everyone how they are suffering in life, how bad stuff is happening to them, a lot of exaggerated and made up bullshit, they are least bothered about what's happening in their life, they won't care even if their entire family is dead, you're dealing with a true psychopath here who has shown zero empathy time and time again, they manipulate others. They are attention seeking, when someone doesn't give them the attention they need, they flip out and start making accusations. Lots of false accusations. This is their sadistic way of feeling better in life. Completely throw this person out and avoid this person. They are absolutely not deserving of love. Or even attention and sympathy. They try to come across as a Saint but in reality they are a textbook narcissist. If you ever fall in their trap, the ride is going to be very rough and they will torment you incessantly and never stop being in your life, you're basically asking to be attached by an entity who is going to make your life a hell if you don't cut them out. Their victim behavior is simply an act to convince the world that they are human, in reality they are hardly phased by anything at all. It doesn't matter to them even if everyone turns up dead, they don't have an iota of empathy, they are basically soulless looking to grab some power, evil, evil, avoid, venture at your own risk, once you're trapped in this person's games, you're fucked and trapped. They will do all gymnastics to make you feel guilty and ashamed of yourself. They have a problem that they won't fix because that problem is their source of power, they are destructive and they will destroy you in the process of self destruction. Never gonna deal with the likes of them again.

Yea made that decision long ago.

Prayer to aaaak Help me. Protect me. Keep me closer to your spirit. I feel persecuted in this world. I want to feel free. I don't know the direction Show me the path Lead me in the direction. I search for your soul I'm famished. Without love or hope or direction. Without meaning or purpose Without fulfilment My spirit in discontent I wander aimlessly Show me where I can find you and become one With the holy spirit

I will need to gather resources that will improve my intellectual capacity.

. This is the thing that changed my life.

@sda should Leo only keep banning people? Has he got nothing better to do? He comes here every interval to help people like me and you with his insights , and not for the task of going around banning people, it's a waste of his time and his important skill which is to teach people.

@Kalki Avatar to be honest to be on social media and not get distracted is extremely hard and even unnecessary. I'm not protecting, just stating facts based on experience that this is what happens long term. You're lucky if you aren't getting sucked into it. This is like saying search for healthy options on the McDonalds menu. That won't happen..

@Kalki Avatar you think majority of the crowd on insta or tik tok think like this? Majority of the crowd there is into cheap things I'm so glad that @Leo Gura never went into those places. His wisdom. If they were to be here, this place would have burned down to rubble in no time. Those people discuss everything except actualization and spirituality. Mostly just fights over petty stuff and bullying others over personal life details.. You honestly wouldn't want those people here. I closed all my social media except Youtube which I don't consider as social media but a learning hub.. Social media is very toxic. Frankly if those people came here, most serious workers and actualizerz( we nerdz ) would just quit. Now if you want to get rid of majority of serious people here, (this place can be toxic because of the debates but it's not as shallow as social media, at least people discuss something here ) you can definitely bring social media people here. But in time you'll regret it. Even the mention of Tik Tok is vomit inducing. They will turn this into a song dance entertainment zoo. People will start posting their dance routines and stupid jokes instead of their meditation routines or serious discussions /political topics.

@Kalki Avatar they are precisely on instagram because they don't need this place. They would be bored.

Leo should really do a facepalm. That would be awesome

@Kalki Avatar please don't even talk about tik tok to Leo.. He will straight up vomit. His work is very distinguished and not meant to be rallied on cheap places like Tik Tok and instagram. He is not ignorant. If he wanted this, he would have done this already. He is a self aware man with a good head on his shoulders. He doesn't need social media bullshit.. He is doing collaborations to extend his learnings to like minded people to create some groundwork. He has enough social recognition, not that he even cares about it at this point. He cares about deeper stuff if you have followed his work closely. He would rather go on a retreat than be surfing on social media. He needs his space like any other true seeker on their path. Please understand him.

He is not the social media type. It's not suited to him. Plus he has no time or investment or need for that.

What do you mean by this? Example?

I'm glad that I came so far.

I need to take giant leaps in life.

@Kalki Avatar I know things that's why I say it. Leo does not have time for it.

@Kalki Avatar Leo does not have time to manage all that. Putting people to work means supervision. Leo has enough on his plate when it comes to supervising. He won't do it. And doesn't need to.

4 key areas that I want to work on in terms of ability Alertness (mental alertness and being active Memory Self awareness How to be a strategic motherfucker